What does it mean when a guy asks “where do we stand?

[valentina_lee]

especially after a first date

[R4vedave]

He's trying to see if things are going alright. If you like him, if there's gonna be another date, etc, etc.

[markscott]

It means he wants to know where each of you are in these of a relationship.

[COMMODOREII]

He wants to know if you are boyfriend and girlfriend probably but after one date that is too soon.

[bklynbadboy1]

That means he's interested and you and he wants to know where he stands with you

[GreenGold1992]

"where are we in this relationship?"

[Hoss1981]

That he's a dumb ass

[valentina_lee]

Why?

[Hoss1981]

Because he's trying to push you into dating him and that's a dick move.

[Anonymous]

That he's a moron