Boys, would you date a woman on the chubbier side? (Page 4)

[neptune88]

The woman in the pic isn't chubby but big boned, i don't like big boned girls but chubby ofc i would.

[Jaxx24]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Nothing wrong with being a bit chubby as long as you are happy and healthy, there is definitely someone out there who will appreciate you for who you are in your personality. Being chubby even really suits some people!

[FabianChang]

Probably no. I'm health conscious and they should be too. Being fat means you made no effort to stay healthy or don't care, which comes with many health issues.

Not saying it can't happen, but can they keep up with me?

[BrotherFrost]

[Asker]

It doesn’t mean that. Honestly, educate yourself please.

[FabianChang]

Educate me then

[Asker]

I hope this isn’t a waste of time.

[Asker]

Being fat, can be a cause of diseases and disorders, not only mental disorders, but physical. PCOS, causes thyroid problems which leads to very easy weight gain, and hard weight loss. I’m not saying all fat people have PCOS, but I’m using it as an example. There are other reasons people are fat.

[Asker]

Including people who stress eat, and binge (but no purge)

[Asker]

I’m fat, because I ate to much as a child even though I went out and played with my friends for hours, on top of hours! I ate too much unhealthy food. But now, I barley eat anymore and it has helped me, so I’ve made the effort and loss 36 pounds so far, so yeah, not all fat people have made no effort.

[FabianChang]

First off, I want to say this. I was 40 lbs overweight before. Through high school and college, I didn't care what I eat. Later on when I developed a specific disease, reducing my overall body fat helped me relieve the unwanted symptoms; its chronic. That was when I made the change to stay active and eat healthy.

Making an effort to eat healthy 2 months out of the year is not the same thing as making the effort to stay healthy. This a lifestyle, not just something you can say yes on somedays and no on others. If you have to think about your choices, then it's not really a lifestyle, it's a diet and it won't last.

You can bring disease up and yes, its related to food. Stop eating. I mean take 2 days out of the week and just didn't eat. Will you die? No. Is it the norm? No. Am I getting my health back? Yes. Am I saying you need to be like me? Absolutely not, but I don't want anyone to say that they made an effort when its really a lifestyle that's the answer. (I do IF on other days).

[updog45]

Nah, because of how easy it is to not be chubby, just takes a conscious deliberate effort. I see it as laziness when most people are fat. I get some people have medical conditions and things like that, that's why I said most.

[Asker]

All I can say is it’s not “easy to not be chubby” for people with mental disorders, and psychical health issues! Yeah some people are lazy but not all, Jesus.

[updog45]

I literally said most, not all.

[SenNyanko]

Yep, perhaps not if they were completely obese and fat, but thick girls are fine just as much as average or thin

[Liadon]

Sure, as long as they still cared about their own health.

[Ian849]

Yeah sure, generally tend to go for the more chubby/curvy women

[oldoldold]

Like everything it depends. Because who ever i date will change over time im not too focused on looks for long term

[ZeonWolf69]

Of. Ourse. Nothing wrong with being kept warm and cold wintery nights.

[Emerald5]

Yes that is my preference. As long as her personality ans some lifestyle is compatible, it shouldn't be a problem.