Boys, would you date a woman on the chubbier side?

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curiousnorway · Accepted Answer

No, I wouldn't. Here's the reason I won't date people who's either chubby, round, slightly overweight or fat:

1. I don't find it aesthetically speaking. Regardless of if it's a man or a woman, being slim looks better. I don't like round facial features, fat everywhere etc. You don't have to be fat to turn me off. Kesha in 2019 is slightly round in her cheeks and I'm not attracted to that either although she's a cute girl.

(The picture in your question is misleading. The model isn't overweight, round or chubby. She's just tall and most likely lift, since she has broader shoulders. She's still considered slim).

2. Being overweight is a family characteristics which is the main reason I finds overweight people unattractive other than the aesthetics itself and health. The majority of my family are somewhere between slightly chubby to morbidly obese and they've experienced health problems. I associate slim people with "strangers" or "people outside of my family", while overweight ones could be my cousins, aunts, uncles and grandparents. I swear, I've no incestuous thoughts.

3. Sitting on the lap, cuddling, having sex etc. isn't practical if my date is too heavy and I'm a very small, short person.

Jasper9694 · Accepted Answer

A girl's weight isn't too much of a problem for me. It really depends on how heavy and what their eating habits are. I'm 290, I used to be 385 and I've been working hard to lose my weight and better my habits. It would set me back if they had bad habits and made things harder to stay healthier. I purposely don't buy sweets or unhealthy things so it's not around me to be tempting but if she puts it around me, I'll struggle to fight it and will overall make my progress be lower and will in turn make me become depressed that I'm losing my hard earned progress.

Bananaman177 · Answer

Hubba hubba. . . Fat-bottomed girls make this rockin' world go 'round.

Cruciatusdeatheater · Answer

I prefer chubby/pudgy girls. Not saying I wouldn’t date a thin girl, but I generally prefer pudgy ones. Don’t know what it is, but I dig ‘em. I don’t normally go for looks either. It just happens that the majority of girls with great personalities happen to be pudgier than most haha.

brennanhuff · Answer

it depends on how much. I don't care if a woman has some or a little extra weight. But if she's obese than I'm most likely not going to be physically attracted to her. It wouldn't stop me from being friends of course, but I wouldn't be attracted to her.

LukeLugh · Answer

I would date the girl in the photo displayed, I find myself attracted to girls who are genuinely thick (due to working out or predisposition) but may have a bit of visible body fat. The idyllic of course would be for that girl to not have the body fat attached, but that is largely unfeasible and does not alter my sense of attraction much at all. Oddly enough there have been some girls (East Asians) I have been sexually attracted to that have more body fat than "thickness", this may be due to their overall shape appearing more functional and better put together along with a smooth/shiny skin tone.

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

Depends on how she carries the weight. If she is chubby but still has a figure and is in good health then I have no problem with it (in fact I think they can look quite attractive), but if she is obese, unhealthily fat then no (basically most men are fine with anything that isn't the extremes (morbidly obese or morbidly skinny).

Animus95 · Answer

Yeah, there is nothing wrong with that, but there are some things that I'm looking for. If you are chubby not feeling good about yourself, yet doing nothing about it - then no, I won't. I'm chubby myself and I'm working towards a change instead of blaming the world for not dating as much as my mates do.

hahahmm · Answer

Never again. I used to defend women who were a little overweight but had nice curves. After hearing feminists tell men that we must accept all women - even 480 pound hippos - as beautiful, I say let women defend themselves now & raised my standards. Cause the thing about chubby women is that it’s a symptom of their lack of discipline and feeling (as far as relationships) that the guy’s needs/opinions don’t matter.

Reaperbot666 · Answer

I have dated plus size ladies in the past. So long as she is generally health and likes how she looks. I am fine with dating one in the future also.

HighHithom · Answer

I would like to say I'm an encompassing guy, but I've only dated skinny or slim girls to now. I've heard chubbier girls are more fun, but you loose the 'immediate attractiveness ' appeal (not being mean honest). Guess I'd see if ever in that situation

SjE78 · Answer

I would yes, I focus on personality over looks... as looks fade with time. but i have dated women over the years who varied in size, shape and looks... the ones who i avoided had bad personalities

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on what you mean by chubby. If she is a relatively healthly weight but has a few extra pounds, yes. If she is noticeably overweight and unhealthy, no. I want to be with someone that is healthy and takes care of their body, not someone who lays around eating junk food all day and continuously gains weight. I wouldn't want to date a dangerously skinny women either. I want a girlfriend who will take care of herself and her body.

Spoopy_Alien · Answer

It depends more on the hip to waist ratio. If she is naturally thicker and curvaceous, then I don’t mind. But if she has no shape (chubby or thin), I will likely not find her attractive. A pretty face is a must, however.

I have a similar view on men, in that those with V-shaped torsos are most attractive physically. A handsome and masculine face is also a must.

Juxtapose · Answer

I actually prefer chubby women, but women of all sizes can be hot. Here is an example of a slighty chubby one.

Ripper_E · Answer

Ashley Graham? HELL YEA Ashley Graham before she lost weight? HELL YEA Even if it isn't Ashley Graham, if it's a woman that's her size, even a bit bigger, I'm completely okay with that.

Supermosh1990 · Answer

Yeah absolutely I would date a woman on the chubbier side (she is still a person after all).

SirRexington · Answer

I actually quite like chubbier girls. They are soft, plushy and sexy. I don't know, something about a girl with some cushion to her that drives me wild.

holograph · Answer

Would date someone who is chubby, though I would still prefer someone be a reasonably healthy weight.

joewaldrup64 · Answer

Yes I would because weight is something that can't be helped. The body matablizes food differently for each person. If you like someone for their appearance then you should examine your own life because you are very shallow person indeed

dreamstar72 · Answer

A lot of the times chubby women are more hotter and beautiful then thinner women and some time not, it all depends on the beauty within.

Anonymous · Answer

I already dated a woman on the chubbier side. She went behind my back and said how I was only a temporary until something better came along. It got back to me and the relationship ended. I was glad it did. She had a temper and she was a narcissist I wouldn't have wanted to have children with her because if she had ever abused my children we would have gone head to head. Of course it had nothing to do with her weight, but that was my experience.

Insomnia72 · Answer

I think chubby women still look sexy if her fat goes where you want it, such as her breasts, hips, butt and legs, then she enchances it with muscle tone, keeping all that voluptuous figure tight.

SirFluffyBunnyVII · Answer

Of course. I like gals who are on the chubbier side

JackSmy · Answer

Soft and cuddly!! Love snuggling and being close, having warm blankets, when it is cold outside.

Browneye57 · Answer

If you're fat and want to lose some, do something about it.
If you're not then just rock whatcha got.
It doesn't matter what strangers on the internet like, just find a great guy that likes YOU just the way YOU are.

Anonymous · Answer

Yess!!! Cuddles are some of the most important things in the world and toothpicks aren't good for cuddles ;-;

aa180 · Answer

Plus size models are actually the hottest models out there, just FYI.

spankster904 · Answer

I have dated skinny chubby thicknladues and the thick or chubby ladies are so much sexier and hotter turn on for me than a skinny woman... it's just a feeling of fulfullness. Lol but I'm not knocking on skinny or fat women. I am always gitty gitty on a thicker woman than a Boney. Plus sex hurts when u knocking boots and its pelvic bone to ass bone.

AbleLearner · Answer

I don't know who she is, but she's pretty hot. I'd definitely date her. I usually like thinner women, but not too thin. I don't usually like runway models anyway.

NyfikenSyd · Answer

Most definitely YES! If I have to choose between bones and curves I'll go with the chubby woman every time. In my opinion she is much hotter than the super skinny models that for some reason are so popular in fashion.

Titanic1912 · Answer

Right now, my current girlfriend is on the chubbier side. It doesn’t matter to me, but she loves me and I love her, especially her kisses.

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