How to know... If a guy does have feelings for you, but he dont want to reveal it yet?

[Innocentcountry85]

Hi.. few months ago, i have confess to a guy, that i have feelings for him and i like him. He replied to me that, he is not ready to be in a relationship with anybody yet but have no problem if we become friend 1st. I accept his reason and i did tell him that, even thou we are friend, but i maybe still care about him. I haven't have the chance to meet him yet, as he works far out of the country, but i do send messages to him once in a while, bcause i dont want to loose connection with him. I have this sense, from what i see from what he post on Facebook.. Sometimes, he will post the kind of similar topic as i am, and using kind of the same words or caption when he post a video or status. Its kind of warm my heart a bit.. lol, thou i dont know what is the meaning of it. And sometimes, when i send him a text message of encouragement or just random funny video, sometimes he will reply me back and smtimes not.. I do feel sad if he didn't reply, but i just keep being positive and act normal.. And there this one time, he post a status on Facebook, kind of roughly telling that, the period of when he will be ready to get into smthing.. When i read his status, i can strongly sense and feel that it is about when he will be ready to get into a relationship. And, the last dilema that got me a little bit sad lately is, i did sent to him an encouragement text message.. He did read it, but he didn't reply it, not even a thank you.. But, i am not mad, just a bit sad.

My Question is:
1. Will you reveal to someone that have confessed they like you, about when you will into a relationship? and why..

2. If you have, let say even a little feelings for a person, will you ignore their text message or not even saying a thank you.

Thank you all, for taking your time into reading my question.. and helping me through your opinion.. I appreciate it so much.
I am so sorry.. for the long text.
Thank you again, and God bless.

[cmb123]

You seem like a great girl! What I've gained from reading this is that he is not interested in you. And that's fine! You have never even met this man and he doesn't even live near you. Long distance relationships from what I've heard, are hard. I'd take this as a bullet dodged. If he doesn't appreciate the things you send him, another man will. I would leave this man alone. It's clear he isn't looking for a relationship with you.

[simonqq]

This girl is right, he is most likely not interested. Also when someone says they are not ready you need to move on because you never know how long it will take for them to be ready.

In this case you are long distance so even if he years to come says he is ready then what? It might not be possible to be together anyway.

You seem sweet and caring and many guys will appreciate this. Let him go and focus on guys that are available.

[xaneyy6]

As a guy... these are all tactics he’s using... the distance between you guys is a big stick in the middle... it made it easier for him to turn you down... if it was in person I bet it would be different... or it could be that he didn’t wanna commit to an online relationship... my messages are open if you wish to learn.

[MusicMayhem]

He literally friendzoned you but you chose to just accept it because you feel it'll help you get close to him.

But your timing of telling him you like him is a bit strange because you can't even see him. In the meantime he could be dating girls closer to him.

People don't say when they're ready to be in a relationship again, they just say they agent ready atm to avoid directly rejecting someone that likes them.

[shouryasinha2007]

If a guy has feelings for you, he may do these things around you subconsciously-

-He stares at you (a lot)
-He glances at your lips while talking
-He tries to get close to you
-He feels nervous around you (doesn't apply to everyone)
-He stalks your social media

And that's about it
Hope this helped.

[Avicenna]

Yes and No, in answer to your questions, but everyone has a different communication style and different perceptions of a situation. This us why good communication is essential.