One night stand with a guy friend advice?

[dvagirl77]

Had sex the other night with a guy friend I’ve sexted with for like a year now off and on. He’s always claimed to “not be into me, I’m not his type, etc” so okay whatever. Well we ended up having sex, 3 times and I gave him two “incredible blowjobs” as he put it. He told me he was surprised because most women he has been with don’t really do what he likes, but I did things he enjoyed and he didn’t have to tell me, correct me, etc. so basically, sex was amazing to my knowledge. I’ll be honest, he stared into my eyes a ton and smiled a lot for someone who isn’t into me even slightly. What gives? Usually this doesn’t happen but I don’t have a lot of one night stands either.
What I wanna know is who should text first? It’s been two days. Not sure about relationships or commitments but it’s not like we’ll never see each other again. But is it bad if a girl texts first?

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Should a girl message first is what I’m asking

[Anonymous]

What do you hope to accomplish by texting him? Are you wanting to continue with him sexually or are you wanting to resume just being friends? I don’t think there’s anything inherently wrong with a girl texting first. Maybe just ask him to get together and talk about what happened. Then you can bring up whatever it is you want to discuss.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

You may text him first if you can't help yourself but don't hold your breath.

[dvagirl77]

He’s a family friend. That’s why I’m needing advice.

[dvagirl77]

^that was meant for a text haha. Sorry if that didn’t make sense... but yeah.
I meant to only type “he’s a family friend” then I went to reply elsewhere and typed “that’s why I’m needing advice”

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I'd hate for you to get disappointed. I do hope he'll text you first even if what he says doesn't have to do with your one night stand together.

[dvagirl77]

Oh yeah. I’m trying to keep it from not being weird when we do see each other.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Trust me, it will get weird. Just break the ice with this line: "Hey! I wanna break the ice... We're still friends, right? ... because that's still important, right?"

[DeeDeeDeVour]

It's important to carefully watch the expression in his eyes when to tell him that.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

"... when *you tell him that."

[dvagirl77]

Thanks!

[DeeDeeDeVour]

You're very welcome. :) I hope everything works out.

[Anonymous]

proves that guys and girls can't be "just friends"

and you know it!

[zagor]

Yeah, one example of anything always proves a rule...

[Opinion Owner]

No, it PROVES it shouldn't happen

[zagor]

I've known a lot of mixed friends where there was no issue. And had some F friends myself.

Of course it helps a lot if you aren't attracted to them.

[Opinion Owner]

I guarantee you, you weren't "just friends" with them

[dvagirl77]

What helps if you’re not attracted to them?
And we re in that just friends stage. Never went on a date just sexted a ton until now

[Opinion Owner]

see what i mean dude. there' no such thing as "just friends"

YOU KNOW IT

[Anonymous]

You made his dream cum true! all guys wanna fuck their girl friends. did you have fun?

[Avicenna]

Text him if you want to

[COMMODOREII]

Text him get back on that bandwagon. Lol

[dvagirl77]

I wouldn’t even know what to say 😂

[COMMODOREII]

"Yo (name here) hit me up i need you again" lol

[dvagirl77]

Hahaha! I don't know if I need him again but I do t want to close any doors or make things weird for us cuz we’ll see each other.

[COMMODOREII]

"Yo dude i need a "ride"." 😎lol

[COMMODOREII]

Trying to be creative. My ex would just text, "You wanna do it?" and i would text back " I'm on my way." lol or I would text " Wanna do it?" and she would text back "I'm waitin." lol

[dvagirl77]

I’m mostly just trying to gauge where we are at at this point after sex. I don't know if I want to be that forward with the first text haha

[COMMODOREII]

😂yeah i get it.

[COMMODOREII]

You can always hmu for a chat if you need me. 😉

[COMMODOREII]

Ok that's it. Let me see your phone. I'll text him for you. 😎

[Anonymous]

Try not to have sex with a boy.