I Pushed her away?

[Anonymous]

I was being needy and clingy and I pushed her away simply because being on deployment and have no freedom to see other women I attached myself to her. I like her a lot. I'm a good friend with her sister and she told me that I should give it some time and try later on. She said I still have a chance, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

Uhhh you can’t really do anything

You can’t free yourself from deployment. She doesn’t want to invest in any kind of relationship with you... she clearly feels pressured by you and doesn’t want to be. Let it go , go on about your life and live well.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Ouch... yeah she sounds like she's moved past you, sorry.

You did push her away. It seems like she took the hint and moved on with her life. Take the hint, and move on with your life as well.

[Asker]

Is there anyway I can fix it, after sometime. I mean I know I personally can't but maybe she can over look the past

[Cynicaldreamer]

Hmm, I honestly don't know. It depends on how she felt about you. If she still has few for you? Maybe. But just reading over that message, it sounds like she's trying to subtly tell you she has moved on.

You could try just being friends with her and see if things change over time. But don't go in with any expectations

[TonyBologna25]

Time to move on. Let her know you appreciate her being mature about it, and wish her the best. Breakups suck man. Not the end of the world though.

[Avicenna]

It sounds like she isn't interested.

[Asker]

Could be because I'm only in this state for 3 months?

[Avicenna]

Quite likely

[Asker]

Because I'm getting out of the army in about yeah and a half and I'll go to study in her state, do you think she'll be interested still if she'll be single?

[Avicenna]

It generally does not work like that. You can contact her once you're out, but dont do so with any expectations. More likely, you'd meet someone else before then anyway.

[Ally247]

That message basically says move on

[Asker]

What about later in a year or so?

[Ally247]

That message did not say wait for her, so you shouldn't. I don't think she'll think twice before going out with someone else in a year, or even sooner, so you shouldn't either.