No. Then again, none of my friends’ ex were ever my type to begin with. My exes on the other hand they would ask me about. Frankly I could give a damn. I just said to never bring them around ‘me’. None ever dated any of my exes and they are all married now anywhere.
I have before. Didn't ask permision and everything was fine. I dated her for 2 years before we eventually broke up and I'm still good friends with both her and her ex 5 years later. There's no issue as long as everyone involved is a reasonable, well adjusted person.
I've never done it but have had it done to me without being asked. One of my best friends started dating my ex a month after we broke up. He didn't say a word about it. Ruined the friendship as it felt like a betrayal to me and made me wonder how long it had been going on for.
One of my best friends married one of my exes. I had broken up with her for another girl. She and my friend started seeing each other. Before long, they were married and had two kids. I was happy for them and we remained good friends.
Funny thing an ex fucked 2 my old BFFs. It made me laugh so hard he fucked them ugly thangs. Thought he could of done so much better but damn he went to really low grade sluty girls. Oh and this guy im talking about was a real winner... he would ditch me to go play wow. Literally limit how much time we hung out so that he could go back to playing. We only lasted 5 months. Pretty sure u can guess why. If you pick video games of getting pussy there's just something wrong there.
While you are laughing at him, others are wondering
1. Why is it that your two best friends are both ugly sluts who felt no loyalty to you and fucked your ex? Is that the best you can do for friends?
2. Apparently, you had no feelings for him but you were fucking him for 5 months so maybe you are in the same class with your friends.
3. "If you pick video games of getting pussy there's just something wrong there." Agreed. Maybe something wrong with him and maybe something wrong with you, or maybe you weren't the only pussy he was getting.
had few opportunities, chose not to. the women don't care about their girl friend... they want a mate... is my opinion. that may be awful, but... at this age gotta make choices...
I think it depends on the situation and your friend and his ex. It for sure depends on your friends response. And how his ex gets along with him while we are together. Those two factors would be huge. But if it were me I'd totally feel like Charlie Brown 😂 like Linus saying," hey Charlie Brown, i know you and the little red haired girl split up, do you think it would be ok if I dated her?" "Good grief!" 😂
I dated my best friend's ex one time for a year and he hated me for that whole time. He did eventually get over it and I regretted nothing. They had been broken up for years by that point so I didn't see the issue. He did though. Apparently.
I haven't, but I've seen a friend do it, and it cost him a friendship (although admittedly he did throw kerosene onto the embers by getting drunk one night and saying some shit he later regretted. So there were probably seeds of division unrelated to the fact he was dating the mutual friend's ex.)
I never did and I don't think I would want to do it. It could ruin the relationship even if they don't have feelings for each other, as there may be still some bitterness or regrets left. It also feels weird to know that my current partner used to be intimate with a friend. Yikes.
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No. Then again, none of my friends’ ex were ever my type to begin with. My exes on the other hand they would ask me about. Frankly I could give a damn. I just said to never bring them around ‘me’. None ever dated any of my exes and they are all married now anywhere.
Just ask yourself.. If you had an ex would you mind your best friend dating them after you guys break up?
I answered this question for myself about 40 years ago.
I have before. Didn't ask permision and everything was fine. I dated her for 2 years before we eventually broke up and I'm still good friends with both her and her ex 5 years later. There's no issue as long as everyone involved is a reasonable, well adjusted person.
I've never done it but have had it done to me without being asked. One of my best friends started dating my ex a month after we broke up. He didn't say a word about it. Ruined the friendship as it felt like a betrayal to me and made me wonder how long it had been going on for.
It's a good way to ruin a friendship if that's what your intentions are. It will do it every time.
From personal experience, O&W, that way lies madness... :)
Concur!
One of my best friends married one of my exes. I had broken up with her for another girl. She and my friend started seeing each other. Before long, they were married and had two kids. I was happy for them and we remained good friends.
That's never happened with me. However, I knew two friends of mine where this did happen.
They remained friends, and both remained friends with the woman... and I'm friends with all three of them.
Funny thing an ex fucked 2 my old BFFs. It made me laugh so hard he fucked them ugly thangs. Thought he could of done so much better but damn he went to really low grade sluty girls. Oh and this guy im talking about was a real winner... he would ditch me to go play wow. Literally limit how much time we hung out so that he could go back to playing. We only lasted 5 months. Pretty sure u can guess why. If you pick video games of getting pussy there's just something wrong there.
While you are laughing at him, others are wondering
1. Why is it that your two best friends are both ugly sluts who felt no loyalty to you and fucked your ex? Is that the best you can do for friends?
2. Apparently, you had no feelings for him but you were fucking him for 5 months so maybe you are in the same class with your friends.
3. "If you pick video games of getting pussy there's just something wrong there." Agreed. Maybe something wrong with him and maybe something wrong with you, or maybe you weren't the only pussy he was getting.
had few opportunities, chose not to. the women don't care about their girl friend... they want a mate... is my opinion. that may be awful, but... at this age gotta make choices...
I think it depends on the situation and your friend and his ex. It for sure depends on your friends response. And how his ex gets along with him while we are together. Those two factors would be huge. But if it were me I'd totally feel like Charlie Brown 😂 like Linus saying," hey Charlie Brown, i know you and the little red haired girl split up, do you think it would be ok if I dated her?" "Good grief!" 😂
I dated my best friend's ex one time for a year and he hated me for that whole time. He did eventually get over it and I regretted nothing. They had been broken up for years by that point so I didn't see the issue. He did though. Apparently.
nah, all my friends have a different taste in men and I don't wanna sound rude but they have horrible taste
I have not. I had a friend who dated my ex, though. No problems whatsoever. I didn't care. They didn't work out 🤷🏼♀️
I don't know anybody who did that
The closest thing is when my friend was in jail for 4 months
His baby momma was fucking his bestfriend at the time
I haven't, but I've seen a friend do it, and it cost him a friendship (although admittedly he did throw kerosene onto the embers by getting drunk one night and saying some shit he later regretted. So there were probably seeds of division unrelated to the fact he was dating the mutual friend's ex.)
I voted A. Totally agree with the Bro Code (and Girl Code).
i busted many loads in her but i never once let her call me more than master. i grew tired of her as all men do
Hardly but plenty tried to date mine which is why we’re no longer cool
I never did and I don't think I would want to do it. It could ruin the relationship even if they don't have feelings for each other, as there may be still some bitterness or regrets left. It also feels weird to know that my current partner used to be intimate with a friend. Yikes.