This is one of those things where no one is entirely innocent. You did/said things. They did/said things. Just talking shit without acknowledging some blame is bad.Even if I mention something an ex did that was bad I will never just bring it up out of the blue. Someone asked me or it's relevant to an important conversation. And when I mention it I don't make it about her character as a person. It's just stating, this thing happened. It sucked. It hurt a lot. But this was the state of the relationship at that time. I did/said this. She had her reasons even tho I don't think those actions were justified.I'm never shitting on an ex. To this day I can sincerely say all my exes were/are good people. List numerous positive qualities for any one bad trait. Most of the time the thing you didn't like about an ex is also the same trait you liked about them in another way.Like you might fully appreciate an ex who is so relaxed, chill, down to earth and at the same time hate they're so relaxed that they're always late and in a way unreliable in terms of being on time.
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does it mean he'll talk shit about me