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because of the invention of the internet and the tinder culture we now have the hookup mentality. why get married when you can hook up regularly. but I'm not complaining any women interested in dating hit me up lmao
What’s wrong with men?
nothing is wrong with them. I have one I like pretty well. that's enough. men are difficult to keep in captivity. I'd like another girlfriend. and will always be interested in seeing a nude girl. guys just not so much
I would actually say that the hookup mentality came with contraceptives and the internet and tinder simply augmented that mindset exponentially by making it easy to "window shop" for a potential sex partner.
Feminist has destroyed the male female dynamic with it's false victim narratives and anti-male agenda.
Men don't want to deal with the childish bullshit any longer.
With the internet and apps like tinder dating has become more shallow and more about looks
"Dating" seems to have dissolved into a mess of hook-ups and social media fake "images" rather than a series of constructive, compatibility-finding encounters in different situations.
A lot of women have a lot of personality problems. So if you want to separate yourself from them, you’re going to have to start putting in work. If you don’t want ot work, no soup for you.
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It's possible there is an underlying component to the behaviour of your partner's. Some of these conditions cause one to not pay any attention to anyone. ADHD, is a neurological disorder in which the individual who has the condition experiences symptoms of hyperactivity, inattentiveness, disregard for consequences,, that's ADHD, or. If no one you know has that condition, they are just dicks and I wouldn't waste my time on them
Men qualify to a woman first. If he makes you feel like you have to prove yourself to him first, he’s someone you should avoid.
Probably because people have so many options, and social pressure to not be in a relationship for fear of missing out.
because dating is expensive as hell and women have an entitled attitude. Its so expensive now you cannot justify the expense unless she has proven she is "worth it".
Our society has become perverted, straying away from how relationships should be. I prefer traditional relationships and would not want someone who is against it.
Because we've ruined it both intentionally and unintentionally, there are just too many issues to name
you're so right
Everyone is on their phones and not having any in person socializing. They don't want to put forth the effort. That's my take on it, anyway.
I was gonna say the same thing mannnn,
Throughout the history, every new discovery led to a change in human behavior. Our time is social media discovery, and these are the results.
Dating is about proving you're worth it. That was never any different. Just in 2019 people seem to be unable to cope with life...
People in 2019 just don't have enough to prove their worth, because they're not.
If they were they wouldn't have prove anything or try anything. Sadly, there is very few people like that.
@little_bird1 you don't need to have anything to be worth it.
A rise in often unrealistic standards based mostly on the stubborn idea of a "dream partner" whilst also assuming that the one with issue has no issues.
Standards are just feelings. And no one has the right to judge how you feel about something.
@little_bird1 This is true, too bad most people don't see it that way
What the fuck is going on with millennials wanting to text all the time? They get an actual phone call, they avoid their phone like it's a dead rat.
People should be actually TALKING more, not texting.
Omg preach!! Im so annoyed withh people wanting to text. Inhate it
Most of the men only want sex, they "need to be so impressed" to want more from you, but honestly, I think, the don't even want to be impressed, because they like easy sex.
Well reality is men want loyal women who aren't after their money, their livelihood or any thing else. They want a women who wants them for them. Most women aren't like that. So it's why they prefer just quick oil change.
It can be difficult because of all the social media and texting. Ita hard to tell when someone's being genuine sometimes because of the disconnect we experience with just texting
Because the definition of what love is differs now than what it was then.
Women who unironically emphasize with the quote in your post, are what is wrong with modern dating.
I don't know what you mean? 10/10 times when I approach first, I ask on a date first, I kiss him first, I call him first, I make my interest as clear as day... they ghost me or dump me. But with those that I don't do that shit, they want me. 10/10 man. So I dunno, it's not just a guys thing. Just sayin.
@little_bird1 So you don't reject, ghost or dump any of the men who ask you on a date first?
I do. But so do men. So we all have the same problem, it's not gender specific.
Guys problems: Girls are either slutty or hard to get.
Girl's problems: Guys are immature or insecure or both.
Don't ask me, i have no clue.