Guys, How do guys feel about dating nymphomaniacs?

[BlackTealLazer]

I'm just curious. Are we really unlovable? Lots of people say that we're not suitable to ever have husbands.
But, even if we're loyal, that still applies?

[normalice]

As long as there is mutual physical attraction, sexual compatibility, and no glaring personality conflicts, it doesn't really matter. I suppose the most likely problem with a genuine nympho is being able to keep up with her, sexually. Unfortunately this is pretty much "The Thing" that men are most insecure about. But there are also plenty of guys who have grown out of that insecurity and would be happy to work with such girls. I'm sure we exist everywhere, but aren't easy to spot. I would perhaps begin by ruling out any guy who is too excited about you being a nympho. But also rule out guys who are put off by it? Hard to navigate a middle, but it's likely to be the only way..

[BlackTealLazer]

Makes total sense. Hard to do, but yes.

[normalice]

Oh. Sadly you will almost certainly have to limit yourself to guys 25 or older, or wait until you are 25 before there is much hope for anything serious. Expecting a guy your age to be mature and practical about a girl effectively offering unlimited sex is expecting the impossible. I'm only guessing, but I suspect 25 is a the minimum age for a guy to get over the "eyes bigger than their balls" problem.

[BlackTealLazer]

XD I'm learning that. I've found that a lot of guys my age are too immature to even maintain a relationship period.

[normalice]

Well, you could consider bisexual guys. While polyamory is frowned upon, you're young and it hardly matters in the long run.

[BlackTealLazer]

Omg, no. I tried it. That was my last "not boyfriend". He never acknowledged that we were together, even though he said we weren't but he claimed he was taken when people asked about us. It ended because he had a horrible temper and attacked me because I said I supported him for more than just his sexuality.

[normalice]

Hm. Well, shows what I know.. Though that could be an "outlier"? I was thinking a couple bi guys who were already comfortable with his sexuality. It kind of sounds like maybe he wasn't so much. But I guess there's no reason to assume that sort of thing would be satisfying to you.

[FriendlyEnigma]

So many people dont understand shit 🙄 especially about bi, pan, and nyhmphos. Those 3 groups seem to be pegged as unfaithful a lot for no reason.

Also i can already sense the amount of horny dudes getting ready to flood this question.. anyways, ofc you can be loved! It's just part of who you are, it's not who you are as a whole! It's all about finding someone who is compatible to you, physically and emotionally. Also telling someone your a nympho is definitely something you shouldn't just drop on the first date..

People are so horny they would more view you for sex and only sex, so it's better to tell someone you wanna be serious with a little further into things yk. Trust me, you'll find someone :)

[johnsmithjs]

If you are loyal then I really do not see a problem. I am currently dating a woman with a high sex drive, even higher then my sex drive.

I use mechanical means to make sure she is satisfied if I am not in the mood.

If you can be satisfied by the use of mechanical devises and you are truly loyal to the person you are with then I really do not see a problem.

The best thing you can do is be honest with your potential partner and if you feel the need to stray then break up with your partner instead of cheating on them.

I truly believe that if you want to make it work their are ways to accomplish that, as I have stated I am dating a lady with a high sex drive so I have invested in multiple machines that help me keep her satisfied.

You can accomplish anything you desire if the desire is strong enough.

[andy530]

I would prefer to date and have a relationship with a nymphomaniac. They get a bad wrap because women who embrace their sexuality are shamed in our culture, I hate that that’s the case it is an awful and hurtful cultural tradition than needs to stop.

[BlackTealLazer]

This is a comforting thing to hear from someone. I've decided recently not to fight who I am anymore, and I only have a handful of friends supporting me. My family is against me, and I haven't even told them about this part of me, yet.😨

[andy530]

I’m sorry to hear you’re experiencing a rough time being you... it’s worth it to live authentically and accept yourself for who you are. We are all on that journey together and some of us are more or less successful at it but we have each other to rely on along the way. I’m glad you are not fighting this part of yourself any longer!

[SherryBomb]

Im, Bi, i get this a lot. Just because you have a hyper function sex drive doesn't mean you can't stay faithful. Just because im BI doesn't mean ill just have sex with some random person down the street because i happen to like both genders. As long as you are faithful then dont worry about it, just dont get in a relationship where they are saving sex till marrage or have dont have a high libedo.

[Nephilim000]

As long as they are loyal I don't see the problem. I mean bring it on. I had a girlfriend who wanted it everyday several times and that was great. I had another one who didn't and that was fine too. Find someone who loves you for you. Someone you can be happy with and everything will be ok

[Bananaman177]

I don't know the proper term, but you should just date male nymphomaniacs.

Male whores. Whatever you call it. You should have pick of the litter since pretty much the majority of men fall into this category.

[BlackTealLazer]

Satyr, I believe, is the term for male nymphos. XD

[Bananaman177]

Yes, that sounds right. Thank you. Go into the woods and find a satyr.

[Shamalien]

how can you be loyal and a nympho? Like what is your line, what's the closest to cheating you would go as a nympho in a monogamous relationship? I think most men have no issue with a girl that wants to have sex with THEM all the time but the worry is that they will be overcome by desire and make bad decisions in the moment

[Berethor]

The main concern about nymphomaniac girls is that they would cheat in the future, also some guys might be concern that the nymphomaniac girl would exhaust them to death. :)

[JSmith925]

I would avoid a relationship with a true nymphomaniac. it is recognized by the DSM-5 as a psychological problem, although it is now called Hypersexual disorder.

~JSmith

[Tobi_Lerone]

I think this can work. Yeah it maybe not that easy but there always options and solutions that can be found together and with which everyone is happy with. So I don't see a problem

[humanearth]

I'm a nymphomaniac and married. Just wish my was one to. She could never keep up with my sexual needs