Would you date someone with a low sex drive?

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male or female. Just doesn't need it that often.

Babybebe15 · Accepted Answer

No, I think sex plays an important part of any relationship. Plus I have a healthy libido, lol.

Of course there are other parts to a relationship besides sex, but that doesn’t make sex any less important in the relationship. It’s a way for the couple to bond intimately. They don’t call it lovemaking for nothing. I would feel as if a huge part of the relationship was missing if he barely wanted sex.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

Of course! As long as he cares about me, we click, and are happy together, that's not a deal-breaker for me!

Contrary to what most of y'all think, there's more to a relationship than just sex. There are other ways to connect and spend time with your partner.

BrosephBrostar · Accepted Answer

I think in a healthy relationship, both people would want to have roughly equivalent sex drives. If both people have low libidos, then it'll work out. To all of the people saying that they would without also saying that they themselves have a low libido... that's a big Press X to doubt.

As for me, I have a pretty healthy libido, so I'd say no.

hellacray · Accepted Answer

Sure but if things end up being long term well that changes things.

If she's withholding sex or choose to use sex as a bargaining chip well the relationship won't go that far.

I think women that have a low sex drive refer to themselves as asexual.

PaynefulPleasures · Answer

Look reality check whether you're dating growing old with someone bed buddies whatever the case maybe chit is going to happen especially with age I'm not saying everyone but expect the unexpected man goes limp ladies get dry it's not always attraction to blame. It could be your health such as lack of sleep, stress, diet, age, etc. So expect the unexpected and communicate before you fornicate 👍

bamesjond0069 · Answer

As long as she always says yes and never no. Men are not to be told no, at least if you dont want them to fuck someone else. y'all about to go crazy in 3...2...1... but fr its never been an issue for me. Im 34 and can count the number of times I've been told no by a girlfriend or friends with benefits in my whole life on one hand.

MemeSupreme · Answer

yeah i'm okay with that. sure i'll want it at times but i'll control it bc in the bigger picture of things sex isn't as important as the emotional connection

TheLittleInnocent · Answer

Definitely, there's more to dating than the devil's tango.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, sex isn't everything.  But If there is no sex at all then I probably wouldn't because you still need that physical intimacy with your partner.

Toast792 · Answer

I'm Asexual. So if anything, it would be optimal...

moonpie89 · Answer

Yes because I've got toys that I can use when he's not in the mood.

Footlovefetish · Answer

No, I think it will indirectly create other problems, such as not feeling good enough or validated.

Clairvear69 · Answer

Yes but some guys not always just want sex. Some are interesting and like life. Guy that always want sex is boring. If I want sex then I have sex, if I do not I do not have it. It is not world end not having it.

HawkPerception · Answer

I have a pretty big sex drive so if my partner doesn't feel for it often, I'd be pretty disatisfied and always wanting more.

Notarwen · Answer

Probably, even i have a low sex drive. And sex is not the most important thing in a relationship

Synikal · Answer

Yea, sex isn't everything. I know there may be times we aren't going to have sex but as long as there are times of assistance. I'm good.

spartan55 · Answer

Only if I were deliberately attempting to drive myself crazy... so I would guess. No?

MasterOfReality · Answer

No, not really. The only ones who should, are others with low sex drives. Sex is a very important part of a relationship, so it works best if they are evenly matched, in my opinion.

jasco · Answer

Depends on how low, my sex drive is low, i say i want about 2 - 3 times a month

originalemerald · Answer

Sure , there's other stuff to get close to someone besides sex.

slatyb · Answer

Not knowingly. Why enter a relationship knowing that we’re incompatible?

Medlife · Answer

No, I've tried and no it doesn't work. U both end up miserable

Alexandrubaschet08 · Answer

No, she need to be a slut nymphomaniac never to have enought, if she can kill me whit sex then she need to do it.

Browneye57 · Answer

Oh hell no. If you fuck up this sexual compatibility thing you sign yourself up for a lifetime of disappointment and frustration.

whatdoyouwantt · Answer

Maybe he's just not into the girl so he’s not thinking perverted.

SenseiSeptred · Answer

Yes, I would, because mine is rather low due to how little sex I have only had, and it was all not of my own doing, and I many times feel violated thinking about all that has happened to me.

AD240pCharlie · Answer

That's fine by me. Having a low sex drive is completely different from having no sex drive at all. It will only make the times we do have sex even more special, and masturbation is still an option.

karaspara · Answer

How would you know until you were already together in which case there would be other things to take into account so yes if everything else was good

Kayak_Guy · Answer

I have. She couldn’t have sex so we found other ways to be intimate

Juxtapose · Answer

Nooope, why waste my time? I already have platonic friends that are way better than any woman I can meet right now.

Anonymous · Answer

No. At least I wouldn't start a relationship like that.  it's just a setup for being really unhappy.

JEndigoBleue · Answer

Umm, Jeez! I guess I would have to adjust. But, I will find a way to get him hype for it more often. I have my way. Sexually clever 😉

RingOfFire · Answer

No... mine is too high for that. I wouldn't be satisfied.

EssenceOfLight · Answer

Depends how low and how good she is if she wants sex.

Joshua213 · Answer

Yeah cause I have a low sex drive too

Twalli · Answer

If they're willing to have it more often than they need it

Anonymous · Answer

Ohh my God now will people check the sex drive first and then date? What is this world becoming?

RickVienna · Answer

Yes because I have also not the best sex drive. 2"8 Inches dick is not the best thing to have for a big sex drive

Agape93 · Answer

Sure I’ll just get my attention elsewhere if I need it

Fennec4xx · Answer

@Gwenhwyfar what do you think?  I think it will be problem with her

Hurlyburly · Answer

Mine is low aswell so that'd work out just fine.

tonka72 · Answer

No I would not date you someone with a low sex drive I myself have a very high sex drive and I'm 48 years old

Hyped_up_on_coffee · Answer

No , I suggest you date an asexual

sixtyeightplusone · Answer

absolutely not! If that relationship grows you would end up in a terrible predicament!

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

Yes, of course. I can be with her and cheat with other women sexually

Massageman · Answer

Apparently - I married her.

exitseven · Answer

Yes but I would draw the line at NO sex drive.

EmbraceThePain · Answer

Yeah, but it depends on the specifics

V12NI · Answer

Sure, sex isn't the most important thing in life

Sakura-san · Answer

I don’t know but I’d give it a try

Miristheiss · Answer

I do not think I could handle that.

WalkingBassist · Answer

I could do it if they were great in other ways.

sheikalana · Answer

I think that doesn't bother me too much.

lovedejj_xo · Answer

No and my boyfriend probably wouldn’t either

magiusX26 · Answer

nope. would still leave me quite frustrated

cicadas · Answer

Yes.

Wise4myage · Answer

Probably not, but who knows.

Gedaria · Answer

Give and take , be aware of your partner's needs..

ik9999 · Answer

Being sexually compatible is important

NorthwestRider · Answer

Nope because I am kinky and liberal!!

timrimbim · Answer

yeah i would and my sex drive high af

Waldoe · Answer

depends on if she is still sexually available...

Anonymous · Answer

No because I have a very high sex drive

Bhavin2184 · Answer

Yeah..

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