Recently though, someone told me that if I am planning all the dates, then I am putting in all the effort and that should be on the guy. He should be the one trying to "pursue" or "court" me, not the other way around. I had never thought of it like that. I just like to plan things. I guess I do use it a bit to show the other person how much I care.
Additionally, the guy I am currently dating said I always have something planned and that I should just see him with no plan and he will take care of it. Honestly, when we first met he said he sucked at planning and I love it so I just kinda took over so he didn't have to worry about it, since we don't get to see eachother very often and I didn't want him to feel stressed over planning. But he kinda made it seem like it should be his job.
What do you think?
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