How do you feel when others find your partner attractive?

[Desconhecida]

[Not_Average]

People do and it’s honestly just flattery if you trust your partner.

One thing I have zero tolerance for is guys who will try to act like my friend and showcase clear interest in my girl. The douchebag who hasn’t directly hit on her, but tries to subtlety flex in front of you and you both realize what’s going on. Oh I can’t stand it. I’ve called out a couple of guys like that point blank. One guy at the gym literally never talked to me for years. I bring my girl with me and all of a sudden he’s chatty. Another was a male coworker she had who randomly just tried to one up me on some random shit as we went out to lunch. Called him out in front of everyone asking why he got red in the face as he tried to deny it in his weak passive aggressive way. I can’t STAND grown ass men acting like that. If you’re going to flex and try to hit on my girl, do it directly instead of playing safe like a little bitch. She’ll reject you, but at least have some testicular fortitude.

Other than that pet peeve, I honestly don’t mind if another guy checks out my girl or finds her attractive. Just respect boundaries and I’m fine. Don’t be vulgar about it. Respect her and respect me. That’s all.

[loveslongnails]

I like it !!! That just reinforces that I have great taste when it comes to women!!!

[1983mommyof4]

In most cases, I don't mind. I find myself holding his hand in public or locked on his arm. Kings of bragging.
But, I do have this woman that I used to be friends with until she showed her intentions and invited him over to her house, told me things he supposedly had told her and many people have literally stood back and watched her watch me confront him with a smerk on her face... now mind you, she is 41 years old, toothless, wrinkled and looks like she hasn't quit her drug habit she claims she's been clean from for many years, so I know he does not find her attractive. But, she is one of those woman who thinks they are gods gift to men and intentionally tries to get us to fight. We work together and that's where she works at well so it's not like we can go without freaking with her. Ugh!

[Commander_Red]

A little territorial but at the end of the day, I probably wouldn't act on those feelings lol. I can't help who finds my partner attractive. It's a different story if my partner were to flirt back, though.

[jennifer_bloom]

If the guy is with me for things other than looks than I do not feel threatened if he is with me for money or looks there will always be somebody with more money or who looks better.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

I dated a girl that was simply gorgeous, head to toe. It got annoying because guys constantly hit on her everywhere we went. More than a couple of times I got into fistfights when guys got aggressive with her or us. Other times I would be outnumbered and would just get us to safety. One time as we pulled into a parking lot, a guy hopped into our car when we parked and pulled a knife and was going to rape her. Thank god the police were actively watching him and they swarmed in quickly.

We lived together for 3 years which gave me a whole new insight into how a lot of men become dangerous when their testosterone skyrockets.. and the sight of a pretty girl does that. Girls/women have to walk around constantly being aware of men creeping around them. That's really fucked up.

[Anon621]

In theory anybody can find anyone attractive for a different number of reasons so I would just keep quiet and trust my partner to say they are taken to the person because it would be more effective in my opinion for my partner to communicate feeling uncomfortable or saying they are taken rather than me doing it since the other person is not interested in me.

[TheorionMage]

Guardedly 'flattered'.
In times of Peace, a male's peer prestige status is judged
by the qualities and allure of the female who walks faithfully at his side ('Trophy' waifu )
The MORE she makes other male's ACHE; the greater HIS and HER prestige!

"I WISH I had Jesse's girl..."

[SjE78]

whenever i've been in past relationships i've seen this happen a lot... others would visually and verbally show their attraction for my past girlfriend's however it doesn't matter if they find them attractive or not... as they are with you...
however what i would feel pissed at is if they actually returned the advances in a more active way than just a thanks and a curtious response...
if they start becoming more flirty and touchy touchy then you know you've already lost them...

[JackSmy]

I find it quite enjoyable!! They hit on her, even as my "friends" and she teases, and taunts them, and just plays with them!!
LOL!! Then, the "EXPOSURE"!! When I bring her a fresh drink, and she tells me what kind of PUNKS, my "Friends" are, hitting on her!!
Like I DIDN'T KNOW? LOL!!

[kkirk4442]

It's fine with me if others find her attractive. It becomes an issue if the person doesn't understand and abide by normal boundaries when interacting with people in a relationship. If someone gets tries to get too emotionally close, or does more than a little mild flirt, than I will step in and turn things in a different direction.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Depends who the person is and what they do about it. I like it when my girlfriends tell me how hot my partner is. I don’t like it when people hit on him.

[iFarted]

Idc, I find her attractive so why wouldn't others? I've dated a few party girls and they dressed a certain way that gets a lot of attention. I learned to just accept the fact that other guys will check out my lady no matter what.
I mean... she is beautiful...

[Jjpayne]

It's tough... There is not much you can do. I think this is where trust comes in. You use it as a time where you let it happen and if they really love you, they will show it in that moment.

[psychoticanimaIIover]

Not like her lol. Although there’s a difference between finding someone attractive and rubbing your hands all over them...

Honestly, I feel absolutely nothing.

[ArrowheadSW]

I've been on dates where I could tell others found my date to be attractive. Sometimes it makes me feel proud... LOL... In any case, it doesn't bother me.

[Lanabear119]

If he says thank you, I say “Haha! If you think he’s that cute, you can have him!”

Jk jk 😂

But I would do nothing because im not the jealous type. Though I am the protective type~😏

[Kiss_Me]

Flattered. Proud that she is with me. Confident that I can replace her with another girl just as attractive or better should the relationship end.

[Alpha09]

It's a far better alternative to the latter in my opinion. It simply means I have an attractive partner, it doesn't inherently equal someone cheating or another person trying to take them.

[Iknowbestgirls]

Lucky because I know they wish they had her because she is hella fine but at the end of the day it's me in her panties and not that other guy. As long as they don't act on there attraction. If they act on it then I'mma give to whoop some ass.

[Horny-ashell]

Believe it or not but it makes me feel proud and I know that she came in with me and she's leaving with me. Not to mention that I always made sure that she had sexy clothes to wear. But yes I felt very very good!!

[MysteriousDarkness]

I trust my girlfriend to do the right thing and she does. When other women have tried flirting with me I have told them that I am flattered but I am happily taken. When somone crosses the line that is when I have a problem.

[Ilittles]

There is a threat and envy.
Makes me want ro mate guard but i also want test my partner and see how they take it and react and see if it is reciprocated in a flirty way.

[Egirl28]

It depends how my partner reacts to the attention not the person giving them the attention.