Would you date a person if they were a bad kisser?

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I've done it in the past but i don't know if I'd do it again. Wbu?

fashionguy17 · Accepted Answer

Some of y'all are judgmental. Lol. I have read things where people have asked:

-Would you date someone who was bad at sex?

-Would you date someone who can't kiss?

-Would you date someone who doesn't talk during sex?

All of these issues can be resolved by teaching the person how to be better at sex or better at kissing. It's really a non issue.

If people are concerned with these little things and see them as deal breakers, you need to figure out if you're cut out for a relationship, because your relationships will continue to be short for trivial reasons.

MusicMayhem · Accepted Answer

Did once. Never again. Strangely enough she was ok the first date and I didn't know it was her first kiss til she told me. Then she got insecure about it after the date wondering if she was bad at kissing. Date 2 it was horrible; like kissing a slobbery dog so didn't see her again after that.

Claireluvskaren · Accepted Answer

I dated some guys who were all spit or tongue, no clue how to kiss, but that wasn't the reason we didn't last, on the first date with my now husband he went for a goodnight kiss, and I pulled away, in fact I didn't kiss him until our 4th date, and when we did, my reaction was WOW, he still laughs about it to this day, it was like fireworks and rockets going off, he totally blew my mind with the way he kissed, how he touched my face as his lips and tongue touched mine. And he is still a great kisser. Wish you girls could experience his skills.

Mickey9999 · Accepted Answer

No. Sometime you can’t teach an old dog new tricks. I was like 14 when i stopped going out with someone because he was a bad kisser. But last year, came across a not so good kisser and it wasn’t the reason I stopped seeing him but was partly to do with it. I dated another that didn’t do a lot of kissing and it wasn’t the main reason to break up but was definitely a strong factor!

AmandaYVR · Answer

Nope. No time for that. A couple of chance, but if it's that bad to start with, it's never goona get great.

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

Sure! You can train someone to be a good kisser... with lots and lots of practice. So it's a win/win for both of us, lol.

coachTanthony · Answer

I have only had one BAD kisser and it didn't work out ! LOL

Desconhecida · Answer

Never. It's the first dealbreaker. No spark, no point.

SueAnon84 · Answer

Yes. Lol. Honestly, unless they were doing it on purpose, they can be taught better. Plus, I don't date for the sex anymore (I learned that as I had gotten older). No offense, that stuff is important but it shouldn't be the deciding factor in a relationship! If they care about you and it's to work, they will try to improve their foreplay skills!

Ayer93 · Answer

My current girlfriend kissed terribly at the start. Kind've just pressed her lips on me to the point where it felt more painful than nice. But I gave her hints here and there and now she's a great kisser. As long as they want to improve, I don't see a reason to break up with someone over their kissing skills.

SpiderLady · Answer

If dating was something that I did, then no probably not. If you're not into the kiss, that's usually a sign that those lips weren't meant for you. I want to get intoxicated by their lips when we kiss... Not just the first time but every time.

Anonymous · Answer

Why NOT? No one born with a guidebook but definitely we can practice until he becomes a Pro. There’s a book Kiss for dummies!!! 😂

lovedejj_xo · Answer

Once a guy bites your tongue and you start bleeding it’s hard to say “sure practice on me” again

Avicenna · Answer

Yes, plus it's easy to get good at that- we'd practice!

KJay25 · Answer

Some people can learn depending on what it is they are doing wrong which just takes time but I've definitely had some people who have problems that can't be fixed and i tried for awhile but i couldn't get past it.

ImHere4You · Answer

Absolutely, you can help them learn and there’s much more about relationships than kissing. Kissing should play less than 1% about whether you would or wouldn’t date someone.

quoter · Answer

The picture you've chosen for the question is not just a bad kisser. The dude is literally eating her lips. And I've never kissed someone because of some stupid local restriction so... I don't know

Kissland_ang · Answer

The question is  How do you know if someone is a bad kisser? What someone might like maybe someone else doesn’t like. If that makes sense

Anonymous · Answer

I had one who slobbered like a dog when she kissed and nearly ripped the pink ligaments that hold the tongue in place almost from my mouth. I had another who's breath smelled like a damn ashtray. I had another who had a phobia about even kissing and wouldn't even kiss anybody.

red_blackbird · Answer

I married a horrible kisser lmaooo 4 years happily married tho, so 🤷‍♂️ personality is everything to me tbh

Keyarose · Answer

People don't date others of the stupidest shit. I don't care if he's a bad kisser. If he's good to me, I will keep him around.

CherryRoseChampange · Answer

If I had any hope to help them change that, the thumbnail picture ripped it away and burned it in front of me. So I guess, no lol

Blueeyes81 · Answer

I couldn't. I made out with a woman that used a forceful tongue. It was way way way too much. She just stuck it in my mouth and began thrashing it around. I couldn't handle that for the rest of my life.

Apple1996 · Answer

Yepp my hubby is a bad kisser and I have grown to like the way he kisses

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