Guys, How do guys feel about dating nymphomaniacs?

[BlackTealLazer]

I'm just curious. Are we really unlovable? Lots of people say that we're not suitable to ever have husbands.
But, even if we're loyal, that still applies?

[normalice]

As long as there is mutual physical attraction, sexual compatibility, and no glaring personality conflicts, it doesn't really matter. I suppose the most likely problem with a genuine nympho is being able to keep up with her, sexually. Unfortunately this is pretty much "The Thing" that men are most insecure about. But there are also plenty of guys who have grown out of that insecurity and would be happy to work with such girls. I'm sure we exist everywhere, but aren't easy to spot. I would perhaps begin by ruling out any guy who is too excited about you being a nympho. But also rule out guys who are put off by it? Hard to navigate a middle, but it's likely to be the only way..

[BlackTealLazer]

Makes total sense. Hard to do, but yes.

[normalice]

Oh. Sadly you will almost certainly have to limit yourself to guys 25 or older, or wait until you are 25 before there is much hope for anything serious. Expecting a guy your age to be mature and practical about a girl effectively offering unlimited sex is expecting the impossible. I'm only guessing, but I suspect 25 is a the minimum age for a guy to get over the "eyes bigger than their balls" problem.

[BlackTealLazer]

XD I'm learning that. I've found that a lot of guys my age are too immature to even maintain a relationship period.

[normalice]

Well, you could consider bisexual guys. While polyamory is frowned upon, you're young and it hardly matters in the long run.

[BlackTealLazer]

Omg, no. I tried it. That was my last "not boyfriend". He never acknowledged that we were together, even though he said we weren't but he claimed he was taken when people asked about us. It ended because he had a horrible temper and attacked me because I said I supported him for more than just his sexuality.

[normalice]

Hm. Well, shows what I know.. Though that could be an "outlier"? I was thinking a couple bi guys who were already comfortable with his sexuality. It kind of sounds like maybe he wasn't so much. But I guess there's no reason to assume that sort of thing would be satisfying to you.

[FriendlyEnigma]

So many people dont understand shit 🙄 especially about bi, pan, and nyhmphos. Those 3 groups seem to be pegged as unfaithful a lot for no reason.

Also i can already sense the amount of horny dudes getting ready to flood this question.. anyways, ofc you can be loved! It's just part of who you are, it's not who you are as a whole! It's all about finding someone who is compatible to you, physically and emotionally. Also telling someone your a nympho is definitely something you shouldn't just drop on the first date..

People are so horny they would more view you for sex and only sex, so it's better to tell someone you wanna be serious with a little further into things yk. Trust me, you'll find someone :)

[RichA322]

Nope you are NOT unlovable.

Most people just have no clue how to use the term Nymphomaniac or Hypersexual or Sex addiction correctly. Because they all mean the same.

And yes, real Nymphomaniac also have the right to get good relationships and be loved.

It's just hard work (no pun intended) and you have to be honest with yourself and your partner. And if your life gets horrible because of it, you need a therapy and professional help.

To me, I would say there are three types of real Nymphomaniacs out there.

1. Those that can absolutely, in absolutely no way control their sex drives. They will cheat constantly and have sex with everything that moves. So STD are a real issue here. If you want to be with such a Nymphomaniac and she doesn't want a therapy or the therapy doesn't work, you need to accept the she will always have sex with other people. If that's a problem you will not get happy with that women.

2. Those that can at least slight control their sex drive and limit the number of Sexual partner to the same circle of people. Everything else is still the same, they still have an extremely high sex drive and need sex constantly. But they will be able to limit their sex partners to a selected number and will therefore not catch STD's. If she doesn't want any therapy or therapy doesn't help and if you are happy with an open relationship. Then yes, you can be together with one. But you have to share her with other people probably.

3. Those that can control their urges to sleep with other people. When they get horny at work, they will just masturbate several times and that's enough pressure relief until they are back home with you. But they constantly want it from you, wether you are in the mood or not. Otherwise they might be almost impossible to be with. They might get violent, angry, jealous, sad. They might cry, get depressed, feel totally down, unloved or they try to get it from you by all means necessary, if you don't sleep with them several times a day. But as long as you can keep up with them they can be loyal. But you will need a very, very high sex drive to keep up with them. If you can keep up with them, yes, you can love them and be in a serious long term relationship with them. But most of them time they are either type 1 or 2. So either completely unable to control themselves or almost completely unable.

But yes, you can love them and date them.

Honesty and talking with the person you are dating is the most important thing.

[johnsmithjs]

If you are loyal then I really do not see a problem. I am currently dating a woman with a high sex drive, even higher then my sex drive.

I use mechanical means to make sure she is satisfied if I am not in the mood.

If you can be satisfied by the use of mechanical devises and you are truly loyal to the person you are with then I really do not see a problem.

The best thing you can do is be honest with your potential partner and if you feel the need to stray then break up with your partner instead of cheating on them.

I truly believe that if you want to make it work their are ways to accomplish that, as I have stated I am dating a lady with a high sex drive so I have invested in multiple machines that help me keep her satisfied.

You can accomplish anything you desire if the desire is strong enough.

[andy530]

I would prefer to date and have a relationship with a nymphomaniac. They get a bad wrap because women who embrace their sexuality are shamed in our culture, I hate that that’s the case it is an awful and hurtful cultural tradition than needs to stop.

[BlackTealLazer]

This is a comforting thing to hear from someone. I've decided recently not to fight who I am anymore, and I only have a handful of friends supporting me. My family is against me, and I haven't even told them about this part of me, yet.😨

[andy530]

I’m sorry to hear you’re experiencing a rough time being you... it’s worth it to live authentically and accept yourself for who you are. We are all on that journey together and some of us are more or less successful at it but we have each other to rely on along the way. I’m glad you are not fighting this part of yourself any longer!

[SherryBomb]

Im, Bi, i get this a lot. Just because you have a hyper function sex drive doesn't mean you can't stay faithful. Just because im BI doesn't mean ill just have sex with some random person down the street because i happen to like both genders. As long as you are faithful then dont worry about it, just dont get in a relationship where they are saving sex till marrage or have dont have a high libedo.

[Nephilim000]

As long as they are loyal I don't see the problem. I mean bring it on. I had a girlfriend who wanted it everyday several times and that was great. I had another one who didn't and that was fine too. Find someone who loves you for you. Someone you can be happy with and everything will be ok

[Shamalien]

how can you be loyal and a nympho? Like what is your line, what's the closest to cheating you would go as a nympho in a monogamous relationship? I think most men have no issue with a girl that wants to have sex with THEM all the time but the worry is that they will be overcome by desire and make bad decisions in the moment

[Bananaman177]

I don't know the proper term, but you should just date male nymphomaniacs.

Male whores. Whatever you call it. You should have pick of the litter since pretty much the majority of men fall into this category.

[BlackTealLazer]

Satyr, I believe, is the term for male nymphos. XD

[Bananaman177]

Yes, that sounds right. Thank you. Go into the woods and find a satyr.

[DryGermanGuy]

A buddy of mine was in a relationship with a nymphomaniac. He lasted for a year. And yes, she was cheating left and right on him. Can't recommend.

[RichA322]

Always depends on her drive and on your drive and how much she can control it (if necessary by masturbating) if it's uncontrollable then it's very difficult or even impossible without therapy. If she can control it until she is at home and then your best friend is overdue, then it is possible of your drive is high enough.

No two people are the same. Not even people with Sex addiction. I think the problem is, that people in our societies are too afraid to talk honestly and openly about sex. So many people are just lying, over- or underestimating themselves or feel ashamed of admitting who they really are. And this causes significant problems.

[Berethor]

The main concern about nymphomaniac girls is that they would cheat in the future, also some guys might be concern that the nymphomaniac girl would exhaust them to death. :)

[JSmith925]

I would avoid a relationship with a true nymphomaniac. it is recognized by the DSM-5 as a psychological problem, although it is now called Hypersexual disorder.

~JSmith

[Tobi_Lerone]

I think this can work. Yeah it maybe not that easy but there always options and solutions that can be found together and with which everyone is happy with. So I don't see a problem

[humanearth]

I'm a nymphomaniac and married. Just wish my was one to. She could never keep up with my sexual needs

[perfectchaos]

I would love a nymphomaniac as long as she is loyal.

[RHK36]

I wouldn't be against it. There'll probably be some difficulty, but that's like any other relationship. It's just different is all.

[poneglyphs]

I would date one they are awesome, just because they like having lots of sex doesn't mean they can't be loved.

[clinteas]

you're 17. Are you sure you are a nympho and not just teen horny? A real nymphomaniac I wouldn't date or marry, unless she was a dominant kinky one.

[BlackTealLazer]

Let's put it this way: what four year old would be crushing on a guy? Me.
Yes, I'm a bit dominate at times, but I'm actually mostly submissive.

[clinteas]

LOL ok. I crushed on a girl when I was age 6 and haven't had sex for a year now. Just take it easy, and you'll find your perfect fit someday.

[BlackTealLazer]

And this is nothing I'm able to fight. When I feel it, there's no hiding it. When I'm emotionally hurting, it seems to be my coping mechanism that I don't always necessarily want to have, but I have it. It's not always what I want, but something's caused me to get like this and I genuinely can't help it. I've always been hyper, though.

[clinteas]

are you maybe depressed or anxious, and your coping mechanism is having sex with someone? I dont know, dont want to analyse you. But you seem genuinely nice and honest.

[BlackTealLazer]

I have depression and PTSD, so I believe that's what ultimately did it.

[clinteas]

i think you might be onto something there honey

[allaboutyou2]

I think a lot of men find a nymphomaniac very intimidating. A fear of not being able to satisfy you.
In my older age I would welcome it, whereas when I was in my 20's I had doubts on my ability.

[Wise4myage]

As long as you remained loyal than it wouldn't apply to being married. The trick however, is find a husband who can match your sex drive.

[gandolph3]

Most guys can't really satisfy a nympho long term you will eventually need more. Find some one willing to be in an open relationship or maybe a cuckold

[mich15smith]

Loyalty would be the key for me if you are loyal a high sex drive wouldn't be a bad thing.

[jirwin7979]

i wish i had one than maybe she could keep up with my sex drive

[Anonymous]

If you're loyal then you're the best. Or at least in my opinion. As I want to have sex several times a day.

[Haelaeix123]

If they are loyal then id be okay with it :)

[Juxtapose]

Actually they are my preference!

[GreenGold1992]

I've been curious about them

[Guardian45]

I dated a nymphomaniac for 3 months

[QuietRunner]

I love dating nymphomaniacs, quite fun

[Nachowedgie]

Sounds like a lot of fun

[Emanon_18]

I would, why not!