You want to get to know someone of the opposite gender. You reach out. Would you rather be rejected or ignored and why?

I rather you be straight up and tell me you’re not interested than leading me astray.

It's tough. On one hand, no one likes to be rejected, but on the other if you are ignored you may wonder why.

Ignored, which is what has been my case for this life anyway. Mostly never been rejected directly.

Ignored. That way if a woman does want my attention, it is more obvious.

Ignored. I’m always being rejected so by being ignored they don’t have to tell me Not a ducking chance in hell

I would rather be rejected outright because I don't want to hold on to false hope forever. Just crush me and get it over with.

Rejected, you can learn from it at least...

Rejected. Being ignored leaves too many what ifs.

at least then you have clarity and you won't be kept wondering

Would you rather be rejected or ignored? (Page 2)

Insightfull

Xper 5 Age: 42

Post Opinion

6 likes

Ask to an AI Persona

All

Advisor Smith

With years of experience guiding individuals in their education and career paths, I'm here to...

Fashionista Amy

I'm here to inspire and guide you with a touch of latest trends or advice on personal style.💅👒

Cinematic Lily

With my rich background and passion for the arts, I share insights on films, TV shows, and...

Love Doctor Brad

Welcome to the heart of understanding and transformation. I am your guide on this journey to...

Gamer Bella

With my passion and experience in hobbies and leisure activities, I'm here to offer personalized...

James The Foodie

From savoring Italian classics to discovering the bold flavors of Japanese cuisine, I explore...

Travel Buddy

I'm your go-to travel companion, passionate about exploring new destinations and experiencing...

Athletic Chloe

Whether you need tips on improving your game, insights on fitness and nutrition, or just want to...

What Girls & Guys Said

Opinion

Show Popular Opinions(60)

Rina_colada Follow
Xper 5 Age: 27

+1 y

I rather you be straight up and tell me you’re not interested than leading me astray.

0

0 Reply
PondyPand Follow
Master Age: 26 , mho 51%

+1 y

Rejected. Rather know fully.

3

0 Reply
JJamL69 Follow
Xper 3 Age: 56

+1 y

It's tough. On one hand, no one likes to be rejected, but on the other if you are ignored you may wonder why.

1

0 Reply
UncleJessieRabbit Follow
Explorer Age: 34

+1 y

Ignored, which is what has been my case for this life anyway. Mostly never been rejected directly.

0

0 Reply
MaximisPryme Follow
Yoda Age: 32

+1 y

Ignored. That way if a woman does want my attention, it is more obvious.

0

0 Reply
GayLoner Follow
Xper 5 Age: 31

+1 y

Ignored. I’m always being rejected so by being ignored they don’t have to tell me Not a ducking chance in hell

0

0 Reply
AnthonyWalsh2k1 Follow
Xper 3 Age: 25

+1 y

I would rather be rejected outright because I don't want to hold on to false hope forever. Just crush me and get it over with.

0

0 Reply
Gabriel007 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 36 , mho 60%

+1 y

Rejected, you can learn from it at least...

1

0 Reply
Pix3l Follow
Xper 4 Age: 29

+1 y

Rejected. Being ignored leaves too many what ifs.

2

0 Reply
Owen2105 Follow
Xper 3 Age: 27

+1 y

at least then you have clarity and you won't be kept wondering

0

0 Reply
Jmmmfi4 Follow
Master Age: 45

+1 y
2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Being ignored hurts. TRUST ME I SPEAK FROM EXPERIENCE. But it hurts less then rejection.

0

0 Reply
ultimega Follow
Guru Age: 36

+1 y
553 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Rejection in a nice way though

2

0 Reply
Liam_Hayden Follow
Guru Age: 30

+1 y

Rejection. Doesn't bother me and then I know.

2

0 Reply
Cage4 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 26

+1 y

I'd rather be rejected

2

0 Reply
pizzalovershouse Follow
Master Age: 37

+1 y
1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

I guess both would be about the same so both

1

0 Reply
Poppykate Follow
Guru Age: 43 , mho 42%

+1 y
725 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Definitely rejected. You move on much quicker.

0

0 Reply
ijusthadonequestion Follow
Xper 2 Age: 27

+1 y

100% rather just be ghosted. less messy

0

5 Reply
- ijusthadonequestion
  
  +1 y
  i have no desire to discuss our feelings. if you dont like me then just fuck on
  
  Reply
- Insightfull
  
  +1 y
  @ijusthadonequestion "I'm sorry. You seem like a lovely lady. Want to be friends? :)"
  You'd rather be ghosted than that?
  
  Reply
- ijusthadonequestion
  
  +1 y
  that would insult me more
  
  Reply
- Insightfull
  
  +1 y
  @ijusthadonequestion oh.. why?
  
  Reply
- ijusthadonequestion
  
  +1 y
  being asked to be friends would insult me. i dont think any girl would want to be friends if they were romantically interested in you.
  
  Reply
Mandari Follow
Xper 4 Age: 32

+1 y

Rejection

3

0 Reply
Prakbio Follow
Xper 7 Age: 38

+1 y

rejected with an explanation would be best for me

0

0 Reply
Shellyworld Follow
Xper 7 Age: 37

+1 y

Rejected, at least you have an answer

0

0 Reply
1828ToastyTimothy Follow
Xper 3 Age: 32

+1 y

Rejected -- Not asking yourself, "What if?"

0

0 Reply
Twalli Follow
Master Age: 35

+1 y
4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

At least I know they heard and responded

0

0 Reply
Anonymous
(36-45)

+1 y

Rejected.

2

0 Reply
Plitty-Tank Follow
Yoda Age: 26

+1 y

I rather be rejected.

0

0 Reply
robocop666 Follow
Guru Age: 38

+1 y
923 opinions shared on Dating topic.

I get large amounts of both so it doesn't matter

0

0 Reply
_Phenomenon_ Follow
Xper 4 Age: 26

+1 y

Rejected.

1

0 Reply
Rose_88 Follow
Xper 2 Age: 24

+1 y

Neither

0

0 Reply
PetrovaFire92 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 33

+1 y

Neither!

0

0 Reply
Usernamesrdumb Follow
Xper 5 Age: 35

+1 y

Rather move on asap.

0

0 Reply

Home > Dating > Polls > Would you rather be rejected or ignored?

Would you rather be rejected or ignored? (Page 2)

What Girls & Guys Said

We're glad to see you liked this post.