Is it rude to tell someone that they are not your type? (Page 3)
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That sounds like a him issue not yours. You are being honest as you should and he should understand and not act like a kid.
No. Its honesty. And it didn't waste anyone's time. Good for you.
Some people can't handle rejection and somr people thrive off of it.
It is not rude. People just do not know how to take rejection. However, I respect you for not ghosting him.
No, not if you're being honest and they're asking you for the true reason behind you rejecting them. If they find it rude, then it's their problem.
I'd simply say you're not interested and leave it at that. If they kept it up, restate that. Still continues, let them know that they are boarding on harassment now and do you need to do something about it?
No not in the slightest, been there and done this myself
No its not rude..
Personally just reject the guy and tell him honest reason..
Some idiots will act ride but eventually leave you alone..
Not my type does not mean I find them unattractive but could mean that I know our lifestyles can't mesh. Eg a party boy will not be my type no matter how cute he looks because I hate parties.
I would have said, "See? There! That is the reason I wouldn't date you."
Not rude at all... U have the right to do whatever u feel or like 🙂
If you got to the stage of discussing it, it means you considered him suitable.
The fact you want to choose differently now means you were leading him on, and that you expect more than you are.
Women generally want to be equal but privileged, which comes down to being vain, narcissistic.
Don't give signals you are available at all if you are in a relationship or if you don't like someone.
It has been enough of female double or triple standards.
I mean... it will most likely hurt their feelings. So 🤷♀️
It's not rude, it's sincere. Unfortunately people don't act always friendly to this type of sincerity, especially if they invested time to approach you.
It isn't wrong. It might matter how you say it but that depends on the person.
Presuming you weren't taken, what's the reason you wouldn't date this guy?
I just don’t find him attractive but I have never told him until he pushed me to know the reason.
Fair enough. It it anything he can work on (like getting fit, changing his hair, clothes, etc.) or is it something else?
Not really no. Much better than leading them on tbh
just tell him that you are not attracted by him instead of saying he is your type? type can change by wearing different clothings and acting different but attraction is something without those involved? Just tell him I am not attracted by you?
Might be rude the way you present it
The meaning isn't rude
No, it's not rude at all just be honest about it in a nice way.
No. Its actually not even a diss. Attractiveness is subconscious attracted to subconscious. Guys just need to relax.