I think it should be brought up whether they both do or don't want kids in the future

I may, the fact that I can't get a girl pregnant, so we have to adopt if she wants kids.

Depends on the woman. If we vibe extremely well, it probably won't bother me.

Yes cause to me it means she jumping from Partner to Partner.

Not at all, I personally rather find out at first. No morning surprise. lol

It would be sad for me to break things off, but I don't want kids.

If she is talking about having kid's. Yes. If she is talking about the kid's she already has. No.

If she’s saying I can’t wait to have a baby then yes. However, if she just says I like kids and hope to have some then no.

No but it is too quick to bring that up. I would proceed with caution.

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Xper 5 Age: 33

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I think it should be brought up whether they both do or don't want kids in the future

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Twalli Follow
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I may, the fact that I can't get a girl pregnant, so we have to adopt if she wants kids.

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Depends on the woman. If we vibe extremely well, it probably won't bother me.

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Yes cause to me it means she jumping from Partner to Partner.

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Not at all, I personally rather find out at first. No morning surprise. lol

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It would be sad for me to break things off, but I don't want kids.

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If she is talking about having kid's. Yes. If she is talking about the kid's she already has. No.

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dealbreak no, scary yes.

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Xper 6 Age: 44

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If she’s saying I can’t wait to have a baby then yes. However, if she just says I like kids and hope to have some then no.

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No but it is too quick to bring that up. I would proceed with caution.

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Xper 5 Age: 24

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No I want kids it would be a relief if she did to but on first date it would be a little strange

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Yeah that's moving way too fast

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  Cool
  
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Ya lol I don't even know if there will be a second date with a girl without that being brought up.

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It’s fine if she’s waiting for marriage.

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A step @ time will be preferable

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  If u a fanatics of fun ,,, then make it official 😊
  
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Nah, it means she has a future so not at all

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That she has kids or that she wants kids?

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  She wants them 😍
  
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  Well I would be weirded out if she wanted kids right away ASAP, but if we're just making light talking about it, it shouldn't be a harm.
  
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For most people I would assume so

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A little, best to get to know each other first...

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No. Because that would be useful info.

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Not a deal breaker, but it's scary.

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Only after the sex. 😂

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No. Not for me but may be for her.

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Not a deal breaker by any means

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no. I'd rather she speak her mind.

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Since I want a kid too, I don't mind.

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Not really. It's nice she wants children.

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No, no problem for me, I have lived

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Not if its a serious date

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Not a deal breaker but unusual

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No not at all.

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just make sure they're sleeping after you get home

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Pretty much...

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HELL YES!!!

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Nope

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  See I actually want to know, so I guess I'm not normal. Lol
  
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- Secret6620
  
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  Me too ahahahaha 😆🤦 kids are awesome
  
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  I want kids eventually so that's why I want to know.
  
  One girl I like doesn't want kids, but is still wouldn't mind being with her.
  
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  That's sooooooo sweet 😍🥰
  
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No it is not

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No... lol

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