Do you think people who are driven by looks & charm are shallow?

[Nazgol]

The ones who ignore other things like if the person might have a bad personality but they are very attractive & charming

[Jjpayne]

I'd say yes. While it's important to be attracted to them it's also important to give another lesser attractive guy a shot. Imagine this, there is a guy that is the perfect body that you are attracted to but there is a guy that is, only slightly attractive. Let's say a big nose for example, like Jewish guy 😂 but you know that they are exactly like you, they love everything that you like! Same movies, same tv shows, some political views, books, poetry, decorated the same way, and even went to the same high school, we are talking soul mate. Do you take the slightly attractive one or go for the one that is the most attractive. To me, the answer is easy and it's something that comes from my big fat greek wedding. They had an arranged marriage and they both hated each other but over time, they grew to love each other. And that's the kind of thing that could happen with a guy like that. You could grow to love them and love them deeply. It could be the difference of this.

Compared to this

And obviously with people closer to your own age 😊

[Jjpayne]

I'm not sure on the age of the pictures 😅

[Jjpayne]

Thank you for the mho 😊

[SamFromFL]

Looks are more important in the beginning before learning about the personality. But a bad personality kills attraction every time. Yes someone is very shallow if they only regard looks.

[SamFromFL]

Thank you for choosing my answer

[ohshee]

This is a good question not necessarily but I think it have a false standard of people and of themselves that's where we make our first mistake falling in love with somebody because of their beauty or their charm I know a guy I called him mister congeniality isn't that the social butterfly that always has a smile that always bullshits people well that's what he does he could tell your wallet back to you that's how good he is just one of the worst human f****** beans in the world go to a lighter lighter cheater in a thief you can tell I don't like the guy but I watch him sweet-talk so many people and then he burns them and I just hate people like that but when we first meet somebody everybody loves the beautiful look I've learned my lesson too many times I look inward I want to know who the person is on the inside the real person I want to see the the real Beauty the person on the inside tells me everything if you're beautiful on the inside I can find a beauty on the outside character wisdom knowledge real things that I find very interesting not a mister congeniality are not in Pretty Boy a pretty girl just because you look good on the outside does it mean your heart's going to be good on the inside so yes in-law different ways shallow all I know is this most of the time they are just wrong for me

[hello_kitty_man]

I don't know, because I think that most people these days are shallow. Society as a whole are shallow due to social media and technology.
When I was younger and we didn't have all the technological devices every where. People actually spoke to each other and if you wanted to communicate, you'd call and set up time to come together and communicate. Sorry that is my take and I am a crusty old guy 😎.

[Floppy2112]

No. Because I am driven by looks and charm and i am not shallow. So at least one person driven by looks and charm is not shallow.

[okeydoke]

If they ignore other traits, that’s weird. But there is nothing wrong with being attracted to certain physical traits over others.

[Andres77]

Yes... appearance is something that people didn't have to work for. In that way some are very fortunate and some are not.
For those that are deeper and wiser "attractive" is more than just appearance.

[Meldrum]

I'm a pretty good judge of character. It doesn't take me but about a sentence to figure out where they're coming from.

[bklynbadboy1]

Its okay to have a preference but if you driven by that to the point where you over look everything else yes there shallow asf

[DragonXR]

Yeah it's shallow but dating as a whole is shallow.

[COMMODOREII]

Those who think they are are shallow.

[TallAnon]

Yes, that's literally the definition of the word.

[andy530]

No not necessarily

[GAGSucksBalls1]

nope

[Tstrbrainer]

Maybe.

[MrCreep]

I like it all