Is it shallow/unreasonable that I won't date a girl unless she has nice hands and feet?

[ZeussLightningBolt]

How important to you are hands and feet on a girl?

Yes, that's shallow/unreasonable

No, that's not shallow/unreasonable

[VIVANT]

Shallow yes

Big it’s an emotion they don’t have to be reasonable

Lots of people have ugly feet though. Even all dressed up with polish and clean

ESP athletes Or very active women bc they have more veins popping out and callouses

I guess you could date couch potatoes who get manis and pedis and don’t eat Much so ecen though they do Not move, they won’t get fat

It’s get boring though

But it’s fine you have preferences - I don’t like body hair 🤷‍♀️

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Some active girls have sexy feet.

Your dislike of body hair is also shallow, so there you go

[VIVANT]

Yes I wasn’t disagreeing with you 😁

[VIVANT]

Active women can have sexy feet but over the years the feet will get hardened from the pressure.

Dancers runners gymnasts they end up having ugly feet

Swimmers should be good though 🤷‍♀️😊

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Yes, I know
And soccer feet are just awful! 😖

[VIVANT]

Haha lol

[GraveDoll]

Nope not in the slightness. having a preference is allowed last i check.
not shallow.

screw those who think other wise.

Who wants creepy ass hairy toes rubbing and waking you up in the middle of the night? Or hard feet or hands that scratches you and leave marks every time they touch you.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Lol
EXACTLY
Do YOU have nice feet? :p

[GraveDoll]

I'm told I do. I actually don't wear polish I like the nude look (sometimes I will do a hologram color to add shine when I wear my gladiator sandals or something. I like my toes nails to stay clear. I do soak my feet a lot with oils and Epsom salt and witch hazel. I get pedicures. Mostly because I wear ankle bracelets and jewelry and henna tats on my feet sometimes. I use to date a guy who swears never walked on my feet. he use to be like: have you ever worked in your life I said yes but I believe in self-care.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Oh WOW!
Really?
Can I see?

[Passinggas]

NO, I have the same attraction; nice feet and hands are associated with a nice frame and great form and sexual function. The same women usually have high cheek bones and deep set eyes which track to a nicely made vagina. Elegant phalanges make an overall elegant form. I think it is a Polish thing chief.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

That's actually kind of true
I find it more feminine too

[Passinggas]

Agree!

[ChiTown33]

I would say yes. But it's no more unreasonable then some of reasons some women won't some guys. What attracts you attracts you. What doesn't doesn't. In the end you only deny yourself.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

EXACTLY

[ChiTown33]

...👊

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I love how well these nails were done.

I don't think the toes are actually beautiful.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

What's wrong with the toes?

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Except for both big toes, the rest aren't uniformed... Some are bulbous/bulging & some are skinny/narrow.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

OMG!
You're so anal retentive.
They're nicer than yours :p
Do you like the toe ring?

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I hate to break to 'ya but those aren't nicer than mine. ;)
Meanwhile, yes, the toe ring is cute.
I having one very similar to it.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

EHHHHH
You DO?

[CubsterShura]

It's quite shallow actually. I understand having a PREFERENCE for those, but you don't even date someone whose have and feet aren't your favorite even though they might have all other features that you like? Geez that's harsh.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

I'm sure YOU have some physical attributes you like that you won't compromise on.
A fetish is something you can't live without, and I have no control over what I like and don't like.

[ChiTown33]

Cubster you're absolutely right! It is quite shallow. Much like a woman that refuses to date a guy under 6 feet is quite shallow. But to the person it can mean a lot. They only hurt themselves by narrowing their pool. Read my post

[CubsterShura]

Look if you feel like you can't live without this certain feature in your partner that's your problem not mine but in not gonna pretend that it's not something shallow JUST because I don't wanna make anyone upset. I'm being honest.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

You'll only marry a circumcised man
Now THAT'S shallow

[CubsterShura]

That's because circumcision in men is a requirement in my religion and I can't marry anyone outside of my Faith. It's not the same as having a personal preference and then ruling out anyone who doesn't have that, lol. Something that shallow would be rejecting any guy that's not over 6 feet tall.

But yeah, it was quite stupid of you trying to attack me in THAT way 😂 but they are completely different things.

[ChiTown33]

Whoa i think i walked in on something here. All i was saying is it's fine for people to be shallow but they only hurt themselves by doing so in the long run as they eliminate good people.
Cubster some women would say the height thing isn't a matter of preference. That they just CAN'T be attracted to a guy under 6 feet. Being a woman do you beliwve that's true? Or just something women say to cover their own inadequacy?

[ZeussLightningBolt]

So Islam promotes shallowness

[ChiTown33]

Zues why you cappin on Cubster? She one of the few non men hating women on here.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

@ChiTown33 I'm just telling it like it is. I personally don't care, but I hate hypocrisy and double standards

[CubsterShura]

@ChiTown33 True but I said that if it is shallow I'll call it shallow and I don't care if it triggers anyone.

@ZeussLightningBolt nope it is not a double standard. Next what's shallow? Not wanting to marry someone who doesn't believe in God? Not wanting to marry someone who believes that Jesus is God? Dude you CAN'T compare them. If circumcision wasn't a requirement in Islam I would NOT care about a guy being cut or uncut. You CAN'T compare them. Stop. You're only trying to attack me for nothing. If you can't handle an honest opinion saying that it's shallow of you to reject anyone that doesn't have the nicest hands and feet as per your standards. I also have preferences, like green eyes. Or a lean muscular figure (as opposed to the bulky ones)... But it doesn't mean that I'm gonna reject someone who doesn't have these traits?

[CubsterShura]

And that being said, yes I can't compromise on some attributes. Like, he has to be mentally sane, physically capable of functioning in his day to day life. I can't be with someone in a vegetative state.

[Apple1996]

Yeah its shallow cuz no one can control how there hands or feet look. If they are a amazing person with ugly hands or feet then I dont see why you wouldn't date them

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Yeah they can, it's called a mani/pedi :p

[Apple1996]

I guess so but even with those some women still have ugly hands

[ZeussLightningBolt]

That's true
It may be shallow, but I can't help what I'm attracted to

[Mädchen]

Isn't any physical preference shallow? Who cares. You can refuse to date someone no matter how shallow the reasons

[ZeussLightningBolt]

I guess
Thank you
I agree

[mooky06]

I don’t see it an unreasonable or shallow. You have standards. I don’t see it a big deal

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Thank you
Me either

[thegirlfromthething]

It’s weird but if you can’t be attracted to her unless she has nice hands and feet I guess it’s fine.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Okay
Hands and feet are really important to me

[Tyffen]

Difficult question. Lol

It depends what your limits are I guess. Because if a girl has got really bad hands and feet, I get it.

I like feminine and soft hands and feet. So I guess my standards are about the same as you. 😂

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Me too

[That_odd_guy]

Nope, not shallow or unreasonable. Here’s why:

First of all, people are allowed to have their own personal preferences. Secondly, and the main reason, a girl with nice hands and feet is a girl who has good hygiene and bothers to go through the extra little things to care for herself. Trust me, it’s horrible when a beautiful girl has feet looking like train wrecks. Makes me cringe in the least. I always try keeping my hands and feet nice, and thanks to that, I get compliments from others saying I have really feminine and pretty hands and feet. The least people can do is to have hygienic feet. Nice feet are healthy feet

[pleasestopthis]

Yes it's shallow but as you said you can't control what you like and also you're entitled to date whoever you want. BUT a lot of great people have ugly feet or ugly hands, so you would be missing out.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

I know

[ZeussLightningBolt]

But hands and feet are very important to me

[nerms123]

Everyone has their own standards. I won’t date a guy who doesn’t make me laugh so whatever.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

How many Americans does it take to build a road?

10
1 American to build it, 9 Americans to stand and watch him

[nerms123]

Thanks but my hands and feet aren’t cute but I really like the first photo you put!

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Me too?
They're not?

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Just wear socks and gloves
😂😂😂😂

[nerms123]

No one of my toenails broke off a couple years ago after I accidentally kicked the couch and my hands are chubby and sometimes I bite my nails but maybe today I’ll do a mani pedi lol

[ZeussLightningBolt]

HeHe
Gross
Lol

[nerms123]

😂😂😂thanks for the accidental inspiration though

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Get acrylics

[nerms123]

They hurt though! I actually have extremely strong nails that grow super fast lol

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Gross
Lol

[nerms123]

I have to keep them short or I accidentally scratch my own hands doing dishes or something 😂

[nerms123]

I like japanese style nail art though lol

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Lol
I've done that before

[ZeussLightningBolt]

I won't even touch a person's hand if their nails are short

Lol

[nerms123]

Interesting!!! I had no idea this was a thing. I know lots of guys dislike long nails 🤔 gag is so educational lol

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Guys like many things

[MissDawn7961]

ZuessLightningBolt is a lazy butt who is jealous of Americans ! for we have what he wants but he is to lazy to get out in the cold to get it ! Americans do not want his lazy but here either ! his kind is afraid to put shoes on his smelly , dirty , filthy feet or wash them either ! for he paints his finger and toenails too ! just look at his face here ! he has no idea even how to change a light bulb let alone build anything but maybe using some of his crayons and coloring books would help him ! The Lords vengeance is on you now Mr. JEALOUS ! you would probably eat the crayons instead of coloring with them , ha , ha

[nerms123]

@MissDawn7961 miss dawn your posts always cheer me up 😂😂

[ZeussLightningBolt]

@MissDawn7961 I can't tell if you're just messing with me, or if you're being sincere

[Flower7]

No, it's not unreasonable or shallow. Having nice hands and feet is considered to be basic grooming. Nothing wrong with expecting that.

[mistixs]

Do you have a hand and foot fetish?

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Yes.

[Gedaria]

No, but very restrictive in your choice in women...

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Not really

[Gedaria]

Not all women get there feet done, or go in for fancy nails...

[ZeussLightningBolt]

In some cultures its more common for women to take good care of their feet

[Gedaria]

That is true. But silly shoes can make the feet look a little odd.
I suppose if they take care of their hands and feet they will look after the rest...

[VIVANT]

Painting nails isn’t really taking care of anything lol

Washing - yes 😁

[Dchrls78104]

Maybe, maybe not; but then again, I won't date a girl who wears thongs or has tattoos or body piercings.

[Jamie05rhs]

I think some of y'all are way too particular.

[Alex_988_2]

Yeah...
Inner beauty is what should matter

[Alex_988_2]

Now gimme mho

[cmplteuser]

That's totally shallow

[Jmmmfi4]

Not important at all