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No! It’s considered exclusive when two people have had a discussion and mutually agree to be exclusive.
Commitment should never be assumed without a conversation when starting a relationship
Your considered exclusive when you both agree to stop seeing other people. Some people decide to be exclusive right away. She are married for 20 years and not exclusive. There's no magic deadline.
more so when both people agree to it. and you start referring to each other as spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend. or even have pet names for each other maybe.
I think you're exclusive when you agree on that second date. Want to see other women? See them but know that you won't be seeing me after that
Holy moly! You're going to demand that someone be exclusive after a SECOND date! What is the rush? Maybe the person is dating another person... Maybe they're trying to decide... Give everyone a break... Take your time. Don't be too rigid. I'd THINK a regular person MIGHT be able to see someone twice a week at most. Talk every few days. I'd be annoyed if someone was texting, talking to me all the time. People need time to think. At least, I do.
Not demand, it's up to them. I'm not asking for a whole life commitment so early. A person can think without lining up people then picking one
Not "lining up." I said, perhaps this person is dating someone else... I'm not talking about some idiotic date juggler. In my life I've certainly liked two people at a time and it took time to narrow it down to one..
I agree with you
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@Pejtu @Red990 OK you two are purists. I think it's possible you can like two people and date two folks early on. After a month or so of dating, I'm sure most folks can make a choice. I don't see that as duplicitous or wrong.
I don't think time alone can say we would be exclusive. It is more of a we agree we won't be dating any others. It could be only a few dates or it could be months along in a relationship before we are considered as exclusive.
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The verbal agreements are sort of important. If it was just a physical engagement don't expect it to be more than that.
You're considered exclusive if you refer to each other as partners or boy/girlfriend OR if the two of you decide to be exclusive. It's always better to make things clear with each other.
I think you're only exclusive when you both agree to be exclusive. It could be a few days after your first date or a few months, but I think that you should both verbally agree so their's no confusion.
No. You're exclusive after you've both decided to be so, it doesn't just magically happen after a certain amount of time.
You're considered exclusive when there's a conversation about it and both agree.
Meh I would say after 2 months cause 1 month is so short but I don't know my heart wants it to be 1 month but my brain says no way
you're not exclusive until you basically straight up bring up the topic.
In this day and age you can't assume anything.
The term "exclusive" means nothing, in my mind. But no, people are only that word once they agree together to use that word. It's not something that just magically happens.
I don't think there's a limit before exclusivity. I usually go one girl at a time so for me I am exclusive with one girl by the second date, but I also already have the shared interests phase out of the way by then since I only date friends.
Only after you have the talj
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Dating for a month doesn't give you any exclusivity.
You’re not exclusive until you guys have a conversation and agree that you are
You Generally need to communicate if you're exclusive. Some people just assume.. never a good idea to assume
Nope. It's totally up to what you guys decide what your relationship is going to be.
I would hope no one moves that fast. If so, they are just desperate