If a girl is the "dominant" in a relationship, would you date her? (Page 2)

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This question is a bit personal so please don't be so cruel. If you don't understand please ask before making a comment. 🐢

Anonymous · Answer

Me myself I dont think either person should be "dominant"... I don't like pushy or overassertive women and am the kind of guy that would rather just drop it and not care rather than try to "win"... by bickering. Just chiiiiiiiiiilllllllllllletttttt skillet. People need to learn how to argue instead of flat out fight with the person.

Silent_Bob · Answer

Yes. A woman like that would keep me grounded in reality. And it makes me try harder in terms of pulling my weight and proving that I’m worthy of her investment.

ShadowofRegret · Answer

I would, that sounds exactly like my type to be honest.😊

cityboyinthecountry · Answer

Men and women compliment each other. The woman could be more vocal but it doesn't mean that the man is a pushover. Yes, men serve their wives but ladies are subject to their husbands. However, if one is dominating over the other, then things need to change because one shouldn't dominate over the other.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

No. I couldn't. Nothing a woman could do would ever make it worthwhile.

The thing is the alpha kind of men won't do this but women typically like them still. Beta men would love this but women typically dont like them. Lol. Just find a beta wimpy man if you want someone to lead.

GoodEnoughThen · Answer

I only date "dominant" women. In other words, I only date women who are highly confident in all aspects of their lives... their work, their play, their sexuality, their motherhood, their relationships.

kdid35 · Answer

It depends on what she's dominant about if she wants all control and that kind of takes away from being a man in a relationship so a little dominant does not bad but controlling everything it's not right

Adam1978 · Answer

Well being dominant as in knowing and showing what she wants is a good thing but being a pushover and not respecting my wishes and wants is a deal breaker. Ie both needs to understand that they don't always get what they want.

El_Heffe · Answer

I think your best bet would be a slightly submissive guy. Not a true submissive who would crave abuse. Lots of guys I know would love a relationship with a Dominant Woman.

JohnAlaska43 · Answer

Well I dont mind my Girl wanting to do those things. But I also want to be apart of the decision making as well. Im also a macho man as well I think there is some reasons for a man to take charge as well. I like being equsl in the relationship.

Sharkiefoo · Answer

I have social axiety so this is pretty much what I searching for, just to have support with every things that most guys wouldn't struggle with at all, like leaving the house alone. I think he would addmit it if he's comtable with you.

the_hopeful_fish · Answer

Honestly the way i see it both parties should give all the things you listen love protection support etc i dont believe in the old fashioned the man is head of household bull crap because honestly in todays age both sexes have equal opportunity so that way of thinking is simply outdated

subservan4life · Answer

I would be her servant for life... I do have some experience in sub servant live_in houseboi... both for straight and gay couple.. of course there were times that I only licked women's breasts possibly her vagina... but I am a real thing and I have given up on finding the situation that will satisfy me for life

sawno · Answer

In bed i'd like a dominant partner, i am a switch myself but very slightly lean submissive since its the most pleasurable out of the two. Outside of bed i rather have us as equals.

FakeName123 · Answer

I ain't a male puppy, but an actual man. So no, I don't find any interest in it. In fact, I find it ridiculous knowing I am probably twice as strong as the average woman. Don't see how she can protect me.

Cybernizer · Answer

Absolutely! If a woman is able to take control of situations then bonus points to her! Just be prepared to live a tomboyish lifestyle.

Gavyn · Answer

I like it to be 65% guy, 35% girl. P. S. Don't even bother with guys at your age. I swear they're not even worth it.

ofitziper · Answer

I think you ment dominant in general. And yea, i always laughd i can be the guy or the girl in the relationship😂 anyway as long as she speaks more then me it exelent👌🏻

Wharvey98 · Answer

I’d be willing to give it a try. I’m not a particularly pushy guy. And at least when I remember to take my meds I’m pretty chill. So yeah it could work.

deronmir · Answer

There shouldn't be a Dominant in a relationship. No one should obey and no one should rule. If there is, then its not a real relationship it won't even last a month.

JoshGould · Answer

Honestly I'd rather that or somewhere in the middle, I'm quite happy to be supported but i also think that i should be able to support someone too?

Sexuality in particular, from personal experience I'm quite into not being dominant, or at least codominance

Anonymous · Answer

Well depends. By dominant if she is controlling all the time, throw away my legacy stuff and try to change me to her pleasing in my life ambitions then no. If by dominant she initiates conversation, wants me to talk to her and treats me as a mother would her son probably fine with it. Can't not let go of the extra care she gives me😋

abc3643 · Answer

Sure. I'm like a dog. Fairly obedient and let you have your way. But I will bark very loudly if I think we are in trouble and bite if I am abused.

SergeantSmoke · Answer

I most CERTAINLY want that! A Girl being the Dominate member of our Relationship is a MUST for me! I'm the Submissive one, and would prefer a Relationship where She's the Boss!

holograph · Answer

I don't know. I want to be in a relationship with a girl where we both kind of protect each other. I don't really feel it should be a one-way thing.

Juxtapose · Answer

I actually prefer that kind of gentle domination you describe. I consider myself a switch though so I'm pretty flexible, so long as I'm not stuck being in charge and making all the choices all the time xD

Dextrosis · Answer

If she knows how to drive, I'll let her take the wheel every now and then.

If she knows how to drive better than me, I'll make sure she's in the driver seat when its more than I can handle.

Doesn't mean I stop learning or practicing.

Massageman · Answer

I understand what you are saying, and I'm sure there are some guys out there that would be happy with that arrangement. But, if you are 15, you can give this some more thought as you mature a few more years.

jeremythedrummer · Answer

it should go both ways honestly. Thats how you maintain a good relationship. Im a mix between dom and sub, so i guess it could work for me unless she is totally dominant and becomes more like a mother than a partner.

AnonAndrew · Answer

Nah, I wouldn't. Not my thing. But I'm sure you'll find someone, there's a man out there for every pretty girl. :-)

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