Guys, Would you date a rich woman?

[MissLlyn]

would you? Why or why not?

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+1 y

I wonder if these same men say yes would get upset women dating rich men.

[kemo56]

Well if you're saying what I date a rich woman for her money possibly to win her over as a sugar mama... If I stumbled into the right situation that would be great but I'm not the type of person that is looking for that

And as far as women dating I think that a lot of times that's one of the first things they're wanting to know is how much money do you make and I think most of them aren't necessarily looking to increase their monetary value shall we say but being concerned with they don't want to support somebody else you know there's a lot of deadbeats out there and I sort of understand that because it does play a little bit of a point in the back of my mind once you get to a certain part you know can she support her side of the monetary items... and that would depend on I suppose if you're living in a fixed income or what situation you're in

And honestly I can understand a young girl marrying an older guy to help him enjoy his golden years... And part of her reasoning is is to reap his assets... To me if I was a rich older guy I would gladly give all of that to her if she truthfully cared and took care of me...

But I don't really have respect for anyone who would just be out totally for the money regardless of what sex it doesn't have to be loved but I think there has to be friendship and caring for it to be anything other than scamming somebody...

[Nawlins34]

I'm doing that now, but we both were before meeting each other.

But I'm not looking at her $. I'm looking at some key traits.

This is why starting at 35, I only dated women who owned businesses. This is a prerequisite. Not a side-hustle, actual business (EIN, employess, etc).

I don't care about the money, I figured out early that women who own businesses all possess certain traits (I acknowledge all women business owners are different) but by the mere fact they own businesses, I know those traits are present and that's less time I have to spend determining if it exists or not.

Because money is not an issue? We don't have to stress about it. She has her $, I got my $. We don't lose leverage with each other, so we can focus on each other. If I were a broke man? It would be less likely I'd do this. Possible? yes, but less likely.

[MissLlyn]

I'm tired of getting men who are bums. I don't know how to make it stop so I'm just collecting mh money. Saving. Hoping to create a shop for my art.

[Nawlins34]

I seek clarification, when you say "bum", do you mean guys who are happy where they currently are in life and don't really care to self-improve or learn more?

[MissLlyn]

No jobs. Neck beard types

[Miristheiss]

Her being rich just in and of itself wouldn't be an issue.
I guess it could only be something I'd not like being around based on what types of things came along with it.
Not all rich people act the same or live the same kind of lifestyles. It would just depend if there was baggage I didn't care for.

Give me an example of a rich lifestyle you are envisioning that they have?

[MissLlyn]

Not all but it'd be nice to have a cozy big home and not worry about bills.

[Avicenna]

I've dated a couple of rich women before. It's definitely not enough by itself to date a woman. The ones I dated were spoiled, used to having their way and spent money with abandon, but I did have a good time with them.

[MissLlyn]

I'd be more careful with my money.

[AaronKrieger]

Yeah, I don't really care about a girl's wealth. I'm pretty sure most people until in their thirties don't care about someone's wealth as long as they have a job.

[Jersey2]

Yes but... Cindi Lauper said it best, money changes everything. It will change the relationship sadly.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/pp4suZ4jNXg

[Grond21]

Yes, I absolutely would. Just like I'd date a poor woman.

Money is not the issue for me. And the only problem I would have is if someone only dated someone else because of their money

[bulletbob555]

Sure. Just as easy to date one as the other. I did date one but i didn't let her buy me stuff. I have an ex that is better off now and she buys me stuff from time to time. I do turn down the offer of gifts though

[allaboutyou2]

Money or no money doesn't even factor in. If a girl I was interested in dating was rich it wouldn't stop me from dating her.
Money is nothing buy a spendable commodity.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I wonder when people will realize that? Money is just a tool to pay bills and buy needs. We all leaving here empty handed when we die.

[allaboutyou2]

My opinion would remain the same if roles were reversed.

[Unstoppable20]

Yeah I would. I would still work though. Women date rich men all the time. In fact I wish I was rich because I would probably get more attention. Does it irritate me? Kind of, because I know i have great qualities that are overlooked.

[mike5150]

Sure but I am not sure what I have to offer someone that lives a lavish life style

[DavidFox]

For sure, sigh me up. World give us both options and a great future.

[DavidFox]

If a woman wants to date a rich man, more power to her. She’s got her future security to consider.