Why won’t the guy ask me to be his girlfriend yet? is it too early?

[Sweetnessxoxo]

So i added him on snapchat December 28 ans we’ve been talking ever since. We met for the first time January 8 and then 6 days later he met my parents for the first time because my parents wouldn’t let him take me out if he didn’t meet them that day we watched almost 3 monies at my house holding hands and with my head on his shoulder and his head on mine and him rubbing my arm the day after that he took me out to eat while i was in my school break and we also walked around and talked on campus and then yesterday he came to my house again we watched almost 3 movies together again (we spent like 4-5 hours together) while holding hands, head on shoulder similar thing as last time except that this time he asked to kiss me i said okay then i hid on his chest and then he grabbed my chin but i kept looking straight at the tv lol i was too nervous and i’ve never kissed anyone before. And also yesterday my dad had a talk with him letting him know that I wasn’t one of those girls and the guy told him that he liked me but that he’s still getting to know me. But he hasn’t asked me to be his girlfriend and im confused on how much he likes me. Also another thing i forgot to add was that he wanted me to meet his parents he said that we would have more alone time and I wasn’t allowed to go so that’s why he came to my house instead.

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+1 y

I ended up not kissing him due to shyness

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+1 y

Lmao it’s funny because i kept thinking over and over again I wish that he would kiss me and when I finally stopped thinking about that he asked me can i kiss you? And i hid😂

[jasco]

lol well honestly he's just making sure your the right one its not bad to wait and test a girl out before going on a for ever long tour with her hopefully. Plus some guys due to pass experience have learn a lot and know what can happen so he's basically preparing him self and hoping that showing you all of this will make you stay with him a bit longer either that or he doesn't realize what he's doing

[ZackBan]

Because girlfriend boyfriend is not the default way to do it.
You're not 2 14 year olds playing house here. There are a lot of things that will happen between you two before you're officially a couple.

[Screenwriter]

Dear, you haven't known this guy a month yet. You've only been out once? Asking someone to be exclusive to you after one date is unreasonable. You need to go out more and find out if you're even suited to each other. That's going to take awhile. Relax and take things as they come. There's no rush.

[Sweetnessxoxo]

We met up like 4 times

[Sweetnessxoxo]

That’s probably still too little

[Screenwriter]

It takes 60 hours to ESTABLISH a friendship... Just start it. That's 15 four hour dates... and remember... on dates you aren't always talking, you might be riding horses, or bicycles, or with a group of people. They mean 60 hours of one on one interpersonal time. With some people that might take less time and with others a bit more: according to their shyness or lack of it. Be friends, dating friends, and learn about each other before making the boyfriend/girlfriend leap. Dating weekly for two or more months might be a more reasonable time to consider that. You need to find out more about each other. Lots more. Good luck..

[Sweetnessxoxo]

But if he kisses me Then doesn’t that make him my bf?

[Screenwriter]

No. It means he's kissed you. That's a nice thing, but confers no label upon anybody. People kiss strangers and have sex with strangers all the time. They are not in singular, committed relationships. Dont confuse emotional connection with physical connection. They can occur together, and they can exist separately.

[SweetDisaster]

To early but no matter what don't have sex with him. You want your first to be special not on a rush. Trust me take your time enjoy every little thing.

[Sweetnessxoxo]

I probably won’t considering that I’m too shy to even get a first kiss lol

[Avicenna]

Sounds to me like he will ask you, he's just trying to do everything right in terms of getting to know you and each of you meeting the other's parents.

[Truthatanycost]

You guys have barely connected beyond the mind, ego, projections and image. What's the rush?

[Sweetnessxoxo]

I don’t know how things work

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

It's too early , give him sometime. Remember he is handling you with kid gloves?

[Sweetnessxoxo]

What does that mean?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

He can sense that your shy and emotional so he's handling you lightly
you didn't kiss him cause your not ready. I believe you both need to know
whether your a boyfriend / girlfriend before a major move is made such as a kiss

[Sevenpointfive]

if he looks at your lips he wants to kiss unless you're eating and you have some sauce on your mouth

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Lmao wow how helpful 😄

[Sevenpointfive]

and if he notices you looking at his lips after he looks at yours and he doesn't make a move on them then you might have to move a little closer to his

[SALIM28]

I think he's gonna ask u. He just wants to know u more as he says. And I think he realized how shy u are and doesn't want to make u uncomfortable with going too fast.
He's gonna ask u🙂👍

[msss98]

He likes u but way to early for me to consider it a relationship, u guys haven't even kissed!!!

[WhiteShoulder]

He REALLY likes you, but he's not ready to be official yet

[Supermosh1990]

Yeah it might be too early for him
to ask you to be his girlfriend. Hey to know him , make sure you show that you like him (and completely open to be in a relationship with him

[pizzalovershouse]

If its meant to be dont rush want him as a boy friend you have to learn more about him 1st like family friends parents an have many more dated in public

[Ripper_E]

Don't rush things. It'll happen if it happens, and like I said, don't think with your emotions.

[JimboGB]

You are adorable. I'd just say don't rush, you seem a little inpatient.

[OddBeMe]

I love these experiences. Guys can be just as shy, prob more so. Don’t rely on us to make the first move.

[13IsALuckyNumber]

Like he said, he isn’t sure how he feels about you.

[bklynbadboy1]

He definitely likes you but take your time its coming

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong with you asking him then. He might just not be sure if it's too early for you.

[Twalli]

Why does he have to ask you?

[Sweetnessxoxo]

What do you mean?

[Twalli]

You can be the one to ask for exclusivity or a bf/gf label.

[FrenchyRomain]

why don't you ask him?

[Sweetnessxoxo]

I don’t want to seem pushy or pressure him

[FrenchyRomain]

then don't but don't EXPECT him to ask you out when you could definitely do it if you want to be his girlfriend

[leonidas69]

These are getting too long but yes it's too early.

[TheAteam1978]

Yessssssssssss

[Sweetnessxoxo]

What do you mean?

[TheAteam1978]

You just met the guy take it easy

[scooogy]

Well, 3 weeks...