My boyfriend cheated on me. Is it ok to make him drink an entire cup of pee to prove he is really sorry?

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OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

1. He cheated on you. That is extremely strong evidence about his character. If he is sorry now, he is sorry only because he got caught. Do you want a guy like this being the role model for your sons? Can you really envision having a future with this guy? Wake up!

2. Is it okay to make him drink a cup of pee? You can't make him do anything.

3. If he does drink a cup of pee, what does that prove? Only that he is willing to do something stupid to hold onto you for a while.

4. It sounds like you really want to get some revenge on him. What will that accomplish? You will only be wasting more of your life focusing on this guy instead of putting him in the past and moving forward with your life. Does that really improve your life in the long term?

5. As stupid as this question sounds, I suspect that you are a troll. So I suspect that lectures about wasting your time would just be a waste of my time.

Dongtai · Accepted Answer

My first thought is, he's going to catch hepatitis or some std. That's really gross. Just dump him. Why do people do everything but the reasonable solution. You're with someone who has no qualms about cheating on you. Return the item and exchange it lol

On a serious note, don't encourage that man to drink urine. On the off chance that he actually does it, the fact is he still cheated. Now he's going to remember how YOU made him drink pee. Do you want someone you love to associate you with a terrible and humiliating memory like that? He will definitely cheat again if you make him do that.

Dump him and move on.

GraveDoll · Accepted Answer

very childish and lame and gross

if anything you should move on like a mature adult... who in thier 30s? you sure you are an adult? i would disagree

you both creepy AF and need to seek help.. there a virus going around and he sleeping around and you sleeping with him and ya people playing with body fluids which really is dumb and gross.

aWes0MeNeSs · Accepted Answer

No, that's disgusting and unhealthy.

Honestly, if it were me I would just dump him. Cheating is not something I'd be willing to give a second chance over.

I'm not sure how drinking urine would prove anything. What you would need if you want to give it a second chance is to work on reestablishing trust.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Don't do that - he might get sick and die - make him eat wasabi or cooked worms or 40 cloves of raw garlic

sejla · Answer

Just cut him off. The energy you give toward the revenge is wasted minutes of your life you could be using to have fun and move on.

KennethNoisewater · Answer

Nah. It's not fair to you. He drinks it and then what? you're back together? And now you gotta kiss Mr. Pissmouth. Ohhhhhh hell nah. Or he drinks it and you are not back together but he gets to sleep comfortable every night because he drank some piss and your not mad anymore. Ohhhhhh hell nah. Make him suffer don't get back with him and don't make him drink piss. Hopefully it eats away at him. Hopefully he knows he can't be drinking piss to make his problems go away. These pieces of shit need to learn somehow. Take 3 fingers or something. Drinking piss is nothing compared what he did to you. I'm sorry you have to go through that, anonymous. I had to a couple years ago and it was torture. I wish I took three fingers from her.

Stellargasm · Answer

What? No! What would that prove? Plus aren’t you going to remember he drank piss every time you kiss him? You need to evaluate whether or not you can forgive him for cheating and if it’s going to happen again and how to proceed from there. If you play childish games over something that legitimately hurt you and then go on like everything is fine you’re just burying that hurt and it will resurface at a later time.

Flower7 · Answer

I think you should just break up with him instead of having him jump through hoops to prove he's sorry. Even if he drinks that, there's still no guarantee that he won't cheat again. I would be more worried about that than about trying to get him to apologize.

jayden888 · Answer

Yes you can. But guess what? That's not going to make him not do it again. Find out why he did it and talk about the relationship and where he finds it lacking.

If you were younger, I would have asked you to dump him. Cheaters aren't going to change easily. But since you're already in your 30s finding a man is harder. But if you are confident you can, go ahead and dump him and get back in the dating game.

Daniel3035 · Answer

Ok, let me get this straight your 30ish.
You're in a relationship where the point of it is to find a partner. Now when someone cheats on you your telling me if he drinks pee everything will be ok if you were married no divorce no financial issues and child custody issues?
This is about as ridiculous as your boyfriend killing your mother and you saying if he drinks a glass of pee everything is ok?
I don't think your mature enough nor do you understand the purpose of a relationship.

suncookie · Answer

Babe, even if he does drink a cup full of pee to prove he's sorry, you shouldn't take him back bc he's a fucking asshole and if he did it once he'll most likely do it again...
Plus you deserve better and he deserves to have his dick cut off...

Guardian45 · Answer

Where do I begin? First of all, if you think that is a a 'fair punishment' for what he has done, you are mistaken. This a Betrayal of Trust, that CANNOT be cancelled out by 'trivial act'.

Secondly, believe it or not, some guys might NOT see this as punishment WHATSOEVER!

AzureGirl · Answer

And this accomplished what exactly? Beyond showing this relationship isn’t too healthy?

scooogy · Answer

What happened to your psychiatrist that he didn't let you have an appointment yet?

serious · Answer

No, that is just stupid. If he cheated on you then you should leave him. Simple. Be a real woman and don't make him do something like that to forgive him. What he did is unforgivable.

Spiffy_and_Tails · Answer

No.. that's not even in the same field as what he did. On any level. Why would that be what you want to happen at any point having to do with cheating?

sensible27 · Answer

I am more surprised by the number of girls saying yes (or the ratio of). What is going through your head? Have you considered Trump's new idea of protecting yourself from coronavirus?

worldscolide · Answer

That's just wrong, either forgive him or move on...

abc3643 · Answer

1. You mean your ex-boyfriend. 2. No, that's childish. Besides, he's your ex-boyfriend now.

KaylaJoy · Answer

I think you should just break up with him. If he thought your relationship wasn’t valuable enough, then he clearly isn’t the one for you. You should quit wasting time on him.

BCA6010 · Answer

Why the f*ck would you do that? Just dump his ass to the curb and call it a day. If you do that, you become the abusive girlfriend rather than the victim of a cheater.

Harmseygrace · Answer

I reckon so. I wouldn't do it, but still. It doesn't prove anything through.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

You pee might have germs that are very harmful to his health. Just break up with him. That's the best option.

beldath · Answer

Drinking it won't prove anything. Just that he's willing to drink it to get you off his back so you can keep on being the side chick, or having a side chick.

loveslongnails · Answer

And then what? Do you intend to stay with him ONLY if he does that? Or are you dumping him no matter what, but you're going to TELL HIM if he drinks it, you won't dump and you'll believe he's actually sorry? What's your REAL plan here?

pleasestopthis · Answer

That is stupid and proves nothing at all. He will probably do that to get off the hook and not because he is really sorry about what he did.
If you're serious about this, I suggest you just break up and stop this nonsense.

Bananaman177 · Answer

Make him drink pee and then break up with him anyway.

jgokgotit · Answer

No. That can cause physical harm. Also, since he cheated, you should just leave and be done. It will happen again.

slatyb · Answer

He's an idiot to play games like this. If he wants an open relationship he should say so. If he's an habitual liar then you should just end it.

jess54 · Answer

nah that’s abusive. just leave him sis. he doesn’t deserve ur plot to make him drink piss, that’s too much wasted effort

Anonymous · Answer

That ain't bad that's better than what I had to do to prove myself after I cheated on my girlfriend

alexsa · Answer

Ugh... no! That's wrong. You can't punish someone that way.  Leave him and end the story.

DanaeAdam5 · Answer

Lol what dah fuqk? If ur trolling:ur fucking hilarious 😂 If ur not trolling:Gurl u need some medical help and a new boyfriend

SjE78 · Answer

wtf seriously that is some serious piss taking crazy that is

JackSmy · Answer

If that is your way of getting even, then I would say he is better off without you!!

Sarahr123 · Answer

Whatever you do, if someone cheats you gotta kick them out girl.

ghostqueen · Answer

Then, you stay with a piss mouth cheater? Just throw him away.

collegerules · Answer

No, make him suck on your feet or eat your booty or forgive and move on

Zarapeachy · Answer

That’s just wrong... why are you being petty about it? Like just move on rather than be revengeful

Tally_ho · Answer

So after his mouth has been on another girl’s 🐱 and he’s drank piss you’re prepared to let him kiss you? Girl what is wrong with you? I’d let him drink the piss then dump his ass anywy

Shamalien · Answer

Get him to drink it infront of his friends, then break up with him the moment he finishes the last drop.  Straight up though, a cup of pee won't solve you're relationship problems XD

KrakenAttackin · Answer

LOL, that is so fucked up but hilarious! Try to make him drink it down, if he does it he is as super-cuck.

If some woman handed me a cup of warm piss and told me to drink it I would pour it over her head.

Aaron_Stone · Answer

I wonder if this childish mindset of yours is the reason he did cheat on you 🤨

DJB72 · Answer

Only if you dump him afterwards for being so stupid he'd cheat on you and so pathetic he'd drink a cup of pee...

Married85 · Answer

Oh most definitely. Give the maggot a golden shower

JosyJosy · Answer

No that's stupid, you kiss that mouth. Also just break up with him, he's going to do it again most likely

Anonymous · Answer

On today’s episode of “do everything but break up with him”:

datgirl · Answer

Even if he is willing to do something as gross as that and apologize you still shouldn't accept it. Whats done is done. And you need to find somebody else.

woody7979 · Answer

Hello No!!! It seems there's a big difference between what he did and what you want him to do. Besides, how in the world would that prove anything? I'd be laughing on my way out the door.

Wenchantedy · Answer

um just dump his ass the fuck

cute_short_nerd · Answer

That’s just wrong, leave him and see if he tries to come back ask him if he is retarded.

coffeewithcream · Answer

He didn't cheat on you. He left you. And should have.

ColeBrighton2 · Answer

No, don't cruelly punish the dude. Please get a healthier relationship.

archiz · Answer

His own pee? Should be safe, pee is sterile anw.

ThiccNigro · Answer

Oh great, another pink anon that's really a dude fetish mining 🙄🙄🙄

Anonymous · Answer

You should only let a loyal boyfriend drink your pee.

Ghost_retro · Answer

You"ll mess more up... build that was missing... that cause this mess...

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Ew. But for real my girlfriend drinks my pee all the time straight from the source. Makes me really turned on.

Anonymous · Answer

Girl, just move on. If he gets severely ill and dies your ass is going the fuck to prison.

Anonymous · Answer

No. Have him watch you get screwed hard by a well hung black guy.

NewZion · Answer

Why did he cheat on you?

chriscdi · Answer

just break up with him lol

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Would it be ok for him to smack you on the face if you cheated on him and were really sorry?

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