99% of the time, the woman just gives oral and the guy has to do the rest, so that's a much smaller list of skills needed, and men don't judge women as harshly on their bed "skills".
Of course, why do you think men pay prostitutes, GFE, dominatrix, findommes, strippers, etc... and women get paid? But women are becoming desperate too
Absolutely not. Dating is difficult. You do not know what is going on in the other person's head "do they like me or not?" "are they just saying that to get laid?" "Are they sincere or is that a false promise"
Are you doing this because you want a perfect partner? Or for fertility reasons? There are some women are able to get pregnant in their 30s and 40s believe it or not, but yes unfortunately, with the way society is so shallow, I don't blame you on why you think like this! I think there are some truth to that only because there are a lot of shallow guys out there! I've met my fair share unfortunately!
@SueAnon84 Am I doing what? I'm not bothered by age much. I do prefer a younger girl but it's not a must. What I was saying is that girls in their twenties will get the most attention in general but I still think women get a lot of attention in their 30s.
I think it's important to find a person that fits your needs whether it's looks, personality or whatever. I'm picky because I want to find the match that I'll be with forever hopefully and I don't want that to just be with anybody.
Are you doing this = responding in this way or believing (saying) this in your answer. Sorry I wasn't more specific! But yes, you answered my question so thanks!! Good luck to you and hope you find that special someone and once that happens, she'll feel the same enough to not let you go either! ... I made the mistake of falling in love with a divorcee (that was a deal breaker for me) with a child (that was also a deal breaker for me) and I just couldn't accept it so as a result, I think I just lead him on (for almost two years!) but I don't know if I could have helped it truly because he was a charming and attractive white guy...
I'm a filipina and no I don't have a white fetish but I did grow up here in America where most of what I saw were either white, EAST Asian or an ugly Mexican that I wasn't attracted to!
@SueAnon84 Did you not know he was divorced and had a kid? Oh it sounds like you liked him and had a hard time rejecting him. That's kind of weird and tough I imagine lol. Living in America, do you notice if you tend to have any racial preference?
No they don't!!! They have to deal with a bunch of fuck boys and guys who don't want commitment. Women don't even get approached anymore because all of these guys are nervous we're going to yell at them and say they're sexually harassing us for calling us beautiful. It's such bullshit
I selected A in the poll, but it should really read "Yes, they have it EASIER"
Women do not have it easy, but generally speaking they certainly have it easier than men do. Do most of them recognize that fact? No, but it is always rare for the privileged to recognize their privilege.
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I should add that the answer is age based. After age 30, the playing field is ore level and in fat men tend to have somewhat of an advantage.
That’s just an ignorant assumption as you’re not accounting for the whole other variety of reasons people choose to be where they are. More and more people are single now and it’s not for a lack of trying. What you just suggested doesn’t even work out mathematically.
I'll be more specific, if there was a graph showing how many men vs women are single and don't want to be, I reckon the graph would be as lopsided as can possibly be in the direction you can probably guess.
You really don’t know what life is like for girls then. Most guys just want sex apparently (according to men). So, they trick girls into it to get it. So believe it or not the girls are the ones who lose out the most. I even have guy friends who understand this.
You're only looking at the looks aspect. by the way your graph is unbelievably false. Women always have to worry about their date secretly being a rapist or murder. Every guy I've ever met just says shit about hoping she's not fat or puts out. While men are victims as well it's not as common, so no, women do not have it easier.
Women have more options than men do. One reason why many women would say they have a more difficult time is because the desirable men they want are players or will not commit. Sadly for them, these desirable men are low in numbers.
It's based on what I've seen and observed. The only valid claim I've heard is that "it's hard to choose" but my argument is that it's always easier and more comfortable to be the one giving the test than the one taking the test.
I agree with the things in the chart, except the exaggeration. Lol I’m pretty sure if every male who had those conditions got a death sentence there wouldn’t be half as many left.
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this reminds me that if a guy or man has the mindset thinking that dating is unfair, that women have the better end of the stick, he gets labeled as having a victim mentality, being a whiny baby, but if a woman thinks the same way, people will comfort her mentally, emotionally
They have it a million times easier for dating and sex but that's where it ends. Women are the gatekeepers of Sex but Men are the gatekeepers of relationships.
@VIVANT I see what your saying but I think we're at odds with our reasoning.
in most cases, the Man is the decision maker as to whether or not he wants to be her man.
Men have a higher sex drive than women, especially young Men. Men are driven by sex. It's primal. Women are driven by relationships. When was the last time you heard of a guy not consenting to sex? They usually require it from the woman. That is why women are the gatekeepers of sex.
Women have a need to build a relationships. Also primal. Women need to pair bond so that they can have a child and be a adequately supported by a partner. Thus, they need to pair bond with a man.
The woman decides whether or not he gets the cookie. The man decides whether he begins a relationship or not.
If it were a marketplace, two things are for sale. Sex and relationships. The Man is the "buyer" of sex. The Woman is the "buyer" of the relationship.
No they do not. Many guys a expect sex by the third date but will sift through your sexual history like Democrats will Trump's tax returns if they ever get them.
When they’re younger. They hold all the cards when they’re younger and can be very selective as even average looking women have little trouble meeting and dating men. At my age it’s vice versa and men have all the balls in their court.
It depends! Since men will date down for sex and because women will only date up for sex, it is easier for women to date. However, although men date down, they don't marry down. Therefore, it is not easier for women to get married.
If they had a man's insight, they would be gods in the dating game. But women have a hard time dating with their heads and heart instead of what's between their legs, and that makes dating very hard for them.
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You forgot the bits where women also need to be easy to get in bed, great in bed and have little or no sexual experience
99% of the time, the woman just gives oral and the guy has to do the rest, so that's a much smaller list of skills needed, and men don't judge women as harshly on their bed "skills".
Ood i preffer girl having experiance, small number is kinda nice for your ego, thats all to it.
Of course, why do you think men pay prostitutes, GFE, dominatrix, findommes, strippers, etc... and women get paid? But women are becoming desperate too
Absolutely not. Dating is difficult. You do not know what is going on in the other person's head "do they like me or not?" "are they just saying that to get laid?" "Are they sincere or is that a false promise"
20 year old girls get the most interest. Once is girl is 30-40+, the interest goes down a lot.
I haven't found getting girl attention difficult at all though. The hard part is meeting girls I like.
Are you doing this because you want a perfect partner? Or for fertility reasons? There are some women are able to get pregnant in their 30s and 40s believe it or not, but yes unfortunately, with the way society is so shallow, I don't blame you on why you think like this! I think there are some truth to that only because there are a lot of shallow guys out there! I've met my fair share unfortunately!
@SueAnon84 Am I doing what? I'm not bothered by age much. I do prefer a younger girl but it's not a must. What I was saying is that girls in their twenties will get the most attention in general but I still think women get a lot of attention in their 30s.
I think it's important to find a person that fits your needs whether it's looks, personality or whatever. I'm picky because I want to find the match that I'll be with forever hopefully and I don't want that to just be with anybody.
Are you doing this = responding in this way or believing (saying) this in your answer. Sorry I wasn't more specific! But yes, you answered my question so thanks!! Good luck to you and hope you find that special someone and once that happens, she'll feel the same enough to not let you go either! ... I made the mistake of falling in love with a divorcee (that was a deal breaker for me) with a child (that was also a deal breaker for me) and I just couldn't accept it so as a result, I think I just lead him on (for almost two years!) but I don't know if I could have helped it truly because he was a charming and attractive white guy...
I'm a filipina and no I don't have a white fetish but I did grow up here in America where most of what I saw were either white, EAST Asian or an ugly Mexican that I wasn't attracted to!
@SueAnon84 Did you not know he was divorced and had a kid? Oh it sounds like you liked him and had a hard time rejecting him. That's kind of weird and tough I imagine lol. Living in America, do you notice if you tend to have any racial preference?
I did, but I was too blinded by lust (and loneliness?) to do the right thing sadly..
@SueAnon84 At least you had your temporary fun.
No they don't!!! They have to deal with a bunch of fuck boys and guys who don't want commitment. Women don't even get approached anymore because all of these guys are nervous we're going to yell at them and say they're sexually harassing us for calling us beautiful. It's such bullshit
I have to ask are you american? I only hear American guy complaining about that.
It's a privilege to have options. Most men don't.
I selected A in the poll, but it should really read "Yes, they have it EASIER"
Women do not have it easy, but generally speaking they certainly have it easier than men do. Do most of them recognize that fact? No, but it is always rare for the privileged to recognize their privilege.
I should add that the answer is age based. After age 30, the playing field is ore level and in fat men tend to have somewhat of an advantage.
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If they just want casual sex, of course.
The thing is they don’t!!
They want a relationship.
Your really think that’s easy? Pffft you’re delusional!
If it wasn't so easy, single girls wouldn't be so rare and single guys wouldn't be so common
That’s just an ignorant assumption as you’re not accounting for the whole other variety of reasons people choose to be where they are. More and more people are single now and it’s not for a lack of trying. What you just suggested doesn’t even work out mathematically.
I'll be more specific, if there was a graph showing how many men vs women are single and don't want to be, I reckon the graph would be as lopsided as can possibly be in the direction you can probably guess.
You really don’t know what life is like for girls then. Most guys just want sex apparently (according to men). So, they trick girls into it to get it. So believe it or not the girls are the ones who lose out the most. I even have guy friends who understand this.
The problem is that women ignore the good guys and listen to the ones that just want sex
@Rangers its not smart to make qualitative statments on 50% of the human race. Some women make bad life decisions, most dont.
@SentientBrick Yes, and that's clearly shown
You're only looking at the looks aspect. by the way your graph is unbelievably false. Women always have to worry about their date secretly being a rapist or murder. Every guy I've ever met just says shit about hoping she's not fat or puts out. While men are victims as well it's not as common, so no, women do not have it easier.
Women have more options than men do. One reason why many women would say they have a more difficult time is because the desirable men they want are players or will not commit. Sadly for them, these desirable men are low in numbers.
6 people , said they don't have it easy ease explain your response please I'm interested to know why?
It's based on what I've seen and observed. The only valid claim I've heard is that "it's hard to choose" but my argument is that it's always easier and more comfortable to be the one giving the test than the one taking the test.
I agree 💯
I agree with the things in the chart, except the exaggeration. Lol I’m pretty sure if every male who had those conditions got a death sentence there wouldn’t be half as many left.
this reminds me that if a guy or man has the mindset thinking that dating is unfair, that women have the better end of the stick, he gets labeled as having a victim mentality, being a whiny baby, but if a woman thinks the same way, people will comfort her mentally, emotionally
They have it a million times easier for dating and sex but that's where it ends. Women are the gatekeepers of Sex but Men are the gatekeepers of relationships.
Both require consent from the other person
No one person is the gate keeper to either
It’s not as if each see primer and ready to jump in.
Maybe a lot of guys with sex, but relationships take time to develop and become interested in Persuing.
I think it’s easier for guys to get a relationship bc there is less to worry about. Safety wise. But not bc they are gate keepers.
@VIVANT I see what your saying but I think we're at odds with our reasoning.
in most cases, the Man is the decision maker as to whether or not he wants to be her man.
Men have a higher sex drive than women, especially young Men. Men are driven by sex. It's primal. Women are driven by relationships. When was the last time you heard of a guy not consenting to sex? They usually require it from the woman. That is why women are the gatekeepers of sex.
Women have a need to build a relationships. Also primal. Women need to pair bond so that they can have a child and be a adequately supported by a partner. Thus, they need to pair bond with a man.
The woman decides whether or not he gets the cookie. The man decides whether he begins a relationship or not.
If it were a marketplace, two things are for sale. Sex and relationships. The Man is the "buyer" of sex. The Woman is the "buyer" of the relationship.
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No they do not. Many guys a expect sex by the third date but will sift through your sexual history like Democrats will Trump's tax returns if they ever get them.
When they’re younger. They hold all the cards when they’re younger and can be very selective as even average looking women have little trouble meeting and dating men. At my age it’s vice versa and men have all the balls in their court.
Easier than men? I’d say for most women, Yes.
Easy in general? No.
I’d argue it’s hard for everyone to successfully date in today’s society.
I disagree with the graphic, which is exaggerated.
But yes, I would say generally women have it easier in that they don't need to take as much initiative in dating. Also, men are just less picky.
Of course, they are the chased, they are the ones who choose and thus they have the power (if they play their cards right).
It depends! Since men will date down for sex and because women will only date up for sex, it is easier for women to date. However, although men date down, they don't marry down. Therefore, it is not easier for women to get married.
If they had a man's insight, they would be gods in the dating game. But women have a hard time dating with their heads and heart instead of what's between their legs, and that makes dating very hard for them.