Are those more attractive traits?
I personally is the type who doesn't like to talk unless necessary or for strong purpose. I found out people prefer the outgoing type to hang out and date. Is that true?
At a young age sure. You just get more face time. But as you get older it starts to seem more and more needy. Being friendly and knowing how to meet new people is important, but a 40 year old man at a bar becoming "friends" with a bunch of ladies reads more sad and lonely than attractive. No matter how entertaining he is, or how charming, his need for attention shows a deeper issue.
I feel that someone who is in the middle between introverted and extroverted (or shares characteristics of both in certain situations) is the most attractive. People on the far extreme of extroverted can be intimidating if you're anywhere on the other side, and those on the far side of introverted can be too reclusive at times.
Outgoing people are perceived as friendlier and therefore are more attractive than a quiet person. Quiet people make others nervous, often for no reason.
Everyone has his own preferences. For myself, someone overly outgoing would be too tiring.
Being outgoing is confident, confidence is one of the most attractive traits.
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Guys who talk to much and are too friendly tend to be perceived as 'nice guy' which is a huge turn off. As in everything, the right mix does the magic.
An attractive guy should talk so much that he isn't perceived as a silent weirdo but also not so much that people think he has adhd. He should joke enough to be cool and interesting but not so much that he is perceived as a clown. the list goes on.
Not always. I'm a quiet guy and I prefer girls who are like me and don't like talking just for the sake of talking.
That personality is attractive, yes. It somehow converts into them being a bit more physically attractive - I don't know how or why, but it does
It can be veeery tiring. It's extrovert/introvert thing. I for example find reading and ocassional silence sexy. Don't confuse with boring.
Not really, but it's more attractive to have friends than to be a loner. The rest depends on personality. Generally, outgoing people go for outgoing people, and vice-versa.
As long as it isn't excessive, they are more welcoming.
Some people like extroverts, others like introverts. Attraction depends on who's observing you. I personally am very into the stoic type.
We are our actions, not our thoughts sadly. No one can read your mind except yourself. People need to understand this, we have to express ourselves.
Forgot to answer your question sorry. What I meant is that people fall in love with others similar to themselves in the way they think (putting sexual attraction aside) , therefore, you can only corroborate what they think by talking to them or observing the way they are within their actions. Besides, for most people, the person that is the center of attention isn’t the one that wants to be (tho maybe it can) but the one that you can always relay on.
More atteactive tends to be outgoing. But more outgoing people does not have to be attractive.
It helps, but really you need more than looks for that.
I believe sociability is an attractive trait yes. I think when you get on the strongest side of extrovertsion that might be unattractive though.
Outgoing people like other outgoing people usually... i am not outgoing and i find outgoing type to be exhausting to be around.
They will definitely get noticed more. But what everyone else is saying is true extroverts and introverts mix like water and oil
I think attractive is based off connection, outgoing people might talk more, have more opportunities to connect, which could make them more attractive
Really depends I guess. I think no, but that's just my opinion.
I think to girls they are a little. Guys I'm pretty sure don't care.
I'm the type of person who are very chatty etc. but it wouldn't be a problem for me if she isn't it like me
Find someone who walk alone. Silent guys are the most energetic.
I didn't think that matters. I guess it depends on the person. Some pallets prefer more introverted folk over the outgoing lads much like myself.
Everyone is attractive. See the soul and not the body
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