“Hey I really don’t want to play games at all with you. It’s been fun hanging out, I’m just not seeing a future here and I hate when I think I’m wasting someone’s time. I had a good time getting to know you”
I have to respect that, but I'm so confused. Why even mention a 4th date last week? Why suggest the weekend to me yesterday? Like I'm legitimately so upset. I really enjoyed our time together every time we've hung out and he's the first guy I've had real feelings for since my last long-term relationship ended just over a year ago.
Should I ask him why he feels that way? Or just how should I respond?
It's worth noting we haven't kissed yet, though I didn't find that unusual since I didn't kiss my ex until the 4th date (he didn't want to seem creepy by doing it too soon and wanted it to be the right time). So I know it's better he said this before things went too far, but still. This just wasn't the text I was expecting to get.