It's a silly question indeed but your thoughts were interesting. Thanks for sharing!
Not silly in my opinion, just rather hypothetical. But quite a good thought-experiment.
You must have no idea who I am! LOL Thanks for the comment though!
Honestly though, is easier to make a law that makes relationships burcarcy or train women in proper selfdense? One thing I liked about my previous ex she could throw a wicked punch. And the Ex before her use to wrestle with me, those were good times. I just wish I could of saw that "One Punch" she did to a bully back in her middle school days. I bet it was beautiful 🤭. I think for one to be truly strong, one must be strong in mind and body. So many women today fear men over advances and words when there's so many dojos and mma classes out there. Like let's Honestly be Equals and whoop a man's ass if he needs one. We all do eventually lol.
Simply put, not that I mind approaching, but I enjoy sex more with guys who approach me first. I am kind of insecure when it comes to sex, I like to be 100% sure that he wants me and likes my body so much that is willing to make effort and take risk. Then I can be completely comfortable in sex. But with those that I approach, not so much. I'd keep fearing that he said yes only because it was an easy way to get laid, not necessarily because he really, really likes me. I get turned on way more knowing that he fantasized about having sex with me even before it happened, and there's this feeling of "rewarding" him that makes me very confident about myself. Being confident is one thing that women struggle most with when it comes to sex.
Our confidence really depends on how badly we're wanted. You guys don't really need that kind of confidence to get it up and enjoy sex, but we do! And you're killing our libidos with this MGTOW shit.
What the fuck? The person being asked out is not inferior..
use some empathy and realise what you're saying. "A guy has to be so attracted to me that he removes all sense of logic and ignores everything society says about a man approaching a woman." you're describing a rapist.
The law is silly but you make some good points!
@BlackRoseFairy True. Unfortunately now in present times we have men who don’t have the balls to do that anymore, and then complain about it and become insecure - then we get feminism. It’s sad, really, but that’s why I think it’s best to be with a confident man, not an insecure one.
@Rica_ChicaUSA That is very true!
Men don’t have the balls because they were raised by single moms & dominating moms who made them more feminine. That whole culture was created by feminist slanted laws on child custody, child support & welfare for single moms
@hahahmm Because the dad left. If you don’t want a new generation of men who can’t be men then stay with your lady and raise your son right.
Wait a second. It’s not that simple. A woman will get knocked up by 5 different dudes and blame men for being a single mom when in fact she chose those guys who either were bad dad candidates or who she wasn’t good enough to keep. These women take zero responsibility.That said, men are the only ones who will fix something. But it’s not the feminine guys & ‘bad boy’ types I mean. It’s the other guys who aren’t creating this problem in the first place.
@hahahmm Fix something? Mostly they just complain about it and that they can’t get women. And there are those women, yes, and it should still be 50/50. He still got her pregnant. But you also have the women who are not that way, who simply fall in love with a guy and he runs when she gets pregnant. Either way, it takes 2 to tango. And again, I don’t see men fixing anything. These are absolute facts, so I’m just gonna leave it at this with no opinion. You two have fun debating:)
@rica_ChicaUSA, let’s put it this way: if we ended child support & welfare for single moms the number of “i was in love” and accidental pregnancies would fall to almost zero. Suddenly these women wouldn’t roll the dice. So yeah, men are legally on the hook for child support now but it doesn’t mean she doesn’t have way more control of getting pregnant. I know that birth control pills are 99.96% effective over the course of a YEAR even if you miss a dose. As long as you don’t skip 2 back to back. Yet there’s lots of women claiming they “forgot” to take *A* pill. Do the math. These women coincidentally only get pregnant when they think they will benefit. Outside of odd cases of retard males who want 20 kids, this is women’s choice at work.Women choosing to get knocked up over & over again. Not all women. But many.Men not fixing anything? Don’t count us out yet. We did build civilization after all.
@hahahmm I 100% agree with everything you just said. But it still doesn’t change the fact that the man left and now the boy grows up more feminine and that men in present times really lack confidence. Regardless of whose fault you think it is and why and all that, my point is just that currently most men don’t have confidence or the balls to ask a woman out but they complain about it and are insecure. And I’m seriously tired of debating lol 😴 I don’t blame either gender because it’s like a cycle and you can argue it either way.
@Rica_ChicaUSA I agree that the individual male had a choice if he willingly left. And assuming she didn’t lie to him. Have heard of many cases were women lied about being on birth control. Sure, in that case the guy is stupid but she benefits from the fraud! What should really happen is that the kid is taken away so she can’t benefit but that’s problematic too.There are/were too many soft guys IN marriages with dominating women & that also produced feminine guys. That was the main way in the past.Ultimately if one believes that men should always lead (a traditional idea) then men are responsible. Otoh feminist (and most women have feminist ideas today) say men have zero to no rights. Just responsibilities. While women have rights & few responsibilities. So the single dad is expected to work 3 jobs and get zero hell while a single mom gets tons of help & spends much of it on booze, shoes & other non child stuff.So blame can go either way depending on whether we believe men should be traditional or not...😀
I have to agree! Often times women start flirting with men and give them the go ahead first. She just let's him think it's his idea.
@Rica_ChicaUSA there are quite a few men terrified to do anything for fear of trying with the wrong woman and getting false charges pressed. While not a frequent occurance, that is still a concern in the minds of most men and that concern is much larger for some men than it is for others.
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