Yea u do need to tell him, especially since uve been carrying out contact with him, he asked u on a date so u clearly know he's interested as more than a friend. U know u should tell him, u wouldn't be asking if a part of u didn't feel like u were hiding something
If i was your boyfriend I'd break up with you for giving your snapchat to someone who was obviously hitting on you. I git pissed off reading this and I don't even know who you are. You cheated on him in my book.
Why are u thinking so much of this guy? And why would u give him your snap? Obviously you're interested in this new guy. U should have told him from the start that u already have a guy.
definitely tell your boyfriend about it. tell him you gave him your snap and you said no to going to his place but that you were down to play video games. if you are 100% open and honest it will be hard for them to assume anything else.
Not unless you want to hurt him, It's tempting to let a S. O. know that other guys, esp. attractive guys, find you desirable. It's a compliment and an offer you may want to keep in your back pocket should the need arise. If boyfriend is affectionate and you are getting along well w/ no plans of changing status of your relationship then telling him would only cause problems
You’re flirting with a guy for attention & maybe more. That’s a half step away from cheating. Stop being a coward and either dump your boyfriend or stop flirting.
No don't tell him and also get a full time job as a prostitute. You gave him your snapchat and next you will give him your cunt. You're so hypocritical because few days ago you shared the mytake on how to treat men right. You just need attention here. You're a cheater and go f**k like a b**ch with those dogs. No one cares but karma will do the same with u.
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Don't be in a relationship if you can't be transparent about important topics like these. Just date and hookup.
Obviously you found it a big enough deal to come on here and ask. I think you know deep down that what you’re doing is wrong to your boyfriend. If your boyfriend isn’t enough for you it’s not fair for either one of you to stay in that relationship. You making the eye contact, leading him as far as asking you on a date and then giving him your Snapchat... how would you feel if this was the other way around? And your boyfriend did all these things and then made plans to see this girl behind your back? If you don’t care then leave your boyfriend and do you. But if you do care, then you’re being very selfish.
My girl tells me everything even if it's tiny or insignificant and I absolutely adore her for that and makes me trust her so much more, even if it sometimes triggers a nerve in me and makes me a bit mad, I tell her what to do about it and she makes sure I dont worry about anything related after that
Tell your boyfriend everything, he'll appreciate it
I didn't realize it was ragequeen posting this and honestly I gotta say I'm surprised, I thought you were super loyal to your boyfriend and you guys were madly in love.
I'm obviously not the only who thinks you were half-cheating, it's natural to think he's handsome but letting him get this far and not even mentioning you had a boyfriend? Nah man there's something wrong here and you're the only one to blame.
If I knew my girl did all this THEN she came and told me, I would be really fucking upset and would probably make a huge fight out of it because it is NOT okay at all.
Damn, this makes me sad actually, didn't expect this at all. I hope you've got things you forgot to add to the story so it's a bit better.
I know it sounds scary now to tell him considering you might lose him over it, but if you actually love and respect your boyfriend, you'd tell him honestly, don't be selfish, make him a priority, not yourself, put yourself in his shoes, he doesn't deserve this, he deserves better, so give him better and tell him.
Don't be one of those girls who can never be trusted, your actions have consequences and you gotta own them.
I would say a good normal boyfriend would be good at communicating and open to almost any conversation... If I get asked by a girl out on a date while I am in relationship.. I wouldn't mind telling my girlfriend, just as if I am talking about my day.
Yes. And frankly I'd question you for giving your contact information to a guy who was clearly, 100% interested in you sexually. You just don't give your contacts to potential sexual partners if you're faithful to your relationship, there is simply no reason to do so unless you want to cheat.
Last time an ex did that, I found out she'd cheated on me with that guy.
I think it could create more trouble than anything, especially if your boyfriend has trust issues or get jealous easily. That said, you can choose the more open route and tell him about it to show that you have nothing to hide, especially if you are consistent about your openness.
I'd say maybe not... Unless he was continually trying to ask you out then I'd like to maybe tell him to chill out 😎 but this a great part where trust comes in for the partner to do the right thing by saying no 😊
So you go to parties without a date, talk up strange men and arrange dates to game with them, give them your online accounts. " I would never go on a date behind my partners back" Girl, you have horrible boundaries.
So in short, i woudnt tell him. I wou say that you think someone liked you on that party (what is true).
And dellete his snapchat, if someone asks for you snap it mostly mean one thing and you giving him a chance and thats somthing you should not be doing.
"Partner"? What the hell is that? So you already have a boyfriend, but you're flirting with another guy. Got it. No, you never kiss and tell. EVER. ESPECIALLY when it comes to the fucking part.
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Yea u do need to tell him, especially since uve been carrying out contact with him, he asked u on a date so u clearly know he's interested as more than a friend. U know u should tell him, u wouldn't be asking if a part of u didn't feel like u were hiding something
If i was your boyfriend I'd break up with you for giving your snapchat to someone who was obviously hitting on you. I git pissed off reading this and I don't even know who you are. You cheated on him in my book.
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Why are u thinking so much of this guy? And why would u give him your snap? Obviously you're interested in this new guy. U should have told him from the start that u already have a guy.
Okay.
When he asked you out, you suppose to have told him that you have a boyfriend.
You ask him whether his girlfriend know that you two want to hang out.
Imagine your boyfriend in that situation, would you want to know?
definitely tell your boyfriend about it. tell him you gave him your snap and you said no to going to his place but that you were down to play video games. if you are 100% open and honest it will be hard for them to assume anything else.
Not unless you want to hurt him, It's tempting to let a S. O. know that other guys, esp. attractive guys, find you desirable. It's a compliment and an offer you may want to keep in your back pocket should the need arise. If boyfriend is affectionate and you are getting along well w/ no plans of changing status of your relationship then telling him would only cause problems
You’re flirting with a guy for attention & maybe more. That’s a half step away from cheating. Stop being a coward and either dump your boyfriend or stop flirting.
She's 100% going to cheat and say: "I didn't MEAN to hun.."
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No don't tell him and also get a full time job as a prostitute. You gave him your snapchat and next you will give him your cunt. You're so hypocritical because few days ago you shared the mytake on how to treat men right. You just need attention here. You're a cheater and go f**k like a b**ch with those dogs. No one cares but karma will do the same with u.
Don't be in a relationship if you can't be transparent about important topics like these. Just date and hookup.
Obviously you found it a big enough deal to come on here and ask. I think you know deep down that what you’re doing is wrong to your boyfriend. If your boyfriend isn’t enough for you it’s not fair for either one of you to stay in that relationship. You making the eye contact, leading him as far as asking you on a date and then giving him your Snapchat... how would you feel if this was the other way around? And your boyfriend did all these things and then made plans to see this girl behind your back? If you don’t care then leave your boyfriend and do you. But if you do care, then you’re being very selfish.
Sounds like you don't even have maturity to have a boyfriend in the first place. Is it hard to say " no " I got a boyfriend already. Your lamee
You should have told the guy you had a boyfriend. As for your boyfriend just say a guy approached you but you told him you weren't single.
My girl tells me everything even if it's tiny or insignificant and I absolutely adore her for that and makes me trust her so much more, even if it sometimes triggers a nerve in me and makes me a bit mad, I tell her what to do about it and she makes sure I dont worry about anything related after that
Tell your boyfriend everything, he'll appreciate it
+ it might push your boyfriend to do the same and be super honest with you as well
Win-win for both sides!
I didn't realize it was ragequeen posting this and honestly I gotta say I'm surprised, I thought you were super loyal to your boyfriend and you guys were madly in love.
I'm obviously not the only who thinks you were half-cheating, it's natural to think he's handsome but letting him get this far and not even mentioning you had a boyfriend? Nah man there's something wrong here and you're the only one to blame.
If I knew my girl did all this THEN she came and told me, I would be really fucking upset and would probably make a huge fight out of it because it is NOT okay at all.
Damn, this makes me sad actually, didn't expect this at all.
I hope you've got things you forgot to add to the story so it's a bit better.
I know it sounds scary now to tell him considering you might lose him over it, but if you actually love and respect your boyfriend, you'd tell him honestly, don't be selfish, make him a priority, not yourself, put yourself in his shoes, he doesn't deserve this, he deserves better, so give him better and tell him.
Don't be one of those girls who can never be trusted, your actions have consequences and you gotta own them.
I would say a good normal boyfriend would be good at communicating and open to almost any conversation... If I get asked by a girl out on a date while I am in relationship.. I wouldn't mind telling my girlfriend, just as if I am talking about my day.
Yes. And frankly I'd question you for giving your contact information to a guy who was clearly, 100% interested in you sexually. You just don't give your contacts to potential sexual partners if you're faithful to your relationship, there is simply no reason to do so unless you want to cheat.
Last time an ex did that, I found out she'd cheated on me with that guy.
I think it could create more trouble than anything, especially if your boyfriend has trust issues or get jealous easily. That said, you can choose the more open route and tell him about it to show that you have nothing to hide, especially if you are consistent about your openness.
Girl. Yes you should tell, but also you need to really look at yourself.
If your boyfriend talked to random girls at parties, gave his contact info to them, and confiding in them about his day and life... would you be mad?
I'd say maybe not... Unless he was continually trying to ask you out then I'd like to maybe tell him to chill out 😎 but this a great part where trust comes in for the partner to do the right thing by saying no 😊
So you go to parties without a date, talk up strange men and arrange dates to game with them, give them your online accounts.
" I would never go on a date behind my partners back"
Girl, you have horrible boundaries.
So in short, i woudnt tell him. I wou say that you think someone liked you on that party (what is true).
And dellete his snapchat, if someone asks for you snap it mostly mean one thing and you giving him a chance and thats somthing you should not be doing.
"Partner"? What the hell is that? So you already have a boyfriend, but you're flirting with another guy. Got it.
No, you never kiss and tell. EVER. ESPECIALLY when it comes to the fucking part.