I'd say it depends on circumstances. A small lie like saying you forgot to clean the dishes when in reality you were concentrating on something else, that's fine in my eyes.
But if it's a larger lie trying to mask some bad intention, like saying you were working late but were actually hanging out with someone you didn't want your partner having worries about. Then yeah that's an issue.
I've already made it clear to my partner and we have both agreed, that if it ever comes to light that one of us cheated. Even if that's a case of 10 years down the line she reveals she fucked some other guy 3 weeks into our relationship. We will end the relationship right then and there. I dont want to be in any relationship built on a foundation of distrust.
You can't trust someone who has given valid reason to not be trusted.
The only exception I can think of, is when the lie or misdirection is leading up to say a surprise party or something to that effect.
Another one I (personally) would consider acceptable, is someone you meet online using their middle name instead of their actual first name in order to make it more difficult for stalkers to find their social media. I've known a few who actually did that.
Lying about virginity in a relationship is huge so yea thats a dealbreaker. YET thats only if theyre lying to me about it. I dont really care if they want others to think theyre a virgin. Even my parent still thinks im a virgin but everyone else knows im not. My parents are just in denial. Anyone who says they dont lie in general is a liar ao thats already a redflag. Big lies are hard to come back from so if i lie, its only a white lie like yea that dress is so cute on you.
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No it's not a dealbreaker because everyone lies. As long as it's not about money, unfaithfulness, or criminal activity, I can live with someone lying to me. (I'm like Stone Cold Steve Austin: "Never trust anyone.") So Option A.
And yes, I lie, but it's mainly about stuff pertaining to myself, because I like to tell people my life is slightly more interesting than it really is (not that I'm boring or anything; but I like to really be Mr. Interesting).
The fact that they lied is what they bummed about, I think that's the biggest lie they tell to themselves 🤥😂.
People lie for a reason good or bad, but it's just when you know you can forgive that person, just toj show how well forgiving you are and to show that such statements are thrown in the face of guilty, so they could appreciate the forgiver and be obliged to them
u Everyone lies sometimes or to some degrees but with somthing like that on the dating stage its a red flag
if lying was a dealbreaker for me, i wouldn't have dated a single girl in my life xD like 100% lie about their age to me. no idea why.
I used to be a big liar, but not anymore. I don't lie to you then don't lie to me. If a person can't tell the truth then its a deal breaker since I won't be able to trust her.
Everyone lies. It's just that some people are honest about it.
All of us lie at some point in our lives but what matters is what are things we lie.
Depends on what about and how often. We all make at least little occasional lies.
I prefer not to lie. If I have to I think of course correction asap.
I don't lie but It is a deal breaker for sure
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