About 67% of USA women are obese or overweight. Any advice for athletically fit guys looking to date?

Question

Women in America on these dating apps are the size of NFL football players. About 67% are unhealthy, ugly, and won't live long enough to have an active old age.

TheBigGuy9 · Accepted Answer

Yes, we know the fatties that are a 4, all of a sudden think they are an 8 online. Leave them in the dust.

Where are you looking? How about venturing off into the world too? If you’re a healthy person that works out and stays fit, you’re almost guaranteed to find athletic women when you go to the gym. You workout at home or something?

You have enough confidence to pick up a woman at the gas station? Again, if you live a fitness lifestyle, places that you go (the beach, health food store, gym, sports store, sports games, festivals, etc.) and what you wear, you are bound to run into women just like you. But like I said about the gas station... You may be lucky one day and run into someone totally out of the blue.

Keep up your confidence. Don’t be afraid of rejection and you’ll be fine.

Besides, you really don’t want many women who are online a lot these days. Lots of them come online just to inflate their ego. There is also a lot of them selling their body going on these date sites. Gotta watch out for that too. Many Regular ordinary women started doing such during Covid.

FriendlyDrugDealer · Accepted Answer

I would just advise not dating anyone who isn’t your physical preference.

I’ve been with skinny, average, athletic, curvy and obese. I personally enjoy a woman who is about average/ curvy and I would date someone much bigger if I can see the value of their potential beyond their physical appearance.

Not to sound rude or aggressive but in the bedroom it doesn’t matter to me on their size, I’m still handling business like a professional. With a lighter girl I might be able to balance her on things more but with a bigger woman I don’t have to hold back in regarding strength ( more cushion for the pushing).

However we can appreciate all bodies but at the same time it’s more than PERFECTLY fine to say a certain body type (whether it’s fat or skinny) is not your fancy.

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

Among men, the prevalence of obesity was 40.3% among those aged 20–39, 46.4% among those aged 40–59, and 42.2% among those aged 60 and over.

Among women, the prevalence of obesity was 39.7% among those aged 20–39, 43.3% among those aged 40–59, and 43.3% among those aged 60 and over.

Feb. 27, 2020
https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db360.htm#:~:text=Among%20men%2C%20the%20prevalence%20of,those%20aged%2060%20and%20over.

OliviaOfTheScots · Accepted Answer

You're an enigma, you complain men are mentally effected by the unreasonable expectations of women while spouting the opposite against women?

Like who you like whether that's guys, girls, fat or thin or whatever wets your sausage but how about we grow up past our petulant "notice me" phase and quit being a cunt towards people we aren't attracted to a move on

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SomeBlondeChick · Answer

ROFL @apope16 how many times do you have to be told - improve your standards - till it sinks through your incredibly thick skull & actually reaches your brain?  As for your comment of "any advice for athletically fit guys looking to date?" if you were actually as athletically fit & appealing as you blubber you are... Why are you on dating sites? Do you live in a city or town where there are no women?  I mean I tried dating sites once, years ago, and found 90% of the people on it were the sort that far, far, far overrate their value to the opposite sex. And you keep bitching about crap women because you either can't attract better or your standards are gutter low.

zed-789 · Answer

If ur fit and attractive but u have to be on a dating site then maybe u need to work on ur confidence and charisma. Every guy in shape that I know has zero problems finding attractive women in person. They r all over the place, in grocery stores, at the beach, clubs, bars, the mall, work, jogging down the street, Instagram etc. Things may be a bit more difficult because of covid but it’s not that big of a change for those that r desired. The only other thing I can think of is location must play a roll because my brothers r all fit and they have women all over them all the time that they meet randomly and none of these girls r fat but we live in LA. I feel like somewhere like Oklahoma it would be difficult for anybody to find a hot date.

Anonymous · Answer

1) Try to go more to places like the gym, sport events, exc.. or really anywhere you know you're going to find skinnier girls
2) Try finding girls in fitness oriented stuff online like discord servers, group chats, exc..
3) If you like younger girls, try narrowing down your search filters on dating apps or try to really just look for them because they will be skinnier than girls your age
4) You could also try getting with girls from different countries who live in america or do long distance stuff if you're cool with that. If you wbecause they will definitely be a lot thinner. move to bigger cities like new york or LA, people are way skinnier there. Or you could just move countries. Try moving to either Europe (not the UK though, they're pretty overweight there too.

just_a_potato · Answer

I was gonna try to give advice because someone as healthy as a fit man would want some one of the same size and prowess, but then you kinda insulted those women and I kinda didn't want to anymore lol.

WowwGirl · Answer

38% of u. s men are over weight any advice for a real athletic girl on how to get one that's not fat? I'm still waiting for a photo to match me?

invalid1 · Answer

Yes, there is one... 😊 It goes like this...

GROW THE FUCK UP! And it's not your business how most women are looking like.
If you are struggling to find your superficial barbie. Then the advice will be... Mmmm... Look for them?

I dunno just search from the 33% I am sure you'll find there some womb for your athletic stupid ass seed that is so necessary for the survival of mankind.

Come on man!

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I don't mind Overweight/Obese women but they need to get their weight off
to be healthy again of course people being overweight 90 % of the time do
have a mental health illness and their living in their own hell inside of their brain
I know cause I've been living hell since age 21 and guess what Men are just
as Overweight/ Obese as Women are so no one is better than the other now
there are some people who like to live in Mom's basement and their sitting
on the internet seeing who they can degrade cause their not happy with life
I rest my case

AnggieGirl · Answer

See a shrink and work your issues out. Don't blame women for your "loss in dating options". Any realistic women wouldn't like your question and wouldn't enjoy your expectations. Mommy issues perhaps

DarcRefractions · Answer

in real life dating or online, i have advice for both.

online dating select your profile search sitting to fit/ athletic. or slim and petite and go from there.

if you don't mind average size women leave that if not then no.

real-life beaches, bars clubs are your best bet. and gyms. hiking trails are also good.
i know your not supposed to hit on people in the gym. but figure out a less creepy way..

try the female anime commmuity a lot of cosplay chicks are fit.

Ez-Bri-Z · Answer

I do appreciate your need for attention, it's almost kind of cute in a way.

People come in every shape and size. What works for one doesn't work for another and that's ok. There is always going to be someone out there for someone.

Big girls, go get you some. 😊

Dontaaa · Answer

How about you start also posting the source of your "percentages".

For all I know you could just be sitting here making them up.

All like, "hMmmM, I gUesS it'S aBouT siXtY sEvEn pErCeNt".

Post the fucking sources mate, you're an influencer for crying out loud.

Expecting everyone to believe what you say just become it comes from you ain't gonna cut it.

purplepoppy · Answer

If American woman are that bad how come so many American men can't get laid

iKarmaJones · Answer

Some men are attracted to BBWs. There's plenty of BBWs sites for men to engage women of the more hefty side for the love or sex. I mean you like what you like, right? Doesn't mean what you don't like is not likeable by others. And, what advice are you looking for? If your athletically fit, you shouldn't have a problem on the dating sites.

NathanDavis · Answer

Not an advice just an observation, nobody can stand an asshole like you for long.

So just accept your faith, you are the TEMPORARY one, you'll never be able to keep a "high-value woman" maybe not even get a chance to try with one.

Doesn't matter how athletic you think you are or you actually are, you're still a CPS through and through, and you will be flushed down the toilet, sooner than later.

snackthatsmilesback · Answer

Over 70% of men are fat. Just don't date the fat ones?

Fit people exist, but since you know they're a minority you shouldn't expect to find them everywhere. If you want to raise your chances of finding one just go to places or on websites where being fit is part of it like a rock climbing trip or a marathon and if there are women there, there will be fit women.

Qdbrown · Answer

At least with a fat chick, you can virtually stick it anywhere on her body, and feel like it's the sweet spot in all areas of her body. You would have to find a big boobed girl to get the extra rub location, less she likes the backdoor and oral.

Just find a fold, and go to town... Lol!

Mofunfour20 · Answer

if you want good relationships then be the guy sexy women are attracted to, then you get the pick of the litter and won't have to waste your time. Chase your purpo$e and women will chase you. Success is the best revenge for all those bad relationships.

Screenwriter · Answer

Look for what you want and like.
And maybe, just maybe that chubby girl's been having a hard covid and isn't a lost cause.
I'm having an active older age: gardening, bicycling, house painting and sanding, walking, weightlifting. I want to be that 85 year old who banished a drunk interloper from her house when he broke in.
I want to live long and healthy. Fat and fit are diametrically opposed. Avoid people who are lying to themselves.

Ditto626 · Answer

I don't know what you're asking exactly but I want to point out that it's hypocritical that overweight women don't want to date overweight men and expect their partners to be fit. But they get mad when fit men don't want them. I understand people have preferences but come on, if you want a fit guy and you aren't fit yourself then maybe don't get mad when they don't want you back.

JuliaStyles · Answer

Sounds like you already have it figured out. I guess just date any of your girls you mentioned.

Everglow5 · Answer

No need to be so rude about it. Sheesh. Even if you find a nice looking girl, she's not gonna like that attitude of yours

Ellie-V · Answer

Get with an Amish lady. They are usually small sized. Their diet is different and their society Shane harshly on bigger bodies so they are less likely to be overweight.

worldscolide · Answer

LOL the same pinks that are bitching about you fat shaming are the ones that are usually land whales, who demand that the person they are with make 6 figures, be at least 6'5" and at least 10 to 12 inches long down there.. They literally have no room to talk.

Anonymous · Answer

73% of adults in the US are overweight regardless of gender. And what’s more ironic is that Americans are more worried about a covid vaccine because “they don’t know what’s in it” but will eat a Big Mac without a second thought 😭?

exitseven · Answer

I work at a local college and it seems that most kids male and female are overweight and out of shape. Much more than 30 years ago and it was a problem back then. Crappy diet and too much time in front of screens are to blame no doubt.
I always dated women who were active, some played sports, one played semi pro football. My wife is a Physical Therapist. She stays in shape throwing overweight guys around trying to get them to walk again,.

RCLJT · Answer

Honestly, also given American women’s penchant for mind games, testing the relationship and kissing and telling all to their fucking girlfriends, I’d say browse the internet, find the RealDoll sex doll that exactly meets your idea of perfect and spend the $5 grand, you’ll be happier in the long run and your mental health won’t deteriorate having to deal with psychotic American women. Did you also know that a good 48% are on psychotropic drugs just to be able to function. Yeah, no thanks.

douride2 · Answer

So what is the question really? Men hit the scale for obesity at about the same rate as women..

Anonymous · Answer

Try dating guys. Based on your posts, you already have enough hatred toward women. I think you need to try guys honestly.

darkcloud1945 · Answer

I think 70% of the guys better step up and take a good long look at themselves in a mirror too Slim Jims they are not. As for the few and far between athletically fit guys keep on looking for the athletically fit women I personally think America has turned into a nation of tubby people including me.

Newhead · Answer

Work on yourself and wait for the one, if all the girls you meet are fat then it means you haven't met the one or the one is probably in the gym, wait.

VitreouS · Answer

Get off dating apps first of all. They’re only filled with single mothers, only fans garden tools and big girls. Have some standards, learn some game and talk to women you see in person. If your a fit guy and have a good personality, shouldn’t be difficult getting female attention. Also, learn how to be comfortable by yourself. Dating is ridiculous these days and for the most part, not worth the effort.

The_Maphio · Answer

Go for a cutie that fits the term of "normal" or "fit". The fact that a lot of americans have more McDonald's than skin on them is no reason to lower your standards.

Anonymous · Answer

Not all over weight is bad. I am over weight, but My waist is skinny and I am strong. Granted most women aren't trying to buff up, but if her butt, legs, and breast are large enough she can be considered overweight, but still look hot. Obese is unhealthy and concerning, it is the sign of someone who has given up. However, overweight is much more common and less descriptive.

nevernevernever · Answer

if you don't want to date fat women don't date them. What do you want, a prize for being in shape?

K-I-S-S · Answer

Guys look at womans weight as women look at guys height. One attribute could be changed though 😗 This guy has been a bit of a jackass though, so i'm not too suprised about the "dislikes".

MrBadd · Answer

I’ve seen you ask this question a bunch of times and I can’t understand what you’re getting at. There are still plenty of slim women. Find them, date them, simple.

Anonymous · Answer

As men we need to stop allowing women to push the bullshit complacent idea that fat is beautiful.
women have gotten lazy and entitled and need a wake up call. obesity is NOT ok.

When we all stop allowing fat bitches to control things and act like what they believe matters, they will start acting like women again and not bossy over bearing cows.

legalboxers · Answer

I only date overweight women. They seem down to earth and have better personalities

aliali8 · Answer

Sorry dude, you're just gonna have to pic from the small pile of skinny women remaining. Otherwise, just don't date.  I'm a chubby gal and I've never had a guy reject me due to my weight.

Hyped_up_on_coffee · Answer

On ok cupid you can filter by body type. If not I say meet a woman at a gym or in a runners group.

slatyb · Answer

No matter what attracts you, most women won’t. I’ve looked on match. com in Seattle just for grins and it’s the same. Most women my age are nit attractive, but there are still plenty who are.

genericname85 · Answer

don't date girls you're not attracted to. easy as that. i mean a large percentage of men is also obese. so if you're not obese, you're already better than half of the male competition, so you can afford not to go for fat chicks.

Anonymous · Answer

Buy a plane ticket and fly to Asia then, I'm sure American women won't miss you.

jgirl99 · Answer

This question is so stupid and offensive and pointless lol. Tbh it made me laugh how stupid this is. R u serious?🤣omg

Paolaa988 · Answer

Go to the gym or outside, join some fitness events and you'll find what you're looking for

Anonymous · Answer

Why are you fat shaming. Not all women are meant to be twigs. I’m curvy and love it. Men need a little cushion to hold on to at night. Not another man. We have boobs, ass, and hips. “A coke bottle”. Has curves
Men like you are reasons why some women have eating disorders and botched surgeries because we do measure your beauty standards. FYI you’re not happily married either. Whatever.

Anonymous · Answer

Be picky, and don't be ashamed of it. Don't call the women out for being overweight, though. There's no need for that, and it doesn't do any good for anybody. A simple "you're not my type" is all you need to say.

Bugluvr · Answer

Two words: Dating. App.  Turns out all the guys on those lie about their height or age and just wanna boi-oing. (My advice is watch out for the ones with BIG muscles - small brains)

Nisabennn · Answer

Love is so strong, there is no problem that love can't beat, you can exercise together :)

IveGotNoName · Answer

It's actually more like 41% of women (and about 39% of men)

DJB72 · Answer

Get over yourself. You're not the catch you think you are.

EKBER · Answer

In turkey there is saying.'' Yemeğin salçalısı Kadının kalçalısı güzeldir '' İt is like. Foot needs tomato paste and Man need big women :) i know it is translate does not meanning that... expression only

Anpu23 · Answer

There's an easy solution to this. Join a running club, a lot of marathoners are women.

karaspara · Answer

That can’t be true all the American women who I’ve met have been gorgeous

Browneye57 · Answer

So, just how many do you NEED? How 'bout you just date ones that haven't blimped up already? The other 33%?  What are we missing here?

Anonymous · Answer

Don’t worry about that. Most of them in that category mostly prefers African-Americans so you should be fine but stay away from the cheerleaders because there also starting to preferred only dating / sleeping with African-Americans too.

zagor · Answer

Go to a place where women are into outdoors stuff and more likely to be fit. The Rockies or the West Coast tend to be more that way.

sixtyeightplusone · Answer

I agree it's a crying shame and disgusting. When you find a thin one hold on to her and you may hove to accept some other undesirable qualities, but anything is better than a fat woman.

Anonymous · Answer

Just do whatever you want man. WTF is even this question. It's not like those women are trying to rape you

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