I have done before, my last girlfriend after I had started dating her I found out she had a very quick and fiery temper... which i attempted to show her how to control that and use it to her benefit by teaching her martial arts and she did actually show some improvements but due to ill health on my part teaching her became difficult... and i noticed while it wasn't as bad her temper was becoming an issue again... she went counselling but it was the wrong type of counselling and therefore didn't help...
but to date another it would have to be another case of if we clicked then yes but depending on the temper it can be very tiresome and draining dating those with very bad tempers...
Thank you for explaining your answer and sharing your experience. I enjoyed reading your thoughts on this topic. I am glad she found outlets. I did bodybuilding for a while to help control my anger. It worked great
I think that would be a deal breaker for me. I don't want to be a punching bag or just a place to put all of her anger on.
Now there is a difference here. You can be angry or moody but it it's occasional and or you acknowledge you are not yourself and say you are sorry that's one thing. But if you main place is a bad temper and moodiness... Life is already dramatic enough I don't want Jerry Springer or TMZ willingly to come into my life 😂
Love how men here say « awww hell nawww », while girls with a bad temper tend to be the ones who get the best caring guys lmfao. That’s what I noticed at least and I know I’m not the only one.
I’d date someone with a bad temper. I think someone can have a bad temper and still not be abusive or harmful to their partner. It’s about self-analysis.
No never ever in my Life. I told a Good Friend of Mines to break up with His then Girlfriend that He was going to Marry which was very Harshfully Controlling. Treated Him like a Abused Maid and Talked to Me like I was a Dirt Hog. So that One Merry Day came when She threw my Friend out base on His Unfaithfulness, believing that one of his Friend who's Female Apprently is Fucking around with. Then afterwards trying to Seduce Him to come back by sending Dirty/Sex Texting which was Pathetic. Seeing those Textes made Me say to the Poor Guy, "Dude don't go back to Her." After how Hasty She was with Me. Today has a Beautiful Charming Wife gives Him so much Respect especially to resume being Friends with Me. Now that's Love 💘
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Thank you for your honesty! I appreciate it 😁👏! LOVE your opinions!!
Yes. Dont you all? Im not trying to be funny. But ibe known quite a few hot tempered women. Im just smart enough to know their sore spots. And then avoid hitting them. The sore spots, i mean. Not the women. And by sore spots, i guess u kids call them triggers nowadays.
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Smart man! I enjoyed reading your thoughts! Great post
I’ve recently came across a girl with short temper At first I wasn’t quite sure but after I got to know her a little she’s a complete adorb Ig I can date a girl with bad temper cause I know I won’t react to her until she’s back to herself again it’s all bout a little bit of understanding and patience ig😂 And it’s kinda cute when she gets angry cause of trivial things
Probably not, it is one thing to get in a bad mood another to get violent. My Dad taught me how to control my temper as a kid and I still do it now anger is a highly negative emotion and provides no benefits in any fashion and generally leads to self-destructive patterns. Calm leads to good decision making under pressure. life two perfect examples of people within highly temper fuelled environments Muhamad Ali, Bruce Lee, Both used their opponent's aggression against them. In term of dating, definitely not the negative energy would be too much to handle and I fear that it would bring out my own dark side a friend once described my transition as thus" Douzy when you lose your temper it`s like watching an Angel turn into The purest Evil" Beware the quiet ones for you know not what they can do
I would like to update my answer I think what is the general definition of back temper because a lot of the replies I have read I wouldn`t have considered as being bad-tempered though that was just how ladies were. seriously most of my long-term relationships have been with women that have done some pretty out-there stuff I always thought it was some kind of territory thing or role definition. I thought it was like testing or trying to wear the trousers or something if that is the case then it really is not that much of a problem. The answer is no plain and simple they are my trousers once that`s established no more problems they become so lovely even want to burl op and fall asleep on your chest so sweet
it depends how bad it is and why and if she is super nice and patient and goofy to make up for it
black girls usually have good reason for it, and will calm it down and it doesn't trigger me like when a white girl get mad, cuz i know the black girl just fed up and still shows love even when she mad
can you asnwer my question cuz i answered a few of yours
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I enjoyed reading your thoughts! Thank you for explaining your answer
To be honest, no I wouldn't date a girl with a bad temper. I mean, first of all, I know what bad temper is, I used to have anger management issues, and I caused a whole lot of troubles. If I date a woman with a bad temper, she will start flaring up on everything and I really need a girl who can chill and be lazy and calm about stuff instead blowing up like a volcano.
Yes as long as the sex is great, which it usually is with girls that need to get out that much aggression. She usually just needs a real man to keep her in check, because most guys she's been with let her walk all over them. She's a bad girl, and she usually knows it. Great sex, you never know how the day is going to go so it keeps things fresh and interesting.
You will find a temper in anyone if your relationship lasts far enough, I've dated some worse than others but I have a very chill attitude and stay level, that usually can diffuse it.
If she has the presence of mind too vent responsibly, then I think we could make it work. I'll even spring for the punching bag, if it will spare me from becoming one.
Absolutely not. Been there, done that, never again. When people take anger out on someone else it is usually a safe target, which will be you. In the long run, if she is not willing to get help, the constant arguing and always having to put out fires is not worth it (in my experience).
That said, please note that standing up for oneself and being assertive in what one wants and NOT aggressively demanding it, is a virtue in someone you would date.
well I did date one but things didn't go well simply because I did eventually lose my own temper and broke up with her some guys like trouble and fighting in their lives some other guys like me are just after some peace
Date? Probably not. I'd fuck one though, a lot, since she's bound to be a firecracker in bed. I'd like to see if I could get her really mad just before sex, hopefully she puts that energy towards making me but.
It totally depends on how me make up. If she wants to just be a bitch and insist on always being right, then no. If we can agree to playfully decide who's right, with the promise of passionate make up sex, then yes, yes, yes.
It depends on how she lets her anger dictate her actions and behavior. For example I have a hair trigger temper and get mad really easily. But I am very good at controlling it and not letting it decide how I will behave. If the girl was the same way Sure. But if she was the type to go crazy or her thoughts are, “I’m angry therefore what ever I do or whatever actions that follow are justifiable just because I’m upset” than no. No way and never because that’s ridiculous.
I'm being serious. Guys don't want to look stupid if their girl beats them up in public. Size and density does matter though. It's not everything but it factors in which is why they have weight classes.
No I win a lot of fights and I am a real fighter. If size didn't matter at all why do they have weight classes? Are you saying size isn't everything? That's true but not that size doesn't factor in. If I was 9 feet tall there's a strong likelihood you wouldn't even be able to reach my face. You'd be fighting my pelvis. If I were 350 pounds all muscle and you struck me in my left pectoral while I flexed there is a low chance you would be able to generate enough force to stun me let alone inflict actual damage.
Yes 110 v. 240 is possible I've watched like all the UFC fights ever. But you can't say the size difference didn't matter. If the 240 guy was equally as skilled as the 110 guy there's no way the 110 would win without luck which as you know is just called a puncher's chance. It means size has an impact on a fight. I've sparred with a lot of people and size actually matters a lot more than people like to admit. Size can mean height too and that equals reach which gives an advantage in the striking range and that's an undisputed fact. The shorter person has to compensate for that advantage. They can do it but its undisputed that the size gave the bigger person an advantage in some way.
No... I cannot stand a temper. I suffer from major depression and general anxiety disorder. I'm extremely sensitive and have low self-esteem. I'd not last long after a few temper tantrums.
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Thank you for explaining your answer and sharing something about yourself 😊
