most women don't appreciate the small things anymore, like opening a door, candy, giving her our jacket and flowers. in fact we are often shamed for trying too hard. we feel like it's safer not to do romantic things. At least this how it's in the Northeast.
beacuse flowers are rediculessly expensive, rather, just buy food. or some stuff, like shampoo, and lotions as well as a box of tampons for ya, screw the flowers, lols.
Nah, having someone buy me food makes me feel like I’m their farm animal and they have to fatten me up. No thanks. I can take care of myself and can buy necessities like shampoo myself. Flowers are something nice to look at and to smell. I think it’s a great gift.
@LenaMunter hmmmm its about being kind. flowers are just inconvinet, cus they die, i rather just buy seeds grow them and have a garden and plants in the house, dead flowers make no sense to me. thus for my self i would never waste money on dead flowers, if i had to buy flowers, i would buy house plants. and i would have a garden that she would not know of, so i can just do it for free and cheep. if i was going to give you a flower, it be a weed plant, they smell good and you can smoke them,
No we don't lol. And some women actually don't care for them. But I think another reason is they are actually fairly expensive, and they don't last long, so it seems like a waste of money also (to us).
Please explain this, so I know, and I WILL!! Flowers, expensive, and they last 2-3 days, maybe and make her smile. Why are flowers so important, so special?
I'm sure the price is a big part of it. A bouquet is often $50 and up, which really is a lot, especially for something that's only going to last for a week or two.
I do, but a lot of times I save that for special occasions like anniversary, when I know she's having a hard time, when I have fucked up and my words won't be enough. Times like that
Because guys don't care. We women say we don't want flowers but deep down if we get them, we are happy. Dad's need to teach their boys, not women teaching resistant men
Nah, not true. It’s a great gesture, modern romance is just dead. Girls love all the cheesy stuff. It’s especially sweet when guys give flowers not on a special day as a surprise, shows you rlly care and she’ll remember it for sure.
Because nowdays they talk with 200 different guys and fuck with 100 different more.. soo there no girl that makes u feel special soo u can treat her as a special girl
@jabberwocky00 That saying implies that hoes are only good for sex, and straight women don’t want to be treated like sex toys as far as I’m concerned. If you’re a slut it just means your self esteem has reached rock bottom and you’ll do anything for a guy’s love and affection, which makes you feel like you should give him sex instead of respecting yourself. No guy will want to respect you or treat you like a lady if you behave like that
@jabberwocky00 Women don’t “only” want sex from men, unless they truly see themselves as completely worthless.
This is why you hear stories of men using women for sex, not the other way around. Men can have sex with 100 girls and not feel a thing for any of them. This is unfortunately not true for women.
@jabberwocky00 I don’t “want” you to, it’s just how it is. If you don’t believe it that’s cool, I’m just letting you know how men and women are not exactly the same and we differ in many ways.
Oh ok, cause just through my own personal experience I’d say I didn’t have any feelings for half of the guys I had sex with but loved having sex with them anyway.
@jabberwocky00 Maybe you don’t value yourself as much as you think or you just lack self-respect or have some type of attachment issue. This isn’t a good sign if you have children or you’re planning on that.
I’d say neither of the 3, when I think through those things, I value myself completely but honestly not the guys as much (I cheated on all of them) , self respect doesn’t connect with it I love sex so I’m did what I wanted, and the 3rd was attachment issues which I’m married now but with the others I didn’t want to be attached because I just wanted sex and fun from them. I do plan on having kids and can’t wait for that ☺️🥰
@jabberwocky00 I highly, highly doubt that. You don’t seem to value yourself or anyone at all. Promiscuous women always lack morals, and of course if you’ve cheated on a person and you feel great about it then that means you’re a crazy bitch. Also tell your man that he needs to control his girl before she goes and lets 30 other men sleep with her slutty ass and getting stds.
Also I feel bad for your future children, I can tell you’ll be a terrible mother with 0 morals.
Ohhh your trying to be one of those kinds guys, okays ☺️ well I’m here for an honest conversation anytime whether you want to believe women are sexual creatures or not.
@jabberwocky Of course women are sexual creatures and I love that about them. If they weren’t sexual creatures there’d be no point in calling them straight women. I know that. BUT they do tend to associate sex with love a lot more often. We men can separate both, which is why it’s a lot riskier for women to give up sex because they’re more likely to want a relationship as “part of the package”. Guys don’t really need a relationship to have sex, women do.
@jabberwocky00 Anyway, the point of this entire thing is that if you act like a hoe, you’ll be treated like one and your chances of being used and cheated on is high. If you act like a lady, you’ll get all the good stuff that comes with it—respect, admiration, and any man will be happy to do anything for you.
I disagree. You can act anyway you like but it really depends on the person reacting to you. I’ve been amazed at the things I’ve gotten away with in my day. But it’s appreciated as well, there are very kind and forgiving people out there 😊
Yes, but there are a lot of problems in giving flowers. Are they the right colour, are they the right sort. A girl I bought some white carnations she cried, they were late mother's favourite. You see you can not win some times...
I get hay fever in summer having flower will make myself sneeze a lot. I would prefer sweets and food. Chocolate is ok and fruit. Stress toy is also ok
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Really? Guys would always buy me flowers when asking me to hoco or prom or even a date. I think younger guys do pretty well with chivalry.
most women don't appreciate the small things anymore, like opening a door, candy, giving her our jacket and flowers. in fact we are often shamed for trying too hard. we feel like it's safer not to do romantic things. At least this how it's in the Northeast.
beacuse flowers are rediculessly expensive, rather, just buy food. or some stuff, like shampoo, and lotions as well as a box of tampons for ya, screw the flowers, lols.
Nah, having someone buy me food makes me feel like I’m their farm animal and they have to fatten me up. No thanks. I can take care of myself and can buy necessities like shampoo myself. Flowers are something nice to look at and to smell. I think it’s a great gift.
@LenaMunter hmmmm its about being kind. flowers are just inconvinet, cus they die, i rather just buy seeds grow them and have a garden and plants in the house, dead flowers make no sense to me. thus for my self i would never waste money on dead flowers, if i had to buy flowers, i would buy house plants. and i would have a garden that she would not know of, so i can just do it for free and cheep. if i was going to give you a flower, it be a weed plant, they smell good and you can smoke them,
No we don't lol. And some women actually don't care for them. But I think another reason is they are actually fairly expensive, and they don't last long, so it seems like a waste of money also (to us).
Please explain this, so I know, and I WILL!!
Flowers, expensive, and they last 2-3 days, maybe and make her smile.
Why are flowers so important, so special?
I'm sure the price is a big part of it. A bouquet is often $50 and up, which really is a lot, especially for something that's only going to last for a week or two.
I do, but a lot of times I save that for special occasions like anniversary, when I know she's having a hard time, when I have fucked up and my words won't be enough. Times like that
Because guys don't care. We women say we don't want flowers but deep down if we get them, we are happy. Dad's need to teach their boys, not women teaching resistant men
Modern women are wh*res they don't deserve & wouldn't appreciate flowers anyway. You'd probly get freindzoned 4 that lmao
Nah, not true. It’s a great gesture, modern romance is just dead. Girls love all the cheesy stuff. It’s especially sweet when guys give flowers not on a special day as a surprise, shows you rlly care and she’ll remember it for sure.
My fiance sends them a lot virtually until I can get there. And sends Gifts as well Here to my House. Beautiful Pix, @wowgirl. xx
Because nowdays they talk with 200 different guys and fuck with 100 different more.. soo there no girl that makes u feel special soo u can treat her as a special girl
My best friends (18-25 yo) usually get them from their respective partners on birthday, rose day, Valentine and anniversary.
I think some guys still do it.
Flowers are beautiful but i like them better in the ground. They die too fast when cut out. Which makes me feel bad.
Some girls don't like flowers. But that does not mean I won't try. I would totally buy a girl flowers.
I think there is also the idea of more causal dating vs romantic dating.
The kind where you go play some B ball over going to a fancy dinner. And I think that flowers feel more formal. Although they don't have to be
“Flowers for the ladies, dick for the hoes.”
Most women don’t even act like women. We don’t see why we’d treat them like that. If you want flowers, act like a lady.
Literally all (straight) women want dick so...
@jabberwocky00 That saying implies that hoes are only good for sex, and straight women don’t want to be treated like sex toys as far as I’m concerned. If you’re a slut it just means your self esteem has reached rock bottom and you’ll do anything for a guy’s love and affection, which makes you feel like you should give him sex instead of respecting yourself. No guy will want to respect you or treat you like a lady if you behave like that
Oh I see the sayings meaning. But pretend to want flowers when you really want sex from a guy? Is that what they want. Seems untrue to yourself then
@jabberwocky00 Women don’t “only” want sex from men, unless they truly see themselves as completely worthless.
This is why you hear stories of men using women for sex, not the other way around. Men can have sex with 100 girls and not feel a thing for any of them. This is unfortunately not true for women.
I can see you want me to believe this but I don’t.
@jabberwocky00 I don’t “want” you to, it’s just how it is. If you don’t believe it that’s cool, I’m just letting you know how men and women are not exactly the same and we differ in many ways.
Oh ok, cause just through my own personal experience I’d say I didn’t have any feelings for half of the guys I had sex with but loved having sex with them anyway.
@jabberwocky00 Maybe you don’t value yourself as much as you think or you just lack self-respect or have some type of attachment issue. This isn’t a good sign if you have children or you’re planning on that.
I’d say neither of the 3, when I think through those things, I value myself completely but honestly not the guys as much (I cheated on all of them) , self respect doesn’t connect with it I love sex so I’m did what I wanted, and the 3rd was attachment issues which I’m married now but with the others I didn’t want to be attached because I just wanted sex and fun from them. I do plan on having kids and can’t wait for that ☺️🥰
@jabberwocky00 I highly, highly doubt that. You don’t seem to value yourself or anyone at all. Promiscuous women always lack morals, and of course if you’ve cheated on a person and you feel great about it then that means you’re a crazy bitch. Also tell your man that he needs to control his girl before she goes and lets 30 other men sleep with her slutty ass and getting stds.
Also I feel bad for your future children, I can tell you’ll be a terrible mother with 0 morals.
Ohhh your trying to be one of those kinds guys, okays ☺️ well I’m here for an honest conversation anytime whether you want to believe women are sexual creatures or not.
@jabberwocky Of course women are sexual creatures and I love that about them. If they weren’t sexual creatures there’d be no point in calling them straight women. I know that. BUT they do tend to associate sex with love a lot more often. We men can separate both, which is why it’s a lot riskier for women to give up sex because they’re more likely to want a relationship as “part of the package”. Guys don’t really need a relationship to have sex, women do.
This is why you tend to see women getting hurt as part of a one night stand and being played by a guy who only wanted her body
I not every single member of a gender with act, feel, think, the same as the next.
@jabberwocky00 Anyway, the point of this entire thing is that if you act like a hoe, you’ll be treated like one and your chances of being used and cheated on is high. If you act like a lady, you’ll get all the good stuff that comes with it—respect, admiration, and any man will be happy to do anything for you.
I disagree. You can act anyway you like but it really depends on the person reacting to you. I’ve been amazed at the things I’ve gotten away with in my day. But it’s appreciated as well, there are very kind and forgiving people out there 😊
@jabberwocky00 Men don’t find sluts attractive, sorry to break it to you.
No need to apologize. But you are assuming something and it’s to generalized.
Haha. Id feel so weird asking a girl what her favorite flowers are. Or if she even likes flowers haha. SIMPtoms of being desperate.
Buying flowers is a pro move, and best done for nothing, not just when you’re kissing her ass because you fucked up, lmao
Yes, but there are a lot of problems in giving flowers. Are they the right colour, are they the right sort. A girl I bought some white carnations she cried, they were late mother's favourite.
You see you can not win some times...
thats why you buy weed, plant, with buds on it, ready to be plucked, but i meen really good weed not cheap weed
Whenever I ever buy a gift for my girlfriend or just about anyone, a flower has never came to my mind. Never thought of it as a good gift.
I get hay fever in summer having flower will make myself sneeze a lot. I would prefer sweets and food. Chocolate is ok and fruit. Stress toy is also ok