Is a very attractive, outgoing but decent person impossible to find?

[Anonymous]

This might be stupid but my dream/ideal guy would be an old-fashioned gentleman but very attractive at the same time (a handsome Adonis). I would assume that's a fictional, unicorn.

The attractive, outgoing people have many options and unfortunately they'll take every chance. This means the Adonis type is likely getting hit on a lot, flirting with many girls, sleeping around, etc. He won't be a gentleman out of choice.

It would be greating finding an old-fashioned, attractive guy that even though he can attract girls, only believes in traditional values and isn't a player by choice. I guess what I'm asking for must be just as imaginary as a man asking for a gorgeous model that's faithful and a good girl at the same time. Are those people impossible to find?

Yes, that's a unicorn... they don't exist

No... they still exist (they're rare but exist)

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+1 y

The thing the very few so called old-fashioned guys that I've stumbled upon... they aren't usually doing it out of choice. These scenarios happened:
- He's overweight, awkward and has acne issues... someone I'm really not attracted to
- He can't get any girl for years and so settles down as a his last option
- He has other issues, whether financial or personal problems

[MCheetah]

You forgot "tall and ripped" in that description of the perfect man.

The thing is, men like that probably exist. But they aren't going to be interested in *you.* You have to be the same kind of person to get someone like that, and if you have to ask if he exists, you very likely aren't his counterpart.

[Asker]

true that would be the perfect gentleman, tall, handsome, outgoing but traditional due that sticks to his morals
I would like to think I would be his counterpart:
- Family oriented
- 5'6 and physically active
- Good cook
- Doesn't sleep around and doesn't have too many friends

[MCheetah]

Besides the cooking part, you just described most Western women. You had the opportunity to really sell yourself to your hypothetical guy, and just described yourself as "just another average girl" (who can cook). Why on Earth would a perfect guy like you want, be interested in you out of the tens of thousands of other young adult women exactly like that (who may also be intelligent, kind, share his same interests, has a job that helps people, is a better cook than you, way more attractive than you, etc)?

[NellyShines]

They're extremely rare breeds but if you find him, you have to consider what are you bringing to the table other than looks and sex. If that's all you can bring, he's going to show you the exit door. Since those people can get anyone fast, they will be selective and picky. I heard they tend to have high standards; more than the average person.

[Citizenkirk]

Handsome, is in the eye of the beholder.