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I want to sleep with my professor. Where do I go from here?

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If I do plan to pursue this, I will absolutely wait until I become a former student of his. My classes end the beginning of December, and I will no longer be his student nor will I plan to take any more classes taught by him. I know seeing even a former student is risky, which may be an obstacle for me. That’s if the dude even was interested in me/pursuing me ethically, which he very well may not be.

I am someone who knows what I want. I’m twenty, and until recently, I’ve been in and out of relationships since I was 16 because I always thought I wanted a serious partner. Now, single, I have so much room to reflect on what I actually want. I’m enjoying finally being single and sexually available, and I want to take advantage of this while I’m this young and in my prime. I constantly fantasize about my professor. I don’t want to date him, what I just really want his casual, consensual sex. It’s difficult because I know it’s hard to trust that I wouldn’t try to hurt his career in any way. I also fear how I would pursue him. I’m very good in bed, have a great figure (athlete), although I doubt my looks.

Please don’t judge me and tell me not to go for it. I can be shamed and told I’ll ruin his career, but I know I would NEVER maliciously try to ruin a man’s career if he did something as simple and wrong me. I just want to get the way that I feel out there, and if I get rejected that’s okay. I’m just not sure how to go about it...
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He is not taken! I’m sorry, I should have said that. I’d never go for a married man. I made sure before I even started crushing that he didn’t have a ring on his finger, and I Facebook stalked hahah.
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