I live in between two college campuses, Eastern Michigan and University of Michigan in Ann Arbor. There are plenty of people around here in my age group, but I don't get any matches. I honestly think it's because I'm boring, but maybe you have a different idea.
I paid, so I can see the girls who like my profile... I've gotten a handful of desperate looking women and that's it, so it's not just me being picky.
Your middle picture sat in the car is probably your best picture, and you're a good looking guy. The other two look kind of awkward though, you need to change those.
Being more of the "strong, silent type" is fine and can be attractive to certain women more-so than the loud outgoing types, but to tell them that you're boring is only going to turn them away. I'd get rid of that part.
You have to try to look at this from a woman's perspective. What about your profile would make a woman want to date you? There's not much there to bring them in. You don't have to write an essay but at least put in a few things to spark interest and for them to use as conversation starters.
Your photos provide no evidence anyone considers you likeable, you say that you're boring and expect her to do the work socially, and have somewhat unusual facial expressions on the go.
I say that as good news, your looks, which are harder to change, are fine :p
Yeah, fix your profile, express what IS fun about you, present things positively. Don't tell them you're a boring introvert, tell them you are happiest with close friends and deeper relationships then a big group of acquaintances.
My guess is the second photo is your best, but something suggesting people who know you like you, and a great photo taken by someone else might be a plus.
Hey :) you're cute and should have more confidence in yourself! If I were in your area I'd probably be interested, but you asked for help, so here's a few tips:
1. Girls like confidence, so I'd switch your bio to something more positive/flirty. "I put most people to sleep" isn't something that stands out, which is important to do on dating apps where you're competing with other guys.
2. You look really good in the car photo and the first pic, but your third pic is just okay so I'd remove that.
Comes off a bit douchy as opposed to witty and funny. I’d suggest your main pic to not have your tongue out. That’s a bit of a creeper vibe. Then the blurb about not carrying the conversation would be better if it said as: not great at chatting on here, so meet me in person. Or Let’s get pizza or Local guy looking to go out for local beer the way you have it worded makes it sound like you give no shits
Any man on a dating app is a desperate loser. Guys need to get off of dating apps. Women for too long have had a surplus amount of men. Women have an abundance mindset they know there will always be 50 other desperate men waiting for them. Men are so pathetic nowadays and have scarcity mindset. I know this for the simple fact that men out number women. 9 to 1 on datimg apps. Men are desperate and pathetic nowadays and women know it and that is why women are picky as fuck and the 90/10 rule will soon become the 99/1 rule
yeah def remote virgo people find that a turn off at least wait until they ask you which by that time you'd know each other really well and they wouldn't mind.
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