Why he won’t make me his girlfriend yet?

[Anonymous]

I been seeing this guy for almost a month, we hangout almost everyday doing different things. Everything is going great we act like couples, but why hasn’t he made it exclusive or known to everyone? I know that he recently broke up with his ex 2 months ago and they were together for 4 years so I don't know if that has to do with it. He doesn’t have me on his bio, pictures, or status. I’m just confused to where this is going or what I am to him. Any reasons why he hasn’t asked me yet?

[crusti]

Just ask him what he is heading to as you are emotionally and physically invested in it and it will hurt if he just used you to get over his ex. Well I do agree that he needs time because he ended a relationship right now but just ask him where you both are heading to so you know what's gonna happen in future.

[ashish804]

may be he is getting everything from u like getting to fuck u without calling u his girlfriend

[Bad_Man55]

Only been a month give it time

[devil_8888]

Did he have sex with you?

[Asker]

Nothing sexual yet just kissed

[devil_8888]

Maybe he’s still not gotten over his ex...

[Asker]

Even tho he does everything for me and takes me everywhere?

[devil_8888]

Yeah but still something’s stopping him from making you his girlfriend. But I would advise you to give your relationship some time maybe a month or two...

[Asker]

Well he told me I’m pretty much his girlfriend but won’t show to friends or fam?

[devil_8888]

Yeah that’s what the weird part.

[Asker]

Should I be concerned? Cause it confusing to me. He showed off his ex all over social media, but not me or can it be too soon?

[devil_8888]

Wait for a month or two and then decide...

[Vulvalicker]

Because you’re a rebound

[Asker]

How so?

[Vulvalicker]

Only 2 months after a 4 year relationship. You were stupid to get into a relationship with him. This won’t last

[Asker]

What if he calls me his girlfriend but doesn’t show it to the public for people to know?

[Vulvalicker]

He’s lying