Do women have it easy in the dating world? (Page 3)

[Babygirl_S]

Is it true?

[ernest1]

Yeah i think so

[utterlyconfusedXD]

I think so

[BeHappy1985]

Not the ugly ones.

[SportsNerd]

No
Stop this bullshit

[anononon123]

It's not bullshit though

[SentientBrick]

@SportsNerd Yes it is, do some badic research on Human sexual psychology.

[anononon123]

Yeah, women love tall, wealthy, high status males, and are usually the choosers, so not really bullshit

[Rangers]

"Stop this bullshit" *no evidence whatsoever* how original

[SentientBrick]

@anononon123 women are atracted to men who the perceive to be able to protect and provide for them and possible offspring. Its be shown through studies that they are not attracted wealth but rather perceived financial stability. The height of a mate is not a key factor and "high status" is a correlated to financial stability which is what they are often attracted to. Women ARE the choosers, they have to be. Low quality men make for poor partners and fathers.

[anononon123]

Lol, no girl wants a guy with a normal 9-5, they want to not work, watch the kids and have everything provided for them. Height is not a key factor, now that's bullshit, every girls first listed quality they want is tall, high social status defines power, same the white knight bullshit for someone else

[tara987]

@anononon123 And guys prefer girls with large boobs and a curvy body. I don't have those by any means. so, please don't make the assumption that I can get any guy I want. That's all. I am sure it's easier for some girls but not for most of us.

[anononon123]

There are guys that are into petite girls, so

[anononon123]

Put it this way, you might have it harder than other girls, but nowhere near as hard as a guy

[tara987]

@anononon123 Fair enough and thank God for that. But I just don't think it's fair to make the assumption that most girls just walk around picking and choosing which guy to date. I'm not picking on men here that have a hard time finding a girl they desire. I just want them to understand that girls can struggle also. I would love to meet a tall, good looking, wealthy guy but they don't seem to be knocking on my door.

[anononon123]

Well you're expectations are too high, I would be fine with a girl that's loyal and sweet

[tara987]

@anononon123 Me too.

[anononon123]

You just said you want mr. Perfect, it's one or the other, your can't want mr. Perfect and then say you just want a nice guy, sounds like you're saying you'll settle for less, and guys can sense that you don't really value them

[Wolkmi]

@tara987 Its fair but we want a would love to meet a tall, good looking, wealthy girl too.

[tara987]

@anononon123 I think every guy I have ever dated settled for me. I am not putting myself down but there are plenty of girls more desirable to most men out there. I am happy if he's nice and funny and treats me well.

[tara987]

@Wolkmi I get it! And I am not tall or wealthy, believe me:)

[Rangers]

@tara987 You sound exactly like the girl I'm talking to. Which is the root of the problems we're facing, she keeps thinking I can do better, so she doesn't believe my intentions are genuine and I have to prove it somehow. Thinking that way only makes relationships you do form harder to maintain

[tara987]

Rangers, relationships are hard. Just be kind to her and hope for the best.

[Rangers]

@tara987 My bad, I guess my use of references has lead you to believe that I'm trying to make this about me and her. I'm telling YOU, based on what I'm experiencing now that the attitude like that won't help, and there's only so much a man can do to change your thoughts on it. You have to at least be open to having your mind changed

[SentientBrick]

@anononon123 I'm concerned with the truth. Note that iv criticized you and sports nerd not very "white knight" of me. Also unlike you im referencing peer reviewed studies and tests. Judging from your response your views on attraction and relationships has more repressed "beta male" tears than anything to do with reality. Grow a pair and do your homework before externalizing your problems onto other people. Otherwise your no better than the ham golem SJWs out there.

[tara987]

Mind changed in what ways?

[Rangers]

@tara987 In that they aren't settling by choosing to be with you

[anononon123]

You criticized sports nerd for having the same opinion as you, white knight love protecting females, so it fits. My view on relationships is that of a beta make, because guess what dumbass, if you're not in the top 20, that's how women view you

[tara987]

Thanks. I don't think they are "settling" like that. But I know that physically I can't compete with some girls. But I know that I have loads of things going for me.

[Rangers]

@tara987 it's not all about looks, maybe for hookups, but not relationships.

[tara987]

Agree

[SentientBrick]

@Anononon here's the definition of a white knight if you want to actually know what it means.

1) A man who stands up for a womens right to be an absolute equal, but then steps up like a white knight to rescue her any time that equality becomes a burden.

2) A man who Promotes gender equality but practices special privilege for women.

My very first comment was a dissagreement with sports nerd. I dont think men and women are absolute equals, each sex have strengths weaknesses and diffrent preferences in life. Being that I've criticised both you and sports nerd iv not shown special privilege in who gets criticised for poor ideas. I'm concerned with the truth. No matter the sex of the person espousing it or the lack of it.

[anononon123]

She never said they are equal, she just said that it's bullshit, I said it isn't, so stop flipping

[SentientBrick]

@anononon123 Also name calling and being dismissive is not a good substitute for logic and fact.

[SentientBrick]

Common man read what I'm saying before you make a comment...

[anononon123]

Here's the facts then, women want the most physically able and wealthy man to reproduce with, tall and well built and wealthy, throughout history they have settled for less physically because they couldn't find their idea of perfection and the average guy could provide when they couldn't, now that women work, they only value the top 20

[Harttttt]

@anononon123 So the fact that you are grouping all women into this stereotype of only wanting tall, wealthy, high status men is beginning to annoy me immensely. Yeah... some women do go after that sorta thing. But not all. My boyfriend is tall... but I didn't date him because of that. I've had short Asian boyfriends and tall South African boyfriends so height hasn't exactly been a requirement of mine. My boyfriend is neither wealthy or of high status. He's a student who gets paid very little and that has never bothered me because at the end of the day he cares for me and deals with all the shit I tend to put him through. Also... Obviously women dont want to work... are you telling me men do though? No obviously they dont but its something that has pretty much always been necessary for them to live. My nana was one of those women who worked all her life and didn't stop until she ended up taking me and my 5 siblings in, and even then she still continued to take on part time work even after having a husband who worked fulltime and earned good money. My (foster) mum is another women who has worked all her life and has no intention of stopping anytime soon and she's the type of woman who's quite content with not having a man in her life at all and she's always been that way. I sure as hell dont want to be working currently especially when i do the night shifts at work and then am expected to get up for morning classes during the week. But I have necessities to pay for, places I want to go and things I want to do and the only way to do any of those things is to have a job. Sure women may not WANT to work but neither do men. And we most certainly do not expect to have shit handed to us on a platter.

[anononon123]

I love working, but a woman wouldn't understand that, I love working my hands and looking at my work. You're 21, at an older age, your will want a guy to be making a certain amount

[anononon123]

At the end of the day, he's a student, so you're banking on his earning potential

[anononon123]

You don't think your mum and Nana would have preferred to have a man provide for them, they just didn't find the man they wanted/passed up good ones waiting for mr. perfect

[anononon123]

Yes maybe you dated short Asian men, but probably die to the stereotype that they are smart and would probably provide for you, tall South African had that height and dick you like, never said you wouldn't consider options that have some of what you want

[anononon123]

Women just want men to think otherwise, because more than likely they won't find a guy with it all, but still want a guy to provide for them, so they take what they can get once they know they can't get that guy

[anononon123]

I for one, won't buy your bullshit just so I can be used to provide, but I'm sure you'll find men that do

[Harttttt]

Oh Lord the amount of crap that leaves you mouth is nauseating. My grandfather is a great man and my nan clearly lucked out with him and my mother much prefers to be able to say she owns the shit she bought hence why rather then getting a man in to do the job she's spent the past year sanding, painting and oiling her front and back decks of the house SHE bought with HER money. I can assure you my Asian ex was most definitely not a smart man and I most definitely did not expect him to provide for me. Hence when it came to the dates I refused to let him (or any of my other exes or my boyfriend for that matter ) pay for me. Like I said height is not a requirement of mine and never has been and if we want to talk about dicks I like. My white CAUCASIAN boyfriend probably has the best dick I've had. Period. And considering I'm not walking around looking at a guys crotch area I can guarantee thats not why I started dating him. As for my boyfriend being a student and me supposedly banking on his earning potential... he doesn't even know what he wants to do after studies at this point so what earning potential am I banking on exactly? And I'll let you know this now since this is something I am certain of. Regardless of my age I will never choose a partner based on the amount of money he makes. Money's nice but it means jackshit if you're not the one earning it.

[Harttttt]

Oh and by the way... I could not care less if you buy my "bullshit" or not. I have no interest in someone with such a terrible mindset anyway... I can see you living a very lonely life my friend... between the amount of shit you talk and your fear that all women are using you for your money I can see why you think men have it so hard when finding someone to be with. From the sound of it you push everyone away and then blame everyone else for why you can't find a decent person.

[anononon123]

Your grandfather isn't that great if your grandmother had to work, you're mother just held to high standards for too long and she didn't find a man because she wasn't in her prime anymore. Never said your Asian ex was smart, but the stereotype leads you to try. With the dick, like I said the stereotype leads you to believe, but it's cool you had a hung Caucasian, like I said before I'm not buying the bullshit you're selling

[anononon123]

I don't blame anything on anyone, I know I will end up alone, no problem with that. I don't want someone to settle for me, when all she wants is a hung, tall, rich guy

[Harttttt]

Well as long as you know buddy 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

[anononon123]

Look up hypergamy, and you'll understand why I'm ok with it

[anononon123]

You're current boyfriend checks all the boxes, so good luck

[Harttttt]

I'm sorry? Are you trying to say he's too good for me? I mean... I won't disagree... anyone who puts up with my clingyness is on a god tier. However if you're trying to imply the opposite you can shove that and everything else you said right up your ass.

[anononon123]

No I'm not, I'm saying I wish you the best in your relationship with him, just because we disagree doesn't mean I can't wish you well

[Rangers]

I'm literally sipping tea as I read this 🤣

[Harttttt]

@Rangers hope it's some bloody good tea.

[Rangers]

"Bloody" why no, it's not bloody, I'm not a vampire, I don't drink blood

[anononon123]

What kind of tea then 😂

[SportsNerd]

@SentientBrick
Women also do those things that you mentioned about men like providing
Etc...
During a relationship everything is reciprocal

[anononon123]

Male and female relationships are not reciprocal

[SportsNerd]

So you don't like giving and taking

[anononon123]

Women don't give as much as they take

[dmoneybagz]

Dudes are cringe af

[DWD1994]

Yes, definitely.

[Hispanic_Cool_Guy]

For sex, definitely.