What do you do when a guy you've been seeing for 10 months says he, "can't see a future at this stage"?

[Anonymous]

I might have to move away to study and the guy I've been seeing keeps saying there is too much uncertainty. If you like me and want to be with me, what's the problem?
Why do guys not want to try and make it work?

[kylee2437]

So that’s his job to move around and leave you alone if he doesn’t see a future with you. Take his word and X him out because it seems like he’s being direct but trying to seeing if you are down for temporary fun

[LazerBean]

You move on. He doesn't try to make it work bc he's not that into you or just isn't looking for anything serious.

[Dav1dTh0ma389]

I always tell a girl up front that I don't want marriage or kids. That way I'm not wasting her time, hoping that she'll want the same

[Guy13]

I’m with him. Your life at 35 is not stable. This is not relationship time for you or him. Makes total sense to me

[Asker]

I'm 29. He is 40. I'm training for 3 years potentially. Most people don't get there career of the ground till 35

[TenderFantasy]

@Asker but why did you lie on G@G about your age, especially to be older? A lot of women lie to be younger lol.

[bamesjond0069]

Yeah, that doesn't sound like a good situation to me. I would be out too even if I really liked you. I'd want you to say fuck the training or whatever and stay and then I'd be into serious dating. Woman who puts job first is not acceptable.

[ariadneR]

Tell him bye.

he's asking to to give up on doing something that will benefit you in the long run. You don't deserve that

[TenderFantasy]

Dude he just broke up with you, are you gonna be THAT pathetic and BEG for his love? God.

[girlypop00]

Break up. There will be someone else who appreciates and supports your desires and goals.

[TacosRAwesome]

I can see his point in this case since you're the one with the uncertain future. But in the usual circumstances, I suggest you leave.

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh, come on. Stop bullshitting. You know you would dump him after you moved.

[Anonymous]

Clearly you guy selection is not very good if after 10 months you're just discovering this about him. You need to pay better attention. Sorry!

[slatyb]

How long is he supposed to wait for you?

[shortster]

What should he string you along?

[Anonymous]

What the hell, dump him

[Sisters_Of_Time]

Back to dating you!

[Jennz6]

That sucks