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Is It A Dealbreaker If The Girl Brings Up Children On The First Date? (Page 2)
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Nope, if she is hot, I will be fantasizing about watching her play with our son or daughter. But, it's a little crazy early, maybe she doesn't want me she just wants my sperm and my credit cards.
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What about children specifically? Wanting them or not? No, that's a good thing to talk about early (could be a "deal breaker" for some). I wouldn't suggest however saying "I want a baby NOW!" lol
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Well, it. Depends on context! There’s nothing wrong with asking a grown man if he wants children some day, but if you ask him to get you pregnant of date one... Yeah! He should run like hell!
depends on context. is she saying she has some? is she trying to discuss a maybe someday? is she asking to make 1 right then?
The scenario is whatever you decide (◍•ᴗ•◍)
well if it's the wanting to make 1 right now, i am gonna run
Ahahahaha great choice 💖
if it was further into a relationship and i liked her enough to want kids with then it would be a different story
Totally understandable 💖
Confession, that's one of the first thing he said to me, and no other didn't scare me away.
Maybe because at our age we both know that we aren't dating for games
It depends on the context. My community is very family oriented and most girls have goals to start a family (many within months of getting married) so talking about kids is fine. Talking about kids together though is a bit of a red flag
I gotcha! Thanks for the feedback 🌸
I guess if she wants to be sure that the men wants some too in the Future it is okay. So no dealbreaker. Also I think as older as you get as more usual it'll become and that's fine.
Not a deal-breaker, I love Children wish I was a Dad.
Beautiful 😍
Thank You 😎
Actually at my age it's men who are bringing up marriage and babies on the first date. And it's not a turn on. It makes me feel like they are just trying to fit me into some kind of mold or use me for a baby before they run out of options
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It really depends on the girl. If she's super attractive then I don't mind. Like yesss, let's talk about how we can make cute babies
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hmm... i wouldn’t think it’s too crazy. i am trying to know about my date so i guess it depends if we were on somewhat of a related subject
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First dates are just about the two of you, you can talk about your kids after that date because the guy should know, but that first date doesn't have to be the time to discuss it.
The Negotiations should touch on lots of things. Religion, politics, sex and children.
If we are profiling each other, that's fine. But if it's "I want a baby NOW", its time to go.
No not at all @Secret6620! If anything it's a turn on in my opinion as I want children too!
Children are fantastic 👌
I agree @Secret6620 plus I like a woman who has priorities and knows what she wants.
Niceeeee 😇
Uh! Kinda coz i will want to settle first. Get financially stable and after that i can think but the first date I guess yea it will be a deal-breaker.
Hmmmm 🤔 u r asking so many questions on babies, are u planning one? Lol
Depends. Her current kids? No problem as long as it isn't all she talks about. Future kids? Problem. I don't want to have kids. I'm fine being around kids, but I know I can always give someone else's kids back. Can't really do that with my own kids.
No, it's not a deal breaker. That's kind of a silly standard
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You bet. And I have talked about children on the first date before already 🤣
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if she says we or our yes it is. Shows she's a nut. but if she says i would like to have or in the future with the right guy no
Ahahahaha a "nut"🤣
No because it shows she has plans for the future and I eventually want to build a family too. However, it won't be for soon.
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It's ok to discuss about it, for fun but then again 1st date. I'd like to have more casual convos. Might make me feel like they only want me for kids.
No man wants a women just for her kids.
@Gammerman u never know, 1 person might.