Why don't girls get guys flowers?

[Jamesblank]

As a guy I found out that 88% of men don't receive flowers in their lifetime, for the guys would you want to receive flowers from a female friend/partner? and for the ladies, do you want to get men flowers or not, if so what was there reaction and would you do it again?

[aaron13547]

They do. They come from the store in a pot with dirt and we are told go plant it in front of the house. We fuss and fight about it the whole time instead of saying aweee thank you for the flowers not let me bang your brains out. That is why we dont get flower.

I own a flower shop and plant nursery I sell a lot of flowers to men that made a mistake and are looking to fix it or looking to get lucky. I sell flowers to women when they have a wedding or funeral mostly occasionally they buy them for each other.

I sell all my potted plants to women or a women with her family. Man rarely buy potted plants and flowers. Its a chore to them not happiness. Flowers are happiness to women and thats why they get flowers men dont.

Come into the shop homie and ask me I'll give you flowers for free if they are for yourself. I do it for women all the time.

[integrale77]

If a woman bought me flowers it would be confusing and I don't think I have a vase to put them on.

For most women flowers are something pretty to enjoy looking at and the smell of.

For me and I think a lot of men it's something to buy the girlfriend/wife because it makes her happy but they are just flowers otherwise.

Also my opinion my be coloured but suffering hayfever so flowers are not compatible with me in summer

[Bitter_Sweet94]

A lot of girls don’t give men flowers simply because society never taught them to.

Men are expected to give, women are expected to receive.

It’s a tradition that never really evolved.

But when a woman does give a man flowers, the reaction is almost always the same surprise, softness, and this quiet gratitude you can’t fake.

Men remember it.

It hits them differently because it’s rare.

Most guys don’t need a bouquet.

They just want to feel thought of.
Seen.
Chosen.

And honestly, more women would give flowers if they realized how deeply it lands.

Sometimes all it takes is one moment to rewrite the whole narrative.

[MrOracle]

Most men don't want flowers, but they DO want to feel "thought of" and chosen, for sure. And there are better ways to make a man feel that way than buying him flowers.

[Bitter_Sweet94]

You’re right, not every man wants flowers.

The point isn’t the flowers themselves, it’s the intention behind them.

Some men feel appreciated through actions, some through words, some through small gestures.

Flowers are just one example of breaking the usual script and showing, ‘I see you.’

What matters most is giving in the way that actually lands for the person you’re with.

[jennifer_bloom]

If I got a gift for guy in my family, it would be some type of puzzle or gadget if it was a and if it was somebody outside family, I would get some generic item I get everybody such as high end teas, or high end food products like honey or gourmet cheese. I once asked the neighbours for help and in return I gave them some honey I use for treating respiratory health problems when I am sick. I told them to use it for medicinal reasons and not for taste reasons to flavour their foods.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach here on Girls Ask Guys, I've gotta say, flowers shouldn't be just for the ladies. A bouquet could totally make a guy's day because it's a simple yet thoughtful gesture. Sure, some dudes might find it unconventional, but that's what makes it exciting! 🎉 If you're feeling bold, give it a shot and see how he responds. It could cultivate a whole new love garden between you two! 🌼 Feel the love and break those stereotypes, right? 😉

[amyrbrtsn1]

Guys only get flowers at their funeral

[Chazmatazz269]

Any amount of effort on a woman’s part is nice. If only to reinforce that i’m not wasting my time pursuing someone who has zero interest in returning my favor.

[DishLady]

I bought a guy flowers once when his boyfriend broke up with him….

[OneViewpoint]

Getting flowers from a woman would be weird, awkward, uncomfortable. But a sweet gesture. In this order my brain would.

• Try to stifle a laugh.
• Try to come up with a response that didn't hurt her feelings.
• Wonder about her social skills.
• Wonder what the fuck I was gonna do with a bouquet of flowers.

[CherryLove007]

https://www.facebook.com/reel/1306500227881191

Agree or disagree is the bigger question guys?

[blackeagle007]

I don’t have Facebook, what is it?

[CherryLove007]

@blackeagle007 Question----What is the male equivalent of getting flowers on a date? Answer- Nudes
lol... nudes /move on

[blackeagle007]

Don’t send that stuff then. I’ve always stressed that once you send something out, you lose control of it

[aaron13547]

I thought my answer was good yours is better. Thats it. Eagle flying over and all...

[beenherebefore]

I never got my Partner flowers. Usually he’s the one who gets me flowers once in a blue moon. I also never heard any Man say they’d like to receive flowers.

[Abbycado]

That’s because 88% of men aren’t pansies, pun intended.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

https://youtu.be/29UH3Yovrn0?si=SUnrrMOONpmkmkQK

[Spencer10]

Flowers do nothing for me. In my case maybe thats why. Buy me a book or buy them selves some lingerie for them selves... I would never object to that!

[CherryLove007]

not even a ladies special flower? lol

[HighValue]

Most women aren't romantic at all and do nothing like that for men ever. It doesn't need to be flowers, but something to show they care, which they don't.

[Nikki1989]

I don't even want flowers, let alone my husband.

[dislikesmath]

Probably because I have no use for them maybe some may want them. On my birthday she needs to take me to the liquor store 🥴

[LiamJHayden]

It's my fault. I had this one who was obsessed with me and sent me flowers every day for a month. The only thing that happened was that my female friends ended up getting flowers all the time and I dated the girl who delivered the flowers.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

I could give him something more special and memorable 😏 and it's definitely not flowers.

[jkreuger95]

doesn't have to be flowers but thoughtful gifts are nice. Notice I didn't say expensive, "thoughtful" gifts

[BonzoInBitburg]

What the hell am I going to do with flowers?

[captain_voidwalker]

Girls don't get your guy flowers, we don't like flowers. Instead get him a bag of beef Jerky, guys love beef jerky.

[lorenzomichael]

They do get guys flowers The problem is the guys are probably dead.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Most lads, including this one, think flowers a bit too feminine.

[Pohjolan]

Maybe because most guys would rather get something else?

[blackeagle007]

We have to get stuff always for women. That be the day if we get anything

[NervousIndividual]

I feel like men and women should express appreciation for each other.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

The short answer is gender roles

[Anonymous]

I tried. He got very uncomfortable 😂

[Anonymous]

Maybe some of them do.

[Eve996]

I only give flowers to the best men.

[Awomaninamansbody]

Why don’t you dress up?

[Anonymous]

If he likes pegging then he wants it