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If they had a man's insight, they would be gods in the dating game. But women have a hard time dating with their heads and heart instead of what's between their legs, and that makes dating very hard for them.
Not really. Sometimes we have to deal with very dumb guys.
Two of you threatened to shoot me.
Most of you are emotionally abusive and solipsistic.
One of you pmed me on a dating app just to say : "I don't care" to everything I said.
A lot of you keep matching me on Tinder for instagram follows.
Sit the eff down.
@MattNotMike Should I really have to start with you guys being offensive or not taking a hint when we want you to just go away?
@Saville_Row
The first one who threatened to shoot me was more of a lowkey threat. She brought up how she owned a baby-glock. We kissed at the end of the date, but she dropped too many red flags for me to pursue her any further.
The other was a girl on tinder who sucked at flirting, realized she fucked up and was too embarrassed to say anything else.
Sit the eff down.
@MattNotMike Wow I know you're bitter but geez! Everyone's different! Don't try to lump women all together or paint them with one paint brush! That's not how the world (and life) works!
@SueAnon84 You're hitting the same emotional abusive beats, though. . . .
>>I'm a woman, my problems matter.
>I'm a guy, here are my problems.
>>I'm a woman, this is your fault because guys act like this.
>I'm a guy, uh. . . Fuck you? How is this my fault?
>>Lol you're bitter
>>Your emotions and how you felt don't even matter.
If there is a woman different from the rest, you certainly ain't it. :/
@MattNotMike None of that stuff you said made any sense you cannot speak for me as you do not know me. You're just trying to insult me.. Lol... so much for your counter arguement!
@MattNotMike I know you don't like to admit but it's true that you ARE bitter since you are like I said putting/lumping everyone into the same category! ... I can say with confidence that I wasn't abusive to ANY of my exes except maybe for one... I live and learned... maybe you should too? .. Everyone's different and I think deep down you know that! I don't hate ALL men just because of something a couple of my exes did! Thank you for reading.
@SueAnon84 K, so ah. . . you're missing the point and a few brain cells. So, let me put this into perspective for you: It's okay to feel bad when you have been wronged. It's not a crime, and it's perfectly okay.
I've been wronged and I feel bad.
Here's where you and all the other rando-chicks out there come in.
I share this hurt, you laugh, call me bitter, and decide to go on some moral soliloquy about how not all women are the same.
Ironically, all of you do this.
It's less about bitterness and more about finding being emotionally invalidated intolerable.
@SueAnon84 You haven't learned jack shit unfortunately. . . . Emotionally invalidating people is one of the strongest forms of abuse out there. . . Its one form of abuse that women use like romance novels use cliches.
@MattNotMike Go ahead and insult me if it will make you feel better, that's fine. At least I am more matured than you! You seem to be missing compassion here! You spread lies upon lies and THAT's what I find laughable, not you being hurt! I'm not that type of person to invalidate people's feelings but I am telling you that you are generalizing and yet you are too stubborn to realize that! So go ahead and call a stranger stupid and say that they haven't learned shit in their life when it's simply not true! I've probably learned a lot more hard lessons in life than you have! You probably have white priviledge and that's something that I'll never be able to take advantaged of! So go ahead and spew your hatred towards me, a stranger! Go ahead and see if I care! Be a troll and get a trophy!
@SueAnon84 *shakes head*
That doesn't mean it's hard for girls lol
I mean not all of them, but is at least 20 percent of men who date with 80 percent of women, and vice versa, so...
We do have to worry more about being forcibly raped and murdered by our dates
Impossible to know because nobody has truly been both
Yes, but we can try to break it down from a logical standpoint through comparisons
You dont need to be both genders to drawn provable conclusions on human relationships. Kinda the reason we have the fields of psychology and sociology.
@SentientBrick i disagree to a point like Id say its impossible to draw a truly fair conclusion because it isn't so simple you can break it into a list
Girls have it easier definitely. Just go to a dating site and be s girl. Girls date on easy mode. But romance they might have a hard time finding a good guy, but sometimes that's on their stupidity
Yes because there are far more desperate pathetic men who have no standards and who chase then there are women who do that.
Being more lenient with their standards doesn't really make them desperate or pathetic
I think men who change their values or morals for a woman makes them pathetic. That is my opinion. Like lets say for example, a women says the "sky is red". We all know there are guys out there who would go, " You know what, now that I look at it the sky is red". Just to not piss the girl off. Those men are pathetic
Women have to find the needle in the haystack. Men have to standout in a haystack of other men to be given a shot.
They have it VERY easy!! All they have to do is find a guy they like, walk up to him and ask him out! Chances are VERY slim that he'll turn her down!!
That's probably the dumbest thing I've ever heard, come on now.
@nocturnalnostalgia Then, you're not very smart! Oh! You're only 16!! That explains A LOT!!! You have NO prior experience with girls and haven't figured them out, yet! Wait `til you're twice your age and you'll see that I know what I'm talking about!!!
Getting repeatedly hit on by every awkward loser is easy? Getting called names for doing the same things guys get accolades for? No, they do not have it easy.
I have many of those traits and it's still not easy to find a good girl. But my reason is more of a issue of finding a girl with similar beliefs. I could easily get a girlfriend if I just didn't care about her morals.
I believe they have more options but it doesn't make it that much easier.
I certainly do so based on my own experience, yeah. It's quite rare that I fall for a man and he doesn't also fall for me. It's made me pretty damn picky though so that's the only downside really.
I think it is somewhat even. A lot of girls have trouble dating and so do men
Not if you are unattractive and short like me, nobody likes that combo.
Guys like short girls.
Girls hate short guys.
I don't hate short guys, in fact I prefer them because we would be on the same level
Yes and no.
They certainly have a lot more options. You'd think that is good, but it isn't. Each wrong choice lowers their value on the market. And as they have a lot of options, there is a larger chance that they will pick a wrong option.
No many things you don't see unless in the others shoes.
No nobody has it easy
Why buy when you could rent!
In dating/marriage you've to constantly prove yourself. That's why it's so hard for all!
I think they have trouble finding a guy who actually likes them, most just want to bang them.
Not hard to get a man but it’s not easy to find a good one who doesn’t look like a camel ass
No one has it easy in the dating world.
Anyone can get killed if they mess with the wrong person (worse case scenario of course)
Women can get what they want.
Men have to face possible sexual harrassment charges and or a lawsuit.
They have it not only easier in the dating world, but life in general.
About 50 men replied to the post. That's nuts. Congratulations buddy.
More men kill themselves, statistics show! Woman have it easier.
youu are right, Its laghaable to think that there are many or even several women who comitt suicide due to loneliness, and rejection. But to be honest, among men , those in hte autism spectrum have it exponentially worse, the scuicide rate among us is epidemicall high and with godd rereason, women are mercilessly brutal towards guys with social doficultiees and poor social skills. So basiaclly the biggerr diffiiculltiees that men experience in dating are enlarged for guys suffering from autism or aspergers.
I don't know about others, but I don't find it easy at all.
you may have difficulties, but look at how much you women take it for granted. Ask yourself when was the last time you went a month or a semester without landing a single date.
I haven't dated since 7 years ago...
i haven't dated at all and I like to think i'm decently attractive with a good personality.
Find a picture of an ugly woman , put it on a dating site.
Do the same with an average guy, Adam Sandler tier
See which gets more responses.
I dont find it easy at all, but when it comes to dating and romance, no i dont think women have it easier than men
If she is decent looking then yes. Most women could find a guy to date them or at the very least be a booty call in less than 72 hours.
Yes all they have to do is basically just apply makeup and show up
It's a fact of life every woman can get laid but lots of men can't.
Definitely have it easier. The gals saying they dont need a reality check.
Easier to get... but if it is difficult to get rid of person it becomes a problem.. that way it is difficult for girls.
STOP with this shit. I can assure it IS NOT EASY.
It must be so hard to just stand around and pick someone. My condolences to you
I wish it were so.
She doesn't pick just anyone, she likes that big dick
@anononon123 That's why you have no chance with me Mr. anononon123
That's good, who wants to be with a gaping hole
Says the girl with no curves whatsoever
@anononon123 Exactly. I admit that I have no curves. So why would it be so easy for me to get dates?
Easy, you're a female, and you're not ugly
@tara987 I think you're attractive, I'd be hard pressed to find a guy who doesn't find you attractive
Rangers, thank you for your compliment. I wish it was easier but I swear to God it's not.
@anononon123 I wish it was as simple as that. I can see where you might think that any non-ugly girl can find a nice guy but it honestly doesn't work that way.
You're not looking for a nice guy, you're looking for mr. perfect
And that's what this whole question is about
@anononon123 I don't know how to say it better than I have. I wish I had the words. I have nothing against you. I understand your concerns way more than you think. I wish I could get the mythical Mr. Perfect but I am certain that he doesn't exist and if he did he would be dating some hotter, curvier, smarter, more desirable woman. I just want a nice boy despite what you think.
If that's what you want, you'll find it easily, if a guy wants a nice girl, he's got to look like Jason Momoa
@tara987 I wouldn't be opposed to dating you, but I'm building a connection with someone else and it's very complicated. For your info, I haven't even seen a picture of her yet, she's negatively described herself physically to me, but I wasn't bothered because we have an emotional connection. I don't know where we stand, she could be as you described, or she could be just as she described but I wouldn't care either way.
@anononon123 He's sort of gross to me
Rangers - I hope that works out for you and I hope she's the girl of your dreams:)
You know what I meant, tall, wealthy, strong, attractive, etc. I be just chose home because he's popular at the moment
@anononon123 I did. I just think that I would love to date a guy with all of those qualities but those guys are far and few between and they are going for different sorts of girls than me.
Well, if you love those guys so much, don't even bother with the "I just want a nice guy" routine
youve definitely rejected a "nice boy"
Shout out to the 8 people who downvoted me here! Good work, everyone.
I agree with you so here, have a guy's upvote.
They find dates more easily but i wonder what the quality of the dates are like
Trash
Guys don't have a full understanding of what's it's like to be a woman, and vice versa.
Yeah they do. Guys gotta work harder in the dating spectrum unfortunately
when it comes to getting laid yes
when it comes to dating NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!
lol 84% of women sticking to the agreed-upon lie this is why it's so hard to feel sorry for the gals when their selected man assaults them
won't say yes or no... but for sex maybe... but then again its not that easy otherwise..
Reminds me of a double standard that I resent a lot
I know plenty of women who date, marry and have kids with, shorter men
Yep, all they have to do is choose from the many options presented to them, while guys have to be perfect before we approach
no but when it comes to sex... hell yea
No one has it easy in the dating world.
Girls have it easier but nor easy
They only have it easy if they’re straight
It's a matter of perception.
It is such a tricky balance
I agree, most definitely!
Women really only need a vagina and a pulse
Women don’t have to be confident, charismatic, be financially independent, or really even good looking to get guys who want to date them
Yes, they have it easy
They have it super easy
no it depends on the woman
They always had it easy.
I never did.
Attractive women do
Um, NO.
How? Guys just come right to them
Guys who want sex come right to us. Guys who want an actual real relationship don’t. Then imagine dating men for months only to be told after “I’m just not ready for a relationship” by each new guy while he claims he has feelings for you.
I wanted a relationship with someone and I didn't even know what she looked like and it's long distance. I felt a connection to her when we talked for a while and told eachother about events in our lives where we found a connection through the problems we shared. She described how she looks, which is average, so I wanted to be with her for those reasons. I kept trying to build our connection deeper and you know what happened? After 2 months, she told me she's with another guy.
Obviously yes. But women seem to deny it.
Too easy