i dont believe in soulmates. i dont think there is one person meant for you, i just think that you are more compatible with certain people and also are on the same path in life as certain people that helps narrow done who you fall in love with. with that in mind i still want a monogamous relationship with "true love"
I don’t believe in soul mates and stuff. There are billions of people on this planet and I think there are potentially thousands of people that I could fall in love with. But for now I’m just glad that I met the person I’m with and I get to be with him right now. Maybe we won’t last forever. Maybe will. I don’t know. I just know that if you find love you should treasure it.
I do, i believe we have multiple soulmates, people can put in the effort in a relationship to Make it last, but if it doesn't work out, then there is another person out there, sometimes love isn't enough. Its about compatibility, some people will make it, but I don't think there's a limit to any 1 person as far as a long lasting, real, consuming, passionate love
"If you can't handle me at my worst, then you dont deserve me at my best"
For heaven's sakes - 17? You're barely past childhood. No, there's no such thing as a 'soulmate', or 'the one'. True love is something else - you're just not ready. No, these are platitudes for the weak-minded. There are any number of prospects that would make for a worthwhile mate. And why we DATE. So date a lot, just don't have sex with them all. You'll gain sufficient experience to actually be able to discern whether they're worthy, whether they're a match.
I do! True Love is something I had been looking for a quite awhile and found it with help my of Boyfriend whom I truly Love! In my opinion True Love comes to those who wait and randomly at that. it even sometimes comes when you least expect it. I'm sure you'll find True Love someday 😊
Yes because everything has a purpose and time. I do believe that two people can be meant to be together, and they are compatible and feel the way they feel about each other for that reason. Does everybody have many options, and can they make it work with anybody? Yes. But the soulmate is the one whom you actually love in the end
Also believe that with that "purpose" comes this: he has strengths that accompany her weaknesses, and vice versa. They were placed in each other's lives for a reason.
Welcome to this era. I believe a lot of people look for casual when they find out how really really difficult is to find your soulmate (and worse, he or she has to be available, in the correct place in his/her life, etc).
I know exactly how you feel. I want a deep connection beyond the physical appearance. And it's hard because at this point dating looks more like speed dating. I'm still liking for my soulmate but in the meantime I'm going to try and improve myself for my benefit. The right person will come around when you last expect.
yes i met my soul mate... she dont like me in that way :( but the good news is i think i found another soul mate... a different girl who is very similar to her (possibily better) so the good news is i think more than 1 person can be ur soul mate
its true, the world is like this, till u get 25-30 age group, u will find men like this only and there are lot more chances for later patchup, relationship problem or even divorce. . . so try to understand the world and choose the best accorging to human behaviour, richness, self confidence and self stand and more importantly one women men and human Values and integrity is a complimentary
Well it depends. How long are you willing to wait for said soul mate? You are 17? If so you may have a few years before you are able to get married. But would you wait for 2-5 years for Mr. Right, or do like the rest of them, subsist on hookups and jump from one bed to the next like they are playing musical chairs?
Believing in soul mates and living with soulmate/true love 24/7 for whole life is different thing. Nowdays majority people just get bored in relationships and want new things to spice up so like hook up and cheating comes in picture. Find a person who want to have good and stable long relationship with you. Also lol physical appearance have nothing to do.
I do and once you find that person you still have to work at a relationship you can still get a long great have the same intrests and everything but you will still have arguments you still need to pay attention to the other person everything takes time and yoy can meet someone who you just feel is the one for you but any relationship takes a lot of work
No I don't believe in the term "soulmate" love yes but not fairy tale love. For me it's more about having a good connection, respect and understanding of each other. Now if the sex life is good then that's smthng else. But the first part matters to me more.
Lol people aren’t changing either. Men my age are exactly the same way. I have found very few men in my life the past few years who want more than a quick bang out with no strings attached. I feel people don’t value other people anymore and you are not alone in feeling like commitment has gone out the window. My advice, sit back and live your life. When you love yourself, set healthy boundaries and dont settle, that’s when you open the door to the kind of men that you want.
Maybe if you valued yourself enough to wait before having sex then maybe you'd be married by now. You complain about how people don't value love and lack committment, yet you don't seem very committed to the idea of getting married. Are you actually upset that people lack commitment, or is that something you just say to shame men? If you are unsure then ask yourself this: "Would you be okay with getting married if divorce was illegal/impossible?", if your answer is no then clearly you don't actually care about commitment.
So if I love myself, set healthy boundaries, and dont settle, then I deserve to marry an amazing woman?
I think we all have many soulmates but we don't get to meet all of them. I think soulmate is someone you click with, someone who you can feel what they're feeling, someone who you can be completely comfortable around. I think soulmates don't often have to be romantic even, but I do feel that everyone has that special person. It just takes time to find the right person! :)
I did research about it as per my limited intelligence I had came across some facts that there are like soulmate and twin souls almost same sometimes when you meet them it's pure magic and in dome cases it'd pure chaos believing it or not is something else but meeting and getting them and spending life has only 1% of chance that too for few
I feel you, dear Scarlett. You're only 17 and people around you may want to explore bodies before heart. True love does exist for some, and does not exist for some. It depends what your destiny holds for you.
Just go with the flow and enjoy life. Take everything that comes your way with the occassional filter to weed out nasty stuff.
I believe the idea of true love can be created between members of an already existing relationship. In eventuality, they can subconsciously think of each other as soulmates.
However, I don't believe there is one specific person out there who is destined to be one's soulmate/ true love.
That hook up culture thing will continue well after college. I don't like to use the term soulmate because it's rather idealistic for my liking. I think you can just focus on building yourself and growing as a person because if you meet the right person but you are in the wrong headspace, it won't work. There is a lot that can change about you in 3 years. Take your time.
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i dont believe in soulmates. i dont think there is one person meant for you, i just think that you are more compatible with certain people and also are on the same path in life as certain people that helps narrow done who you fall in love with. with that in mind i still want a monogamous relationship with "true love"
I don’t believe in soul mates and stuff. There are billions of people on this planet and I think there are potentially thousands of people that I could fall in love with. But for now I’m just glad that I met the person I’m with and I get to be with him right now. Maybe we won’t last forever. Maybe will. I don’t know. I just know that if you find love you should treasure it.
I do, i believe we have multiple soulmates, people can put in the effort in a relationship to Make it last, but if it doesn't work out, then there is another person out there, sometimes love isn't enough. Its about compatibility, some people will make it, but I don't think there's a limit to any 1 person as far as a long lasting, real, consuming, passionate love
"If you can't handle me at my worst, then you dont deserve me at my best"
For heaven's sakes - 17? You're barely past childhood.
No, there's no such thing as a 'soulmate', or 'the one'. True love is something else - you're just not ready.
No, these are platitudes for the weak-minded. There are any number of prospects that would make for a worthwhile mate. And why we DATE. So date a lot, just don't have sex with them all. You'll gain sufficient experience to actually be able to discern whether they're worthy, whether they're a match.
I do! True Love is something I had been looking for a quite awhile and found it with help my of Boyfriend whom I truly Love! In my opinion True Love comes to those who wait and randomly at that. it even sometimes comes when you least expect it. I'm sure you'll find True Love someday 😊
Yes because everything has a purpose and time. I do believe that two people can be meant to be together, and they are compatible and feel the way they feel about each other for that reason. Does everybody have many options, and can they make it work with anybody? Yes. But the soulmate is the one whom you actually love in the end
Also believe that with that "purpose" comes this: he has strengths that accompany her weaknesses, and vice versa. They were placed in each other's lives for a reason.
Welcome to this era. I believe a lot of people look for casual when they find out how really really difficult is to find your soulmate (and worse, he or she has to be available, in the correct place in his/her life, etc).
You have to persevere, though.
I know exactly how you feel. I want a deep connection beyond the physical appearance. And it's hard because at this point dating looks more like speed dating. I'm still liking for my soulmate but in the meantime I'm going to try and improve myself for my benefit. The right person will come around when you last expect.
yes i met my soul mate... she dont like me in that way :(
but the good news is i think i found another soul mate... a different girl who is very similar to her (possibily better)
so the good news is i think more than 1 person can be ur soul mate
its true, the world is like this, till u get 25-30 age group, u will find men like this only and there are lot more chances for later patchup, relationship problem or even divorce. . . so try to understand the world and choose the best accorging to human behaviour, richness, self confidence and self stand and more importantly one women men and human Values and integrity is a complimentary
Well it depends. How long are you willing to wait for said soul mate? You are 17? If so you may have a few years before you are able to get married. But would you wait for 2-5 years for Mr. Right, or do like the rest of them, subsist on hookups and jump from one bed to the next like they are playing musical chairs?
Believing in soul mates and living with soulmate/true love 24/7 for whole life is different thing. Nowdays majority people just get bored in relationships and want new things to spice up so like hook up and cheating comes in picture. Find a person who want to have good and stable long relationship with you. Also lol physical appearance have nothing to do.
I do and once you find that person you still have to work at a relationship you can still get a long great have the same intrests and everything but you will still have arguments you still need to pay attention to the other person everything takes time and yoy can meet someone who you just feel is the one for you but any relationship takes a lot of work
No I don't believe in the term "soulmate"
love yes but not fairy tale love.
For me it's more about having a good connection, respect and understanding of each other.
Now if the sex life is good then that's smthng else.
But the first part matters to me more.
Lol people aren’t changing either. Men my age are exactly the same way. I have found very few men in my life the past few years who want more than a quick bang out with no strings attached. I feel people don’t value other people anymore and you are not alone in feeling like commitment has gone out the window. My advice, sit back and live your life. When you love yourself, set healthy boundaries and dont settle, that’s when you open the door to the kind of men that you want.
Maybe if you valued yourself enough to wait before having sex then maybe you'd be married by now. You complain about how people don't value love and lack committment, yet you don't seem very committed to the idea of getting married. Are you actually upset that people lack commitment, or is that something you just say to shame men? If you are unsure then ask yourself this: "Would you be okay with getting married if divorce was illegal/impossible?", if your answer is no then clearly you don't actually care about commitment.
So if I love myself, set healthy boundaries, and dont settle, then I deserve to marry an amazing woman?
I think we all have many soulmates but we don't get to meet all of them. I think soulmate is someone you click with, someone who you can feel what they're feeling, someone who you can be completely comfortable around. I think soulmates don't often have to be romantic even, but I do feel that everyone has that special person. It just takes time to find the right person! :)
I did research about it as per my limited intelligence I had came across some facts that there are like soulmate and twin souls almost same sometimes when you meet them it's pure magic and in dome cases it'd pure chaos believing it or not is something else but meeting and getting them and spending life has only 1% of chance that too for few
I feel you, dear Scarlett. You're only 17 and people around you may want to explore bodies before heart. True love does exist for some, and does not exist for some. It depends what your destiny holds for you.
Just go with the flow and enjoy life. Take everything that comes your way with the occassional filter to weed out nasty stuff.
Kind of.
I believe the idea of true love can be created between members of an already existing relationship. In eventuality, they can subconsciously think of each other as soulmates.
However, I don't believe there is one specific person out there who is destined to be one's soulmate/ true love.
That hook up culture thing will continue well after college. I don't like to use the term soulmate because it's rather idealistic for my liking. I think you can just focus on building yourself and growing as a person because if you meet the right person but you are in the wrong headspace, it won't work. There is a lot that can change about you in 3 years. Take your time.