
Are mysterious/private people more attractive?


Depends?
I mean, some mystery is always attractive and necessary, it makes you wonder about the person and get you interested in discovering more and answer the question you have about this person.
However, if there's too much privacy, there's no "hook" to even have interest in knowing more. Also if mystery it's too much that it's really hard to discover anything about that person, the interest could fade with time if there's lack of progress in "solving the mystery".
So, the attractive about beign mysterious, it's like the attractive of a good movie trailer, they have to let you taste a small bit of the movie, good enaugh to sell it and make people want to see it, but without making big spoilers that could ruin surprise effect.
generally speaking, you need to scoop up other positive characteristics too in order to get people to pleasantly curious about how you function
and i think you already must be knowing, you've to good looking too, that's an attention getter...
I am oppositely wired. If I'm going to get deeply attracted to a girl, it's going to come from exchanges that seem to take away all such mystery. With some of the greatest (my wife being at the top), it felt like we knew each other a lifetime just a couple of weeks into getting to know each other. Our conversations were so open and intimate.
The mystery/stranger idea never appealed to me so much. I might be sort of demisexual in a sense, although I have the basic caveman sexual instinct towards women I don't know, and sometimes even towards women that I don't like very much. But to be deeply attracted to them, I have to get this strong feeling like I really know and get them, and they really know and get me.
It depends on how exactly are they mysterious. It's pretty easy for mysterious to turn into cold and egotistic.
For me I like girls that are uncommon but not necessarily ones who don't speak about themselves at all, I prefer genuine mystery and not a forced one.
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Not exposing your business to the whole world is definitely attractive. It's not about looks, it's how they carry themselves.
So looks don't matter to you?
@Alex_988_2 No. Because looks fade, I even changed since 5, 16, 19, and I am soon to be 28. Why should looks matter? We're all growing old, wrinkly, stinkier, and such anyway. The soul is what counts. Because its the soul we should be attracted to and love.
Beauty is from within. If you have a good heart I would be with that person. I have good friends because they have good hearts. I got to feel good on a soul level with any person just like I felt with my late mother. She had a unique soul that I was always underneath her because that is how good she felt to my spirit. I rarely find that with people.
I see. You are a good human I guess 😊
Well... *attractive* people are attractive. Whether they are "mysterious" or not ( which is entirely subjective in itself) has little to do with it. You wouldn't even notice that a guy was "mysterious" by your reckoning if you didn't already find him attractive enough to, well, notice.
Im just myself, you cam be quiet and still be pleasant, your are mysterious when people know little about you, so don't tell someone Somthing they didn't ask you don't offer information. Think bubble in a new place. I am here for my own reason doing my own Thing if people come up to me ill be nice and ill be social but I'm not stepping out. You escape the lonely loser loner look when you slap them with your toothy shit eating smile. And pleasant talk.
Attractive? No, not by a longshot, although people who lack self-awareness tend to get confused and think that they are. In truth, they simply tend to provoke curiosity, much like a clickbate. And, just like a clickbate, they are recognized as annoying and plain stupid after your first time.
And by the way, hiding behind an anonymous profile in an already anonymous platform doesn't make you private/mysterious, it makes you a coward.
It depends on how you execute it. People who keep to themselves typically give off the “I don’t fuck with you” vibe and that definitely never makes me want a girl more.
I’m personally intrigued by it, I like to try to read people and do it often enough so when I can’t it’s very attractive.
Yes, but it's often deceptive. We often fill in the blanks with pure assumptions. Next thing you know, you're falling for some who is hot a heck, but dumber than a doorknob.
I said no because the way you asked the question... If you think someone is not attractive or anything and he mysterious you probably wouldn't notice but someone you attracted to or in a since like a crush etc. They will be more attractive in the since u already like them and wanna know more so you think more about them
Treasure hunts are exciting. But what if there's no treasure at the end? Mysterious people are fun to try to figure out despite the intimidation etc etc. But there's no point in being mysterious if there's nothing exciting to uncover.
PS: I dont mean dead bodies. A quirky contrasting personality or hobby would do.
Not too private. But not so see through that there is no adventure in trying to get to know the person
It's the mystery of who that person is that makes them appealing..
Experienced it myself...
once found out, they move on
They or you?
Both
No. I would think he likely has issues, is unable to open up, is conservative and all kinds of other possibilities.
To me, yes. Attention-whores who are constantly putting themselves in the spotlight are pretty much the opposite of what I want in a woman.
Mysterious and fascinating girls are probably more attractive on average, then again, those who are open and straightforward wouldn't go amiss either
I'm a person who's alone most of the time but I don't think women see me as more attrative beause of that ^^
A bit of curiosity/intrigue will draw me, but if you never satiate my curiosity I’ll get very bored very quickly.
Only if they're attractive to begin with. The old guy on the bus that talks to himself is pretty mysterious. But i wouldn't describe him as attractive.
No that is shit opinion. Maybe to people who like the game. That’s all it is tho.
I am sexy and I know it
No. I like talking to woman who are easy to talk to. I have more fun with them compare to someone who doesn't share hardly thing about themselves and lives.
Mysterious and attractive lmao
You're so fucking dumb for this
It depends on how private, a little privacy is fine, everyone has their secrets. But if they are keeping a lot of things a secret they become a lot more untrustworthy and less attractive, in my opinion
I’ve been told I am mysterious and thus more attractive many times. I guess it is true.
I find mysterious people with foreign accents seriously sexy
To a certain degree, everyone should have something they want to stay in the dark
More intriguing maybe... It's 50/50 like with anyone new ya meet, they're either awesome or a dick
Define mysterious and then in who's eyes are we defining attractive
If you ask me, I'd say private parts are attractive 😂
I'm one and there is always something new about them
To a great extent yes.
It kind of depends, but they're usually creepy.
i prefer open and friendly people
hell no Virgo's are weirdos
You a hoe?
I'd say there more dodgy 😂
Only if they're talkative.
Only if they wear interesting hats
I believe so I'm one of them LMAO😆
But probably more intimidating.
No. They're catfish or pedophiles.
No. They are just as equal to me.
That why they are private
absolutely not
yea sometimes
Good question. Am i?
No lol
I hope so
sometimes
Nope
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