Should I tell my boyfriend I got asked on a date? (Page 2)

Question

I met this guy at a party last week. We got eye contact for a second, I thought he was handsome and I didn't think anything of it. Then I feel a tap on my shoulder and it's him, asking my name/where I am from etc. He went as far as to ask for my snapchat, and I gave it to him. He has been talking to me, asking about my day and he just asked me out. He suggested we hang at my place, but I said no and that we could casually play video games in the lounge at his school with other people. I just found out this guy has a girlfriend back in his country and I'm super confused. I would never go on a date behind my boyfriend's back, but I feel so weird about the entire situation. I don't feel the need to tell my boyfriend, because I don't consider it a big deal. But would you want to know if someone asked your partner out?

JamesBlackDragon · Answer

It doesn't bother me but my girlfriend tells me when a guy or a girl ask her out and even tried to invite me along but they asked her not me so I don't go just like I don't take her when I go out with my best friends who happen to be girls

Protein_mate · Answer

Nah talk to who you want, because trust needs to cemented. The danger is when you catch feelings and don't tell your boyfriend. But then again if he were to find out he'd most probably be pissed as most guys would.

A_Nihilist · Answer

I would expect my partner to tell me if they got asked on a date. To not tell your partner is a betrayal of their trust, even if you may have viewed it as nothing or something silly. To reveal it later could offend them all the more.

iambae · Answer

Not unless he knows the person directly. Let sleeping dogs lie.

pleasestopthis · Answer

Yes I'd want to know. It just makes it look like you're hiding something and if he finds out somehow it will suck.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

YES. TELL HIM. If you keep this a secret, it will END your relationship.

DWornock · Answer

There is no benefit to telling your boyfriend, especially if when you are ovulation you decide to have sex with the guy which, likely you will do if you find him attractive enough.

thedevilsrip · Answer

Not my call to make but if you're in a relationship and you know this and you're not open about things that can hurt the relationship more than you'd think

kibbenkat · Answer

It doesn't matter if you do or you don't. Sometimes, I find it silly to bring up and giggle about

bamesjond0069 · Answer

So you are going to hang out with him and not tell your boyfriend. So you are a cheater?

sensible27 · Answer

I'd say don't strategize it, tell him if you want to.

Meatunnel69 · Answer

If he has romantic interest in you cut him off completely you can't even be friends if you are to be true to your boyfriend

Guardian45 · Answer

It depends on what kind of relationship you have with your boyfriend. Are BOTH of you monogamous? Then YES! IF ONE of you is ethically polyamorous? Then MAYBE or NO!

JosyJosy · Answer

No, I wouldn't want to know. Unless the person's persistent, then there is a problem

Nephilim000 · Answer

I think I would want to know so that of I saw the guy I could tell him what's up

Twenty2 · Answer

You gave him your snapchat and you find him handsome. Your boyfriend should know.

TrustOfWorthington · Answer

well if you want people to call you illoyal bi*** then go for it. If you really don't care about relationships go ahead and be stupid.

msc545 · Answer

I would want to know, and would also want to know how far it went.

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

Would you want to know if he got asked out? I would tell my fiancee but that is just how we are. I like to keep her on her toes though

AkshiJanjua · Answer

Maybe you are bored with your boyfriend and want to have a fling with a hot guy. Whatever bw it he is going to get super pissed off whe finds out you have been texting random strangers from a party

Thatsamazing · Answer

I don't see the problem here. Man people should open up more.

MountAverage · Answer

How would you feel if this was the other way around with your boyfriend and some girl?

asshole_ · Answer

yeah I mean, you're affiliating with other men, right? It's only common to be "asked out"

Jessie91331 · Answer

only if you want to make him nervous or jealous... some things don't need to be said.

007kingifrit · Answer

yes you need to tell your boyfriend. men do not make friends with women. he only has 1 motivation

Anastacia1989 · Answer

Be honest and tell him or else he will find out from someone else and thing that you’re cheating

In_Trance · Answer

What if this scenario was reversed and it happened to your boyfriend?

SerahRainbow · Answer

Very important.. don't keep secrets. it will sholly hunt you one day

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Only if you want to make him become rageking! Seriously though, No.

venomhbk1313 · Answer

It's only fair that you be honest with him you would expect the same thing in return

legalboxers · Answer

If you believe in the "box theory".. yes.. Trust-Honesty-Communication-Respect.

casual_friend · Answer

You don't need to worry your boyfriend, I think that the most important is the fidelity you show regardless you don't tell him

johntalley · Answer

If thats your boyfriend. Attraction to other people should not matter. I hope you know the answer. If not. Dont fuck with his head

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

You should feel weird cause you went to far

JesseCraft07 · Answer

Of course you should tell your boyfriend. But do NOT cheat!

blessedtrav87 · Answer

Yes cause depending on who that is like if he's somebksy that knows you or him then thats bull shit

FriscoKid · Answer

Do it, if he think you're worth it he’ll understand it.

barbixxo123 · Answer

yer u should, that would build trust between u both

bootyloveR88 · Answer

You already cheated if you ask me

Celtero · Answer

I think it could improve trust possibly...

NO-ONES-EX · Answer

Yes, hiding shit is wrong on so many levels

chapawapa · Answer

If u want. Maybe you guys can laugh at it

jack5150 · Answer

secrets and lies ruin

pink_and_inlove · Answer

I share everything with mine lol

lilgal · Answer

Yes i always tell mine wen i get chatted up

jeremy_09 · Answer

not if you don't do it

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes tell your boyfriend today

Wise4myage · Answer

I don't see any point in doing that.

whybnormal · Answer

Do whatever will set your conscience at rest.

jizzyjay · Answer

Yes, but I like to know and share everything.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Yeah, you are moments from cheating.

sunnyd83 · Answer

Don't tell him. It'll only cause trouble.

Ineedmoneynow · Answer

Signs of future players

Cryptic-Game · Answer

Yes. That would be a wise idea.

Taylorsmith444 · Answer

yes if you still love him as your man

joshtheman · Answer

No I don't think you should

seth-savage17 · Answer

Yes, you should feel him everything

ProDiJai · Answer

Yes, and tell him you turned it down

Agape93 · Answer

Nah no need

AmeerX · Answer

I don't think so

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