What's something from the past of a person that is a complete deal-breaker for you?

[Al_Musafir]

A high body count? History of drug abuse? Alcohol? Events of cheating on their former spouses/partners?

Note that the person in consideration hasn't shown any behavioural red flag or anything related to their past in their present with you. Would you still reject them?

Feel free to be open. Judgement free zone here.

[kylee2437]

1. Ass holeish remarks that are meant to harm our privacy as a couple
2. A person that makes alcohol a priority
3. If a person doesn’t want marriage / kids
4. Someone financially unstable

[Nikki1989]

Drug addiction, only because most ex drug addicts are prone to have a relapse at any moment.

[Avicenna]

If she has kids who still live with her. Serious past financial problems. A criminal record. Serious health problems. Multiple divorces. Mental illness. History of cheating.

[strateguy632]

drugs as long as they stopped is fine. they should drink alcohol we need a bit. if she never drinks alcohol that is a red flag.

[kylee2437]

Why is not drinking alcohol a red flag out of curiosity?

[Tim2nice]

If she was a child abuser

[In_Trance]

Suicidal tendencies