Would you date a person if they were a bad kisser?

Question

I've done it in the past but i don't know if I'd do it again. Wbu?

fashionguy17 · Accepted Answer

Some of y'all are judgmental. Lol. I have read things where people have asked:

-Would you date someone who was bad at sex?

-Would you date someone who can't kiss?

-Would you date someone who doesn't talk during sex?

All of these issues can be resolved by teaching the person how to be better at sex or better at kissing. It's really a non issue.

If people are concerned with these little things and see them as deal breakers, you need to figure out if you're cut out for a relationship, because your relationships will continue to be short for trivial reasons.

MusicMayhem · Accepted Answer

Did once. Never again. Strangely enough she was ok the first date and I didn't know it was her first kiss til she told me. Then she got insecure about it after the date wondering if she was bad at kissing. Date 2 it was horrible; like kissing a slobbery dog so didn't see her again after that.

Claireluvskaren · Accepted Answer

I dated some guys who were all spit or tongue, no clue how to kiss, but that wasn't the reason we didn't last, on the first date with my now husband he went for a goodnight kiss, and I pulled away, in fact I didn't kiss him until our 4th date, and when we did, my reaction was WOW, he still laughs about it to this day, it was like fireworks and rockets going off, he totally blew my mind with the way he kissed, how he touched my face as his lips and tongue touched mine. And he is still a great kisser. Wish you girls could experience his skills.

Mickey9999 · Accepted Answer

No. Sometime you can’t teach an old dog new tricks. I was like 14 when i stopped going out with someone because he was a bad kisser. But last year, came across a not so good kisser and it wasn’t the reason I stopped seeing him but was partly to do with it. I dated another that didn’t do a lot of kissing and it wasn’t the main reason to break up but was definitely a strong factor!

AmandaYVR · Answer

Nope. No time for that. A couple of chance, but if it's that bad to start with, it's never goona get great.

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

Sure! You can train someone to be a good kisser... with lots and lots of practice. So it's a win/win for both of us, lol.

coachTanthony · Answer

I have only had one BAD kisser and it didn't work out ! LOL

Desconhecida · Answer

Never. It's the first dealbreaker. No spark, no point.

SueAnon84 · Answer

Yes. Lol. Honestly, unless they were doing it on purpose, they can be taught better. Plus, I don't date for the sex anymore (I learned that as I had gotten older). No offense, that stuff is important but it shouldn't be the deciding factor in a relationship! If they care about you and it's to work, they will try to improve their foreplay skills!

Ayer93 · Answer

My current girlfriend kissed terribly at the start. Kind've just pressed her lips on me to the point where it felt more painful than nice. But I gave her hints here and there and now she's a great kisser. As long as they want to improve, I don't see a reason to break up with someone over their kissing skills.

SpiderLady · Answer

If dating was something that I did, then no probably not. If you're not into the kiss, that's usually a sign that those lips weren't meant for you. I want to get intoxicated by their lips when we kiss... Not just the first time but every time.

Anonymous · Answer

Why NOT? No one born with a guidebook but definitely we can practice until he becomes a Pro. There’s a book Kiss for dummies!!! 😂

lovedejj_xo · Answer

Once a guy bites your tongue and you start bleeding it’s hard to say “sure practice on me” again

Avicenna · Answer

Yes, plus it's easy to get good at that- we'd practice!

KJay25 · Answer

Some people can learn depending on what it is they are doing wrong which just takes time but I've definitely had some people who have problems that can't be fixed and i tried for awhile but i couldn't get past it.

ImHere4You · Answer

Absolutely, you can help them learn and there’s much more about relationships than kissing. Kissing should play less than 1% about whether you would or wouldn’t date someone.

quoter · Answer

The picture you've chosen for the question is not just a bad kisser. The dude is literally eating her lips. And I've never kissed someone because of some stupid local restriction so... I don't know

Kissland_ang · Answer

The question is  How do you know if someone is a bad kisser? What someone might like maybe someone else doesn’t like. If that makes sense

Anonymous · Answer

I had one who slobbered like a dog when she kissed and nearly ripped the pink ligaments that hold the tongue in place almost from my mouth. I had another who's breath smelled like a damn ashtray. I had another who had a phobia about even kissing and wouldn't even kiss anybody.

red_blackbird · Answer

I married a horrible kisser lmaooo 4 years happily married tho, so 🤷‍♂️ personality is everything to me tbh

Keyarose · Answer

People don't date others of the stupidest shit. I don't care if he's a bad kisser. If he's good to me, I will keep him around.

CherryRoseChampange · Answer

If I had any hope to help them change that, the thumbnail picture ripped it away and burned it in front of me. So I guess, no lol

Blueeyes81 · Answer

I couldn't. I made out with a woman that used a forceful tongue. It was way way way too much. She just stuck it in my mouth and began thrashing it around. I couldn't handle that for the rest of my life.

Apple1996 · Answer

Yepp my hubby is a bad kisser and I have grown to like the way he kisses

Hamsteroids · Answer

Its nothing al trole practice won’t fix. We were all bad kissers at the beginning lol

ImJustCurious13 · Answer

I never had my first kiss yet, but I would date someone who's bad at it. I don't care, they're still showing their affection and that's what really matters, plus it could always be worked on.

MotherlessDaughter · Answer

Oh hell to the no I ain't got time for no fake s***.

nerms123 · Answer

Roflmao at that photo

krisnic28 · Answer

No. Big turn off. If im gonna date you, i'd want to be kissing you.

ciitruskiwi · Answer

Nope. I broke up with a guy cause he was a bad kisser. Like really bad.

Meditatingsquirrel79 · Answer

That picture is so funny. "Sponge kiss time. MUAH!" But if you love this person but is a bad kisser, so what. Teach the person to kiss.

MahaRajput · Answer

Nowdays no one is a bad kisser. People watch so much porn and sexual stuff on internet. I don't think so anyone would not make upto it.

sageevalentinee · Answer

To be honest I didn't know what good kissing was until I met my current boyfriend, he's brilliant.

Melshmallow046 · Answer

My boyfriend and I were each other's first kiss, so we figured it out together and it's a non-issue for us.

Kaazsz · Answer

I’m a great kisser every girl has told me so. I’ll just teach her.

MrGentleman94 · Answer

Wouldn't part of the dating experience be to show them how to do it right? I thought that that's part of what makes it special.

starasun · Answer

nope. i've never kissed anyone so i'd need them to take the lead lmao

Maggsxo · Answer

Yes i would, in shouldn’t matter if they were bad, when you date someone you date them cos you like them not cos You don’t like them kissing obviously your gona find the good things and bad things

Liam_Hayden · Answer

Of course I would. I will take a kind girl who can't kiss over a good kisser who is a rude b*tch on any day that ends in "y." I can teach her to kiss. I can't teach her to be a kind person.

TheWaterisFine · Answer

I've stopped dating men because they couldnt kiss 🤷🏾‍♀️

LonewolfMeme · Answer

I was a bad kisser at the start and I started getting better after a while. It takes practice but it's never the end of the world

AcidT0y · Answer

Never kissed someone who was a bad kisser. I've heard of it but I can't imagine how someone could be bad at something so easy.

Massageman · Answer

Sure. Think of all those fun lessons you could have.

OrangeBoy2 · Answer

Experiencing those life phases are good opportunities to create great bounds with the partner. Yes.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

yes if their a nice girl cuz people can always learn

Iron_Man · Answer

Of course I can teach her how to kiss like I did my last girlfriend

Scarecrow13 · Answer

Sure. Why should how well they kiss be thatcimportant? Besides, it gets better with practice.

Agem123 · Answer

I had a friends with benefits who knew how to fuck but sucked at kissing. I wouldn't do it again.

Sssss993 · Answer

Relationships depend on a lot of things more than just the way they kiss

5_AM_Oracle · Answer

Yes, you can teach him

eyeslikeapisces · Answer

No way how can you date someone i you don't like the way they kiss. Plus you shouldn't have to teach someone that...

breky · Answer

If they were willing to take criticism  Bigger issue for me was that the ex never would kiss me, i was always the initiator

daddy1995 · Answer

you date for kissing 😑 only kissing? there are lot other things to do better than that

Anonymous · Answer

Looks like that in photo is licking her, or sticking his toungue in her mouth like vagina... wow.. She should of slapped the guy...

Xavier1954 · Answer

No I wouldn't I think kissing is important in any realatioship.

BDBishop · Answer

sure would some people just need to be school right

FlirtingwithDizazter · Answer

Sure until I kissed them and then and I doubt I'd stay with them much longer

PureCuriosityy · Answer

Definitely definitely not, there's a lof of fish in the sea

aristotlemp3 · Answer

Personally, no. But it all depends how much does one value kissing

PositiveNote · Answer

NO! Do not make a second date with a bad kisser!!!

JustTheTrue · Answer

I don’t care, I can teach them.

ShortCircuit · Answer

I would never know any different.

Anonymous · Answer

If they're a bad kisser you can teach them not to be! Help each other out a bit

BlackMex · Answer

I would. I could teach him how to kiss properly

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