Are mysterious/private people more attractive?

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AlienParasite · Accepted Answer

Depends?

I mean, some mystery is always attractive and necessary, it makes you wonder about the person and get you interested in discovering more and answer the question you have about this person.

However, if there's too much privacy, there's no "hook" to even have interest in knowing more. Also if mystery it's too much that it's really hard to discover anything about that person, the interest could fade with time if there's lack of progress in "solving the mystery".

So, the attractive about beign mysterious, it's like the attractive of a good movie trailer, they have to let you taste a small bit of the movie, good enaugh to sell it and make people want to see it, but without making big spoilers that could ruin surprise effect.

fonduegirl · Accepted Answer

generally speaking, you need to scoop up other positive characteristics too in order to get people to pleasantly curious about how you function

and i think you already must be knowing, you've to good looking too, that's an attention getter...

Obtuse · Accepted Answer

I am oppositely wired. If I'm going to get deeply attracted to a girl, it's going to come from exchanges that seem to take away all such mystery. With some of the greatest (my wife being at the top), it felt like we knew each other a lifetime just a couple of weeks into getting to know each other. Our conversations were so open and intimate.

The mystery/stranger idea never appealed to me so much. I might be sort of demisexual in a sense, although I have the basic caveman sexual instinct towards women I don't know, and sometimes even towards women that I don't like very much. But to be deeply attracted to them, I have to get this strong feeling like I really know and get them, and they really know and get me.

ZackBan · Accepted Answer

It depends on how exactly are they mysterious. It's pretty easy for mysterious to turn into cold and egotistic.
For me I like girls that are uncommon but not necessarily ones who don't speak about themselves at all, I prefer genuine mystery and not a forced one.

btbc92 · Answer

Not exposing your business to the whole world is definitely attractive. It's not about looks, it's how they carry themselves.

Thatsamazing · Answer

Well... *attractive* people are attractive. Whether they are "mysterious" or not ( which is entirely subjective in itself) has little to do with it. You wouldn't even notice that a guy was "mysterious" by your reckoning if you didn't already find him attractive enough to, well, notice.

lucas262 · Answer

Im just myself, you cam be quiet and still be pleasant, your are mysterious when people know little about you, so don't tell someone Somthing they didn't ask you don't offer information. Think bubble in a new place. I am here for my own reason doing my own Thing if people come up to me ill be nice and ill be social but I'm not stepping out. You escape the lonely loser loner look when you slap them with your toothy shit eating smile. And pleasant talk.

DiscomfortZone · Answer

Attractive? No, not by a longshot, although people who lack self-awareness tend to get confused and think that they are. In truth, they simply tend to provoke curiosity, much like a clickbate. And, just like a clickbate, they are recognized as annoying and plain stupid after your first time.

And by the way, hiding behind an anonymous profile in an already anonymous platform doesn't make you private/mysterious, it makes you a coward.

Dongtai · Answer

It depends on how you execute it. People who keep to themselves typically give off the “I don’t fuck with you” vibe and that definitely never makes me want a girl more.

Whaler · Answer

I’m personally intrigued by it, I like to try to read people and do it often enough so when I can’t it’s very attractive.

NineBreaker · Answer

Yes, but it's often deceptive. We often fill in the blanks with pure assumptions. Next thing you know, you're falling for some who is hot a heck, but dumber than a doorknob.

kotakota93 · Answer

I said no because the way you asked the question... If you think someone is not attractive or anything and he mysterious you probably wouldn't notice but someone you attracted to or in a since like a crush etc. They will be more attractive in the since u already like them and wanna know more so you think more about them

7etei · Answer

Treasure hunts are exciting. But what if there's no treasure at the end? Mysterious people are fun to try to figure out despite the intimidation etc etc. But there's no point in being mysterious if there's nothing exciting to uncover.
PS: I dont mean dead bodies. A quirky contrasting personality or hobby would do.

neahfinkbone · Answer

Not too private. But not so see through that there is no adventure in trying to get to know the person

arabgoddess · Answer

It's the mystery of who that person is that makes them appealing.. Experienced it myself... once found out, they move on

Anoniemus · Answer

No. I would think he likely has issues, is unable to open up, is conservative and all kinds of other possibilities.

BCA6010 · Answer

To me, yes. Attention-whores who are constantly putting themselves in the spotlight are pretty much the opposite of what I want in a woman.

Brett99 · Answer

Mysterious and fascinating girls are probably more attractive on average, then again, those who are open and straightforward wouldn't go amiss either

Lynx122 · Answer

I'm a person who's alone most of the time but I don't think women see me as more attrative beause of that ^^

MrKinktastic · Answer

A bit of curiosity/intrigue will draw me, but if you never satiate my curiosity I’ll get very bored very quickly.

ChiTown33 · Answer

Only if they're attractive to begin with. The old guy on the bus that talks to himself is pretty mysterious. But i wouldn't describe him as attractive.

BestUserName100 · Answer

No that is shit opinion. Maybe to people who like the game. That’s all it is tho.

brigfrey25 · Answer

I am sexy and I know it

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No. I like talking to woman who are easy to talk to. I have more fun with them compare to someone who doesn't share hardly thing about themselves and lives.

pigoat · Answer

Mysterious and attractive lmao You're so fucking dumb for this

Anonymous · Answer

It depends on how private, a little privacy is fine, everyone has their secrets. But if they are keeping a lot of things a secret they become a lot more untrustworthy and less attractive, in my opinion

Marco10 · Answer

I’ve been told I am mysterious and thus more attractive many times. I guess it is true.

SteveDunn · Answer

I find mysterious people with foreign accents seriously sexy

BoxySama · Answer

To a certain degree, everyone should have something they want to stay in the dark

sweet87 · Answer

More intriguing maybe... It's 50/50 like with anyone new ya meet, they're either awesome or a dick

anzgaupel · Answer

Define mysterious and then in who's eyes are we defining attractive

beatcoock · Answer

If you ask me, I'd say private parts are attractive 😂

vishalraaj · Answer

I'm one and there is always something new about them

serious · Answer

To a great extent yes.

BitterSweetApplePie · Answer

It kind of depends, but they're usually creepy.

QueenTanya · Answer

i prefer open and friendly people

NatalieKeller95 · Answer

hell no Virgo's are weirdos

mattym11 · Answer

I'd say there more dodgy 😂

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Only if they're talkative.

DanOh2018 · Answer

Only if they wear interesting hats

crswantsluv · Answer

I believe so I'm one of them LMAO😆

OddBeMe · Answer

But probably more intimidating.

Zexertio · Answer

No. They're catfish or pedophiles.

Plitty-Tank · Answer

No. They are just as equal to me.

jimmy2 · Answer

That why they are private

Sevenpointfive · Answer

absolutely not

chriscdi · Answer

yea sometimes

Daniel3035 · Answer

Good question. Am i?

Iron_Man · Answer

No lol

Agem123 · Answer

I hope so

SissyFrenchMaid · Answer

sometimes

Anonymous · Answer

Nope

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