Basically, went out 4 nights ago with a group of my guy friends to a club. We had 3 guys there and me. One of the guys (we’ll refer to him as A) and I split from the other 2 at the end of the night to go grab food. While we were eating, A was asking me if I’d made out with any of the guys there that night and when I told him I did, A went into this whole ramble about how I should look for better guys, that I deserve better than to just kiss guys at the club, and even complimented me. (A insults me left and right on a usual day and I return the insults). Then asked me about my history with guys, A’s always had a weird interest in the guys I get with because in his words, he “can’t imagine me being intimate with anyone”. A was telling me all this after he was with few girls that night as well. We got on the train to go home that night from the club and I was starting to fall asleep but wasn’t fully asleep and I saw A look at me and smile at my sleepy self. I didn’t think anything of this until the following day, me, A, and another one of our friends decided to go on a day trip out and so we spent the entire day together. (A was the one who invited me, not the other guy) at the end of the day we decided to go drinking. Needless to say I had way too much and A was also wasted. We sat somewhere and all of the sudden A was kissing me. For whatever reason, I thought it was a good idea to go along with this in my drunk state. We came back to the apartment complex we both live in and instead of going back to the rooms we decided to go on a walk. We sat there and A told me he didn’t like that hearing about me being with other people, that he’s been wanting to kiss me for so long, kept grabbing me by the waist to pull me in for kisses while I kept telling him all the reasons we can’t be doing this (since we share a friend group and things would get messy, more than it already is).
Drunkenly made out with a guy in the friend group and need an outside opinion?
Updates
10 mo
last week he was telling me he knows exactly what to say&will say anything just to get her interested. The conflict is that I know this is a huge red flag, I dont believe anything he said that night but he would be smiling at my sleeping when he didn’t know I saw him and would smack my thighs multiple times.
Updates
10 mo
Would go out of his way to switch seats with me after a weird guy sat next to me on the train&would move me by the waist to swap places w me when a guy was coughing behind me both times without me asking and way before the drunk make out.
