Is a bald man or a man with large forehead turn off for girls or unattractive to girls? Should such a man be always ready to get trolled for his look?

[Anonymous]

Girls, please be honest, would you ever date or marry a bald man or a man having large forehead? Or him being bald is automatically a turn off for you?

[btbc92]

I think what a lot of people when they choose to ask a question. No matter if you are male or female, age, so cool race, religion, Faith, Etc, is simply ask yourself this: do you find yourself worthy of love?

Because I think anybody including myself and even you should know that anybody can be considered attractive. But you're not going to because it attracted to everybody. That's just the reality. When it has something to do with love, love has nothing to do with attraction and attraction has nothing to do with love.

Everybody's always attracted to something. But it's not always the same thing. It's not always physical. But when it comes down to love, love is a choice. So instead of asking the question, the obvious answer is of course.

I am celibate woman so the answer is obviously a no. Cuz I have no desire personally to be involved with a person on a sexual level. Therefore I would not date because dating would lead to marriage. I do not believe in premarital sex, anyting else before marriage. So again you should understand how that should go. But even if I wasn't celibate. The truth is that it has nothing to do with attractiveness. It has to do with who you are as a person. But you lacking a lot of confidence oh, and insecurities, that's an automatic Turner for a lot of people. It's normal to go through. Everybody going through some type of problems themselves. However self-loathing again is not attractive. And not every bald man is the same. Not everybody with a large forehead is the same.

It has nothing to do with any of that. The real question is what do you have to offer for a relationship, what is your intentions for a relationship, what do you expect for a relationship, and where are you looking to move forward with a particular individual? Most importantly what are you looking for in a partner, and why do you need these things in the partner? Are you called for such a relationship, and is this something you are actually mature enough to handle and deal with? Because once you decide to make that decision, remember you are inviting another person into your life and any and all things that is done can greatly impact you both. It's better to think about taking things seriously then to be focusing about if you're attractive or not. Showcasing who you are on the inside is way more important than what you expect to be shown on the outside. Everybody has a body, but this body is only a vessel. It is temporary. What you have is what you get. What is less to do about what you have it's more so to do about what you choose to do with it.

Think along the lines of morals, principals, standards, beliefs, faith, religion, etc being the most important. Besides the basic expectations of a man: being financially viable/home/car/pay bills or mortgage = provider. Can take the lead, is decisive, have a long standing history of making wise choices = Head of the home, can defend his family, knows how to use a weapon, can verbally stand up to bullies and others =protector. Your job, sexual beliefs, thoughts on marriage, kids. And most importantly your health.

[btbc92]

At the same time, you got to look at what are you specifically are searching for regarding relationships. Are you looking for a casual relationship just to date around have sex, fool around with many women coming experience the high life you never had a chance to do before, and be like other people. Are you doing this so you can try to prove to other people to show that you're not a social loser, or to try to make something of yourself? Or are you doing this because you seriously desired a relationship, you desire to have a family with somebody, you want to get married, and you want to be able to provide and do what you have to do as a man and you can't find yourself doing everything by yourself so you want a partner in your life because you truly desire Somebody by your side to go through everything in life? You have to look deep within yourself first and understand what it is that you are seeking a really asking for. Because a lot of people get into relationships not knowing what the hell they are doing. Get married without even understand requires and takes to uphold one. Have children without understanding what children really need. These are life alternating decisions and you have to take it seriously.

But I also find that a lot of people that tend to ask questions like you are usually are those who tend to not have good relationships with other people, have poor communication skills, or may have not had opportunities where you're able to interact with a lot of people so you're lacking a lot of experience or practice damn it I think what you need to do instead of focusing on things that may be a little too high above your level, start with the basics. Get to know who you are as a person first because your self-identity is essential before God forbid you end up losing your identity and other people.

[Asker]

That's a nice and elaborate answer. One needs a lot of patience to write such a long answer. Thanks for making me understand so elaborately.

[btbc92]

You're very welcome. I always say it like this. Don't focus on so much about physical attraction in all that nonsense. Focus on those who actually care about you and is willing to get to know you. Because the more you focus on the ones that you want to get to know and they don't care about your existence you're going to feel like crap anyway. Ignore them.

[Asker]

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[Bandit74]

Unless you are one of the guys who really pulls off the bald look it is realistically something that does reduce your sex appeal to women to a significant degree. And as far as being trolled yeah if there is a disagreement and they want to insult you that is likely to be one of their first targets to aim for.