Can someone's past be a dealbreaker to you? (Page 2)

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For example do you pay attention to their dating history, promiscuous behavior, unfaithfulness, number of partners, alcoholism, drugs etc.

CuriousCat123 · Answer

Yes. WHAT IF THEY WERE IN JAIL OR TRIED TO MURDER AND ARE ON THE RUN?

Jersey2 · Answer

Only stupid people or people with a bad past would say no.

Anonymous · Answer

It can be but doesn't mean you can't work on it or go past it. However, may not forget it altogether either.

Guanfei · Answer

Of course it can, if someone was toxic or a cheater in the past, that's not just a red flag, but a red neon.

jasco · Answer

I have a bad past so why would i feel bad about it, however if that past has not been resovlved that i would be worried

mak16 · Answer

Before having into any relationship, always check their past!!!

YHL6965 · Answer

Yes, especially if it involves cheating, abuse and general sketchy behavior.

MLGbreezy · Answer

Yes because it can have many red flags depending on how crazy it was.

SofLof · Answer

Yes, if he was a Narco, killed someone, has beat women, known as a cheater with evidence

loveslongnails · Answer

Depends on severity. There are some things I just couldn't overlook

Hypnos0929 · Answer

Yes.  If a woman is known for cheating or being verbally/physically abusive then that certainly matters to me.

Nazgol · Answer

Yes. It would lost likely exist in the person, those tendencies and very likely they will repeat it at some point, one or another

ProfessionalMusician · Answer

Yes it is a deal breaker because past behavior can be a indication of future action and it is quite true

Tiffyk · Answer

It should be. Most likely if they were in trouble with the law, they have narcissistic or antisocial behavior and rarely change

msc545 · Answer

Yes, but only if she has been some horrible criminal or terrorist, or has a drug or alcohol problem she is still struggling with.

imfreeze95 · Answer

It depends on what they did though too if they did some f$#ked up stuff then I don’t want then near my family like

Anonymous · Answer

Of course. Because people don't change, not at their core. A persons past will tell you a lot about who they are.

DizzyAster2 · Answer

Yes, if she has a past of cutting off dicks when she's upset.

Fuentes · Answer

Only if they some serial cheater and didn't tell me or some big hoe with high mileage

art84 · Answer

It's a deal breaker if she had problems with previous boyfriends.

blondfrog · Answer

Yeah it can be depending on what that thing was that they did.

Madmegalomaniac · Answer

It depends on a lot of factors. Particularly what the specifics are and how long ago they happened.

codyccc · Answer

Yes but just being religous in anyway other than that I'm pretty open to most things

FCDALLASFAN · Answer

Yep, if they spent a lot of time in oranges they can keep their poor decisions away from me. Orange is not the new black. People don’t change.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, there are some behaviors that are a deal breaker for me.

Anonymous · Answer

We all must learn from the past. It's just plain stupid not to...

Anonymous · Answer

Well if they voted for Biden, I’m not into mentally challenged women.

CalmYourTits · Answer

Once a cheater always a cheater.

Anonymous · Answer

Not for me because at the end of day people can change

Niya2006 · Answer

No it's in the past so ughhhhhh leave it there

Phoenix98 · Answer

It would depend on the past.

pleasestopthis · Answer

Abusive behavior is a dealbreaker

Twenty2 · Answer

If she was a guy in the past then yeah!

Thea99 · Answer

Yes if they have history of cheating or abuse.

iFarted · Answer

Their past is their past

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

As curious as I am.. I don't ask.

AkshiJanjua · Answer

Yeah because past can reflect on the present

Iron_Man · Answer

Oh yeah big-time

WowwGirl · Answer

One wordAIDS

Bidensucks2020 · Answer

Past matters

Anonymous · Answer

Yes it can be for sure.

Nahid1707 · Answer

Yes.

CT_CD · Answer

Yeah

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Absolutely.

zeineboyy · Answer

YES YES YES OMG

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Yes.

Slim57 · Answer

Yes it all matters

Anonymous · Answer

YES END OF STORY

Anonymous · Answer

Past is past.

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