Can a man truly emotionally detach from a friends with benefits situation? (Page 2)

[Surely]

Tough situation to be in.
I guess relying on your instincts and vibes is the only way to handle this.
The sure fire test would be is for you to go out with someone else or at least tell him that you are. To check his response.
Oh, Good luck and I hope things turn out the way you would like them.

[NakulS]

You two may have started as friends with benefits, but along the way, i guess he did develop some feelings for you. No wonder he is spending so much time with you, painting and attending Christmas parties. I think he is afraid to admit his feelings for you, maybe due to past bad breakup or some other reason.

I am not sure what to advise you and how to make things better, but i hope you two end up together.

[AtharvaThite]

It's Quit intresting to say No string attached. But the fact and Biological responce of body is that Intercourse is an Process not just of Physical temperament but also a touch of Deep connection. Don't get me wrong, not suggesting any Soul to Soul kind of thing but Those moments of sex are magical and produces a slight +ve change of Loveability

[ShowOff11]

Depends on the person. But mostly no one can detach after having sex on a regular basis. Because you're getting ussd fo a person opening up themselves for you. So they would always have a feel for you if you're around

[Malik00]

I tend to view the friends with benefits thing as more of a trial period. We see how things work out while what getting what both sides really want and if the synergy isn't there we just break it off.

[viking_dave98]

I don't think so unfortunately the hard truth is men need to have sex to feel loved and women need to be loved to have sex most of the time people would disagree with this but but it is unfortunately true no matter how many people tell you it's not

[Nik1hil]

Congrats you found your Soulmate..
Some men want women who don't control men by sex...
Being friends with benefits probe that you are one of them and..
Yeah to most men.. That suddenly makes them want to commit to such girls..

[kailex]

Why u allow him to put u on that situation.
Even u know he didn't look for relationship.
At first his honest about what his looking u just put some difficult situation.

[major42]

I think that he's probably too scared to make it a full time relationship incase he is hurt or rejected by you. It sounds like he is ready to make the step with you

[winterfox10]

I know that I treat my FWB's and romantic friendships like girlfriends without any expectations of a longer term arrangement. We go on dates, enjoy being around each other, etc... the only difference is that there's no longer term guarantee.

[Ryan75]

I find it harder for women to detach then a man me it's hard for me because I love the way that women was with me how she made me feel

[Anonymous]

"I met a man online and we hit it off instantly. We just click, at least I feel we do."

Translation: We hit it off because he is hot and I'll spread my legs within 20 minutes when the guy is hot because being hot proves that he is obviously an amazing person!!

[kill_joy69]

Unless you ask him it could be anything
Maybe he just does those things with you cuz he's an extrovert maybe he wants a relationship. Just ask him it's the easiest way also do it after sex not before or it will ruin what you were about to do

[MannMitAntworten]

Ask him. Heck, explain what causes you to ask. Frankly, I could go either way on this. He questions do not mean he does or does not have interest.

[dwelshman]

Most guys just don't like getting tied down its not that they are keeping the door open for someone else just a sense of freedom that eventually he will let go of if you can convince him to.

[Asker]

I’m not clingy at all and he does his thing, I do mine. Hopefully that’s a plus

[VIVANT]

depends on the person. From what I can see there are more guys contemplating suicide bc they are alone, than there are guys who “don’t want to be tied down”

Some people just don’t like relationships. Usually people who aren’t good at them.

[pjf0708]

He's selfish, and not too bright. He's not a very good poker player. He just wants to keep the "status quo".

[Santiago87]

Guys are different from girls if he wants a girl to mess around that’s what it is but at the same time guys can b territorial and don’t want no body else to pedal there back at the same time if u know what I mean lol

[COMMODOREII]

I don't know what his problem is but I'd marry you and not look back. 😂

[Asker]

Well thank you ☺️

[COMMODOREII]

Oh yeah. And if nothing works out you know where to find me. 😂

[BeardMagic]

Gurl, he's afraid of losing you and by the way he's 110% doing boyfriend stuff. Think about what you want and give him an ultimatum.

[OddBeMe]

Sounds like your his squeeze when he’s bored. Guys aren’t complicated. If you find one head over heels for you he’ll make himself known.