Why am I fuckable but not dateable? (Page 2)

Question

I have guys that are only wanting to sleep with me all the time but when it comes to dating or even just getting to know me nobody seems to want to do it. I think I'm a good person, I have a good personality and have been told I'm pretty. Unless people telling me im pretty is also a ploy to get me into bed. I don't know. Why am I fuckable but not dateable?

Paulychicago10 · Answer

To be honest, you seem more date-able than fuckable. From most your questions you seem more mature for a long term relationship

scooterman · Answer

It it's known that you fuck and all the time, what's the point of triing to date you

Koda1 · Answer

I dunno you look amazing to me... so it must be something about your personality

Agape93 · Answer

Because those guys are pigs and don’t know a quality woman when they see it :)

TheLawAroundHere · Answer

I think you are just attracting douchy guys. you're pretty. Seem smart. Lol!

JKingOff · Answer

Hard to say without knowing more about your personality. To me it just sounds like you've been with all the wrong guys.

genericname85 · Answer

Most men just want to fuck and that's it. That doesn't mean you're not dateable. It just means the men you're seeing don't want to date.

RHK36 · Answer

Possibly meeting the wrong guys. Without knowing you personally kind of hard to give a definitive answer.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Because of society... dating is in the past now what with Covid and metoo  It's the end of the line for anyone who isn't purely into promiscuity

Vinnygraphix · Answer

Honestly I see you as very drop dead gorgeous also you are dateable for the very long term relationship too bad you are far away from me I would date you in a heart beat

FakeName123 · Answer

Well, what do you have to offer other than your body?

Massageman · Answer

Well, it certainly isn't about looks since you definitely are not ugly.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Its your values. Men can spot easy pu$$y. You just don't scream high value when they interact with you so they treat you as such.

LoveSmallBoobs · Answer

maybe cause you slept with so many guys that now people don't wanna date you.

Wise4myage · Answer

Not sure, you certainly look dateable to me. Maybe you are just meeting the wrong kind of guys.

chriscdi · Answer

have you asked the people that only tried to fuck you?

Friendlybro79 · Answer

You are dateable. Don't let others decide what or who you are. You haven't met the right person yet.

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

Maybe you're both, and you haven't realized that yet.

ColHathi · Answer

🤷‍♂️ Who could say? I don't know you from adam. :p

Bidensucks2020 · Answer

Maybe word is that your easy , so they won't date you and just expect sex the same night.

bradc00 · Answer

Most girls only know how to attract a guy but suck at keeping a guy.

UnpopularOpinion5 · Answer

at least you have one or the other, im neither attractive or loveable :( i envy you

InferiorElegy · Answer

I'm in the same boat as you, or at least I was when I was 13, not dateable at all my life but I was female pedobait when I was 13.

Stephanaoff · Answer

It is your reaction to them and your attitude on guys.  If you want sex, you will be an easy woman  If you want serious relationships, you will play hard to get.

Johnny8in · Answer

Well you're looking into the wrong men! Try me for an example? I want to know everything almost about you before I know you sexual! It makes it much more passionate and fun

hbkfan · Answer

Because those guys only care about your looks and doesn't want anything meaningful

yulbsari · Answer

Don't let it get you down. You will find the right person.

Gedaria · Answer

Well at least they want you for something. Why not chat in between sessions. lol.

collie22 · Answer

if your good at sex you should be getting some dates, i would guess you good at it

adamKing · Answer

You will get through it, Love the self improving part.  Also maybe you should try dating a different type of guys could be what's holding you back

TheAfrikan · Answer

Those who are interested in YOU will be able to date you. But those who are interested in sex only won't.

ProfessionalMusician · Answer

Well you are very sexy or more than smart I would love to have both but I can't do that anymore ❤️

bamesjond0069 · Answer

If you're known as a slut guys will treat you like a slut. Thats probably the most likely thing.

Tslav_ · Answer

Well you’d rather be fuckable than to be neither or let alone just dateable.

Guardian45 · Answer

You're 'dateable' too, but I think you're NOT seeing the 'dateable' guys out there looking for you!

Walldo06 · Answer

Probably because of your big boobs lol i dont know 😂

SilverRain92 · Answer

They don't date you because you agree on having sex without dates

marish01 · Answer

Do you sleep with them?

AlwaysOutdoors · Answer

Elevate yourself to whatever level of respect you demand and be quick to walk if a d-bag doesn't raise that level even further

michael1469 · Answer

Sometimes you feel like you gotta nut... sometimes ya don't...

realcat · Answer

because they are using you and you haven't found the right person

batonrude · Answer

Girl you got nothin to complain about

Alyssa11 · Answer

You're dating the wrong type of men.

whatdoyouwantt · Answer

Ur hot but they dont like u otherwise

Samantha_17 · Answer

I prefer fuckability anytime, anywhere :)

just_a_potato · Answer

Guys who actually have depth exist don't worry, ❤

GR00VY · Answer

Because you're allowing yourself to be that way...

joeldalton · Answer

Why do you fuck before dating?

Pejtu · Answer

No idea meaby ask someone from ur friends?

winterfox10 · Answer

Where are you meeting guys?

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

Do you have a weight issue?

poneglyphs · Answer

dam I would totally date you and lie to know you.

phronesis14 · Answer

Dm me I will tell u why

scott04sa22 · Answer

Maybe you give up your pants too easily. 🤷🏻‍♂️

devil_8888 · Answer

Maybe the guys find you easy to sleep with.

guitarnovice · Answer

I think MrOracle said it all.

scooogy · Answer

I don't read anything about your personality here.

john23232323 · Answer

How long do you wait since having sex with a guy?

legalboxers · Answer

I think you are daetable...

Smf1989 · Answer

You are meeting the wrong guys

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