Do you think you have the personality to be a great partner?

[DizzyDesii]

The great Lloyd “Mr Personality” Price had died recently but man did i love his song “Personality”. It was a hit back then and one of the first songs i did my ballet/tap recital too back in the late 90s. 🙏 Rip sir. I think i have a pretty good personality. I mean i can be a bit stubborn, closeminded and set in my ways. But i’m also quite talkative, willing to hear someone out, and ready to give my take or advice in return. I have a goofy personality with a dirty sense of humor. Yet i’m also sweet and loving. I think overall I have a good heart. But there's more to me, thats just all i’ll say for now. Whats your #personality like?

Like who doesn't know this awesome song! 😍😍😍🙌🙌🙌🎶🎶🎶💃💃💃🙏😭
#FeelFreeToList #MoreThanMeetsTheEye

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm the type of person who didn't socialize much in school, I spent a lot of time drawing and thinking up made up worlds, or gaming, or futzing around with exotic animals, or contimplating how to reshape society or make science fiction into science fact.

There wasn't anyone at school I found attractive or interesting, and when I grew up I sort of became a shutin.

I find it really hard to relate to most people, and as I've gotten older I feel this way more and more.

I look and sound younger than most people I befriend who are much younger than me.
I figure things out much earlier than most people in most cases, or I figure things out that most people go their whole lives not noticing, and it made me look at everything quite a bit differently than most of the populace, to the point where sometimes I don't feel like a belong in this time period.

This has made dating very difficult, and my laundry list of pickiness doesn't help. so while I have the personality to be a great partner, it's in a way that I think most women aren't going to appreciate.

I could sit here listing generic things, like my talents and skills, the fact that I'm kind, loyal, compassionate, knowledgable, understanding, generous, and have a knack for fixing problems, etc. which are all true, but there is something else, something hard that is to put into words.

I don't fit in, I don't want to fit in, I'm a relic of the 1990s outcast nerds, born in the 1980s, living in the 2020s, while refusing to change with it. I relate to people, then they change, while I stay the same from 5 to 35

I am immune to peer pressure on a level that results in not connecting with most people at all.

I'm me.

I know that sounds like an obvious thing, who else would I be? but I feel like a lot of people aren't themselves, they are instead amalgamations created by those around them who shaped them into who they are via influence, peer pressure, beliefs, dogmas, and charisma. And I resisted all of that, every influence, every cultural push, double standard, bias, lie, all of it.

I butted heads if I thought someone was wrong even if I gained nothing out of it or gained a negative, I avoided assumptions even if it made my life a lot harder or made me seem ignorant, I did this every single time. I corrected best friends for being wrong and backed up enemies for being right, I traded feelings for honesty every time, I had zero nepotism.

I was, and am, objective to a fault. But I'm also forgiving and understanding to a fault.

I expect most people to be overachievers with hearts of gold and genius level congition, even if it's unrealistic, and when faced with that reality I get frustrated and isolate, and I hate isolating.

It's going to take a very rare girl indeed to appreciate me enough to stay, but they would also find me irreplacable in any practical sense, so does that mean I dont have that personality, or does it mean I do?

[DizzyDesii]

Sounds like you're a rare jewel

[TheSpaceGnome]

I feel more like a living fossil trying to find a dead species to mate with tbh than a jewel. My personlity type was more common in the 90s, and seems to have been phased out, either that or they all got married already.

[CallyKat89]

Appreciate you enough? Your viewpoint is introspective, and I have a hunch that your romantic relationships will always be you before your partner. There is always room to grow as a person, and to answer your last question, I think you are in fact replaceable. You can find this mindset everywhere. It's cheesy sure, but relationships are a big game of give and take from both partners. I highly doubt you'll find someone who checks your boxes and is willing to deal with you. "I am immune to peer pressure on a level that results in not connecting with most people at all." The peer pressure probably isn't the issue here. My guess is that your social reaction in the situation turns other people off and causes them to isolate you. You can stand up for yourself and what you believe in and not present yourself in a negative light. You can enjoy your interests and clash with pop culture. However, I really do suggest dropping the holier than thou you shall never understand me attitude. Rather than personality, this might be an issue of charisma and socialization. Plus, I think zoomers call this attitude "the pick me guy". Hope this answers your questions.

[TheSpaceGnome]

@CallyKat89
1. Yes, it's enough. Just because I don't have insecurities doesn't make me "holier than thou" (I'm not even religious for one, and secondly, I would prefer a partner who values themselves and points out their similarities and good qualities, because life is already too stressful to be negative about yourself, plus I want to relate to a person, not listen to jealous gripes or be bored). I'm not going to attract someone like myself if I hide who I am.

2. I actually put my partners before myself in my past relationships, and they cheated on me, If I have any social issues, it's being a doormat and needing to stand up for myself MORE, people usually gravitate to me for information, favors, advice, etc. to the point where I'm starting to get fed up with lack of reciprocation, I'm not google or a personal errand boy, I deserve just as much compassion as i dish out.

3. No one is replaceable, other people are compatible (though in my case rare), but replaceable? nah, if you go into a relationship with the mindset that they are, you will push your SO away.

4. talents, skills, and knowledge are how I prefer to grow as a person, changing my personality would require changing my genetics, so no I'm good on that front, and I'm happy with my personality, and want another person with the same one.

[TheSpaceGnome]

@CallyKat89

5. relationships are not give and take when it comes to compatibility vs differences, they are give and take when it comes to generosity vs selfishness. Compatibility differences create rifts between people, and 'i'm not interested in what you assume about likilhoods of me finding a given type of person nor what you assume they would need to put up with. Part of compatibility is that one person's gripe is another's joy, what you find stuck up another would find enthrawling: example, I rarely lose at fighting games, response A: "dont fucking brag!", response B: "finally, a good challenge :D I was so bored! :)" (this goes both ways by the way, the type of girl i would like, you would probably find annoying as hell in that department).

6. Peer pressure is a siginficant issue, if the world had no followers, the number of people who would be good matches would be much higher for me, and I wouldn't be as isolated as much because I wouldn't need to do things I dislike, or be places I dislike, to meet large amounts of people. The point is i retained my sense of self I had as a child, and most people tend to forget who they are and are left trying to figure out what they want as an adult, or they cave to unrealistic ideals like a given hobby being for children and not adults, and thus lose themselves in the process.

7. you are only half correct, my social reactions often turn people off yes, but most people's social reactions also turn me off most of the time as well. Compatibility is a 2 way street you know, and I only tend get along with atheist nerds who like video games, science, anime, fantasy, sci-fi, etc. social clicks are a thing in adulthood, not just highschool, and thats ok.

8. Don't group how people act or define things based on their generation.

[TheSpaceGnome]

@CallyKat89 All of that said, If I weren't picky I'd be married already, I had enough stalkers in my life to pull that off easily, so despite my differences, I don't have problems attracting the opposite sex.

[TheSpaceGnome]

And they weren't bots like silkcute lol

[AydenHazor]

I would hope so. I tend to be serious and responsible most if the time, but have been doing better at processing my own emotions she an glad to walk alongside friends and hopefully a partner in there's. I'm also getting better at letting myself have fun, be flirty, and actually get to know myself beyond the dude that just does what needs to be done.

[DizzyDesii]

So far i’m loving who you are as a person. You carry yourself well and aren't afraid to show emotion! Thats the start to being a good person and eventually a perfect partner for someone special. Just keep up the good work and remind yourself that there's more to life than just painting the big picture. Its those little details that help define who you are and how you’ll complete that masterpiece :)

[AydenHazor]

Aww 🥰 thanks! I'm loving who you are as a person as well. I think my problem comes in more with reminding myself there is a bigger picture as I find it easy to get lost in the details lol

[DizzyDesii]

Haha well thats new lol. Its good but nothings good if you have too much of it

[AydenHazor]

Very true, even water is poisonous in large enough quantities lol

[DizzyDesii]

Oooo thats a new one! So what are are your hobbies?

[AydenHazor]

Cooking, baking, reading, math (I know, I'm a nerd), hiking, ultimate frisbee.

Yours?

[DizzyDesii]

Lol so opposite 😂 I used to like writing and drawing but never was big on reading. Funny bexause i wanted to be an editor which would've consisted of lots of reading. The drawing stopped due to hand cramps. I’m not outdoorsy so i do more indoors stuff unless out shopping. But i love collecting skateboards, cds, and movies. I also love going to themeparks although my boobs are starting to get too big for the belt thingy to come down over them 😂 i almost fell out of a coaster once 😭 I’m too clumsy for hiking but i liked frisby as a kid. I was great at throwing but sacked at catching 😂 i would run from it haha

[AydenHazor]

They do say opposites attract 😉
I was never very artistic, but do airboats others' art. I joke that my artistic ability ends when I leave the kitchen, but I'm pretty good at interior design when I'm working with someone with a big picture vision. While I'm not a fan of shopping by myself, I do actually enjoy doing with others, but I think it's more the quality time aspect than anything else. For movies, I probably haven't seen most that you'll think I should have, but I'll put the same offer out to you that I do to others, if you think I need to see something, sit down and make me watch it with you lol. I'm not a big fan of amusement parks, as I'm not a fan of the feeling of my stomach being in my throat, but I'm willing to ride rides with the right person. The trick to catching is not being afraid of the disc, which is the hardest thing to learn. Personally, I've been hit in the head with enough things that it doesn't frighten me in the least lol

[DizzyDesii]

Its amazing you cook though! I’m not very good at it so i dont have the motivation to continue doing it as much. And lol if you're not into shopping then i’ll shop and you can help carry the bags haha. But i’d still buy you something for being a good sport. And like you said, the quality time in itself is the best part... as well as the fun that could occur when in the dressing room together haha. I have a whole list of films that i wanna know if youve seen. And at the theme park, just dont eat before riding and then hopefully we’ll be safe from a puke fest haha. I used to drag my younger brother on all the rides with me although he was so scared 😂 i somewhat feel bad but not really. And im more scared of the ball then i am a disc yet i still love baseball haha

[AydenHazor]

I actually almost went to culinary school but between wanting to have a family dinner day and knowing the guys in the culinary friends are ridiculous and wanting to continue enjoying it I went another route. I'm all for helping you pick out clothes and "helping" you in the dressing room too. Feel free to ask away in the films, you'll likely be making a list to watch with me, and I'm totally okay with that "thigh we may have to watch some more than one to actually pay attention to it lol. I'm ok with you dressing me on rides, and I've never actually puked from one, I just prefer things like the swings or the teacups (which I may spin as fast as possible). Having been hit in the head with both a baseball and a disc, the baseball hurts worse lol

[DizzyDesii]

Lol i took culinary arts in HS and quit my second year 😂 i did EVERYTHING that the others did but my ground beef was still pink. It just wouldn't change. Cooking just isn't for me. But recently i learned how to pansear chicken and it turned out amazing. And lmao you already knew we’d be a bit distracted from watching the film huh? Haha, but yes i have a long list. I don't know if i should list it out or link you to the GAG mytake for you to comment on which youve seen. Omg you love the swings! I loved them as a kid but wow theyre making them so much taller that it freaks me out a little. One time my chain was broken and i held on for dear life to the side chains. I was very scared. It wasn't as bad as my shoulder belt not buckling on the coaster. It was called the ring of fire. They hung us updide down forever and my two cousins had to hold me down from falling out. Surprising i still enjoy theme parks after those incidents haha. I definitely exoect the baseball to hurt worse. I want my kid to play it but i fear concussions

[AydenHazor]

I wouldn't mind cooking for you. It's a lot more fun when cooking for someone else to enjoy. I guess dining for me doesn't get to me like the fast drops do. Feel free to list them here, in a message or link me to your mytake ☺️

[DizzyDesii]

Whats your fave thing to cook? Name 3 of your top dishes 😍 and it can be as simple as a sandwich. I just wanna know what you like to make haha. And while you're doing that, i’ll go search for the mytake

[AydenHazor]

3 things I make that tend to be people's favorites, Mac and cheese, sweet and sour kielbasa, and cookies (though this is cheating as I make dozens of varieties of cookies)

[DizzyDesii]

I linked you to my movie mytakes. You dont have to check all right now. I love macaroni!! Hows your spaghetti? I wanna love cookies but i get toothaches easily. Snickerdoodles and M&m cookies are my fave. I never heard of kielbasa. I’ll check it out.

[AydenHazor]

It'll take a while to respond to those, but I will. I haven't matter a tomato sauce yet, but I make a great rusted red pepper cream sauce for pasta. I make a really good snickerdoodle like cinnamon chip cookie, but I won't use m&Ms in my cookies as the candy coating changes the flavor of the cookie itself for the worse (weird, I know)

[DizzyDesii]

Oh wow you cook from scratch? Even more amazing!! I thought maybe you could just whip up some soaghetti with some ragu or prego haha. I wouldve loved it lol! Cinnamon 😍 I love cinnamon!! Jus never be dumb enough to fall for this challenge like i did 🤦‍♀️ I nearly died as it clogged up my throat and i couldnt breathe. I was only 15 and had no idea that they were daring me to do something so dangerous. They just told me to fill a spoon with cinnamon and swallow it for 20 bucks. I was like ummmm okay, like easiest win ever lol

[AydenHazor]

Yeah, cinnamon is great in other food, but not by itself! It's actually the secret ingredient in a taco-esque pulled pork that I make and everyone loves it

[AydenHazor]

I cook just about everything from scratch, and even mix up some of my own seasoning mixes

[DizzyDesii]

Wow this is really interesting to learn. Now i literally want you to throw your own food fest! Just set up like a taco tent, spaghetti tent, etc because i wanna try it all haha. It’ll be like an episode of masterchef where they come around and do a taste test

[AydenHazor]

It's better if I cook the meals for you over time, there's a wide array of food I make that I'm sure you'd enjoy, to much to try in one day lol

[DizzyDesii]

Sounds good :) keep a girl coming back for more haha

[AydenHazor]

Oh, keeping you coming back for more will he a definite perk 😉

[DizzyDesii]

Coming back to hang with ya is a perk in itself

[AydenHazor]

Aww, my arms are always open to you 😘

[JosyJosy]

Thanks for bringing that song up! As for your question...
I hope so! We are one year in, so I'm doing something right at least, may it last. I'm open and chatty to the people I'm close to, I'm also stubborn for the better or worse. I'm not a fan of materialistic gifts, I'm not that romantic either. My love language is more through acts of kindness. Same when receiving it, for example just cuddling up gives me more happiness than some fancy jewelry. We also share the same interests and humor so that's nice. And thanks to my parents I know how Not to argue. And it's not because he said yes, that I have him to myself now and I'm good. I must keep striving to be That Partner, only time will tell if I'll succeed or not.

[DizzyDesii]

Aww you know the song too

[midnightmoon05]

Ha!! Yes and no. I am and can be a really good partner. I also have my business way. Some guys can’t handle me with my ambition and passion towards what I want in life. Some I think they are too slow/weak for me.
that’s why it’s so important to know what one wants. Then I find some who is compatible with me.
I just reminded my boyfriend to tame my ambitions. I am so happy he understands me 🥰

[DizzyDesii]

Yes girl theyre too qeak to handle ya 👏

[Chikky]

Sometimes I think I do, other times I go batshit crazy and tell myself am not cut out for relationship. I'm cut up in between

[DizzyDesii]

Just lean more towards the fact that you're cut out for it but steady improving daily and you’ll know you're headed in the right direction :)

[Chikky]

@DizzyDesii thanks babe, I think that's a nice way to put it😊

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

That's not up to me to decide. Naturally, I would say that I am loving, caring, kind, and loyal to my partners. I am also able to communicate any issues that I have in a relationship well enough. Normally, these are personality characteristics that can ensure a healthy relationship. However, certain aspects of my personality might not be desirable to some men, such as the fact that I'm brutally honest, spontaneous, and don't often respond to certain messages quickly. Beginning with brutal honesty, I don't believe in sugarcoating anything to avoid hurting feelings. When I'm in a relationship, I believing in telling a man the honest truth whether he wants to hear it or not. For example, during sex, if he can't go any deeper when I'm begging him to do it and he already has his dick fully penetrated to the bone, I have to explain to him that his dick is just too little. I'm not one of those girls that tell him that it "doesn't matter," but cheat behind his back. If his technique is bad to where he doesn't know how to hit the right spot, or he constantly has to stop to prevent himself from cumming too quickly, I inform him that he needs to improve his sex game or it's over. I've never been the type to lie to a man to save his ego because, at the end of the day, the health of the relationship is more important than anybody's ego. Thus, if a man constantly wants a pat on the back and to be told little white lies, then he might not think I have the personality to be with him.

Proceeding with my spontaneousness, I very rarely plan things other than my daily fitness exercises. Most often, I tend to combine work and play. Doing this makes me procrastinate often and it could make me seem lazy to some men. For example, most of my day consists of working 12 hours a day 4 days of the week with 3 off days. During those hours before work or on my days off, I do what I please without planning. As a result, I might push aside something that I should have done earlier such as basic chores at times. Thus, if any man wants me to be fully organized and consistent in my habits with a day planner, he might be disappointed. My lifestyle is very happy-go-lucky. Ending with not responding to messages, I barely reply to text messages or even answer the phone that often unless its important. I usually spend most of my time either at work or in my zone with my earbuds in my ears. Whenever somebody calls me or sends me a message when my music is playing, that just kills my vibe. The best way to contact me, socialize, and have a good long conversation is to do it in person. Thus, any man that has an issue talking to me in person and constantly prefers to text or call might be disappointed in me when I likely respond to his texts 3 days later or return his calls like several hours later. If any man can put up with my brutal honesty, spontaneousness, and preference for talking in person rather than through phone calls or text, then I should be the perfect girl for him. Otherwise, I'm just a lazy, avoidant girl with an attitude problem.

[Jamie05rhs]

I love your honesty, Tiffany.
If I could give you some advice, though: I feel like with your "in-person" communication preference, you would only be able to have a good relationship if you were actually living with that person. (Because how else would they ever be able to talk to you?). ... But this in itself presents a problem, because you really want to get to know a man really well before moving in with him. Otherwise you might end up stuck in a domestic situation with someone who isn't safe.

[BUNroaster]

Sometimes. Other times I don't think it's "sexy enough" As in my personality kind of fluctuates and I rely on a default mode when I don't really know how I feel about something that I have to respond to. I'm fine admitting I'm still learning my perspective on things no matter the consequences of turning someone off. We all should always be willing to learn. I constantly look for ways to inspire for better and progress in any of my relationships. But I am uncultured largely as most would say so I never want to stay the same on a weekly to monthly basis for many reasons as I want to have that growth. I see anyone as capable of having infinite possibility for understanding if they don't base their character off of others. It's easier to work with a black and white mind though, and in majority we prefer easier than accurate. Politics and love and religion are all very similar to me, all run by different people with different opinions and agendas. a lot of power that could be used for so much better.

[DizzyDesii]

I think your personality is cool but sometmes i question your sexuality

[BUNroaster]

Haha how exactly?

[DizzyDesii]

U say questionable stuff lol

[BUNroaster]

Pfft lol fair. I'll let you know when I have the experiences to prove my straightness

The thought of actual contact with another penis is much more revolting than thoughts of being with delicant breasts and some swell vagina. But I like to notice why people find other things attractive. I'm an artist lol that's my excuse

[MCheetah]

Yes. I've been told by other women I do as well, however, that I (according to them) am lacking a key trait: "confidence." I've been told by several women that I "need more confidence." Although I hate ego and know I have too many flaws to think of myself as hot sh*t and infallible. I personally can't stand to be around people who are confident. I'm always thinking "Sit down! You aren't perfect!"

So even if it means a slightly higher chance to find a partner (even though my looks are still huge flaws in the eyes of women), I don't want to have an egotistical personality just to find someone. I know I have flaws and I know I have many things to work on about myself, even if some of those may take the rest of my life to overcome. Despite what girls have told me, I don't want to have an inflated ego just because single females would find it attractive. I have quite a few flaws that women would find unattractive, but lacking high self-pride seems to be the only real personality flaw, according to them.

And I think you have a good personality too, Dizzy.

My Pros and Cons sheet. (I like making spreadsheets.)

[DizzyDesii]

Thank you :) the only flaw i see in you is just that you have very pessimistic thoughts. Its okay to state them once but then you have to go on about your day. You can't change things like height, etc so its pointless to constantly bring it up. Let a girl love you for the things she does love about you :)

[MCheetah]

Thank you. I'm working on the pessimism, but the world just makes that a challenge for me. Maybe I need to start a gratitude journal or something.

[Lliam]

I don't know that I have the personality to be a great partner for many women. I'm kind of a handful. I'm not calm and even tempered like Ward Cleaver. I describe it as being blustery. I'm generally very reasonable, but I can occasionally have small outbursts that sound loud and angry to others when something annoys or frustrates me, but to me it doesn't feel like I'm angry. I think it's more like, I don't know, short bursts of funny, profanity-filled frustration. It don't mean nothing. It's just a very brief release of steam. I do it a lot when inanimate objects like computers don't cooperate. But over the years, I've come to realize that that's not what it looks like to others. I have a loud voice and those outbursts used to fill my wife with anxiety. But it didn't take too long for her to realize that I am completely harmless and don't mean to be scary. My dad used to do the same thing. He was usually very quiet, but every once in a while, very rarely, he would do that.

Like you, I’m also quite talkative but I do hear people out and listen carefully. I love to hear other points of view and am more than willing to accept advice. And I have great respect for my wife's intellect, intuition and perceptiveness.

I have a strong sense of humor. Even off color or politically incorrect cracks me up. I understand jokes that others often do not. I like to make funny quips but I don't like practical jokes.

I’m very sweet and loving. I have a good heart. I try to make others, even strangers, feel good. I'll acknowledge homeless people. I'm patient and friendly to cashiers and even people on the phone whose job it is to serve people.

My wife loves me and has come to understand and accept my flaws and idiosyncrasies. Of course, I have come to accept hers, as well.

I'm grateful for all my wife's hard work for so many other things about her. I tell her that I love her often. We've become a very good team.

[DizzyDesii]

I struggle with catching on to some jokes, especially sarcastic ones. It felt so good to help the homeless yesterday :) i can't say im that friendly otp with people because my current job consists of that and i get so many rude people that i have to mute the phone to cuss them out in silence 😂 And i’m glad you found a wife who knows you best :)

[DaveToo]

Over and over
I tried to prove my love to you
Over and over
What more can I do

Over and over
My friends say I'm a fool
But over and over
I'll be a fool for you

'Cause you got personality
Walk, with personality
Talk, with personality
Smile, with personality
Charm, with personality
Love, with personality

And of 'cause you've got
A great big heart

So over and over
Oh, I'll be a fool to you
Now over and over
What more can I do?

'Cause you got personality
Walk, with personality
Talk, with personality
Smile, with personality
Charm, with personality
Love, with personality

And of 'cause you've got
A great big heart

So over and over
Oh, I'll be a fool to you
Now over and over
What more can I do?

Over and over
I said that I love you
Over and over, honey
Now it's the truth

Over and over
They still say I'm a fool
But over and over
I'll be a fool for you

'Cause you got personality
Walk, with personality
Talk, with personality
Smile, with personality
Charm, with personality
Love, with personality

And of 'cause you've got
A great big heart

So over and over
Oh, I'll be a fool to you
Now over and over
What more can I do?

(As for me I have a very dry sense of humor to most of my friends, and a dirty mind to those who are particularly special to me. Loyal to a fault. Too fucking honest for my own good. Oh yeah, I'm a former sailor, and all that goes with it.)

[DizzyDesii]

I love love love this song. I sang it so much as a kid. It really was one of the best dance recitals of the 90s in my opinion haha. I dont think you have a dry sense of humor, at least not based off what I've seen so far. But yea being brutally honest is painful in my opinion. I prefer being honest in the nicest way possible. But wow you're a sailor Popeye!! How was ocean 😍

[DizzyDesii]

*the ocean

[DaveToo]

If you would like one story about a search and rescue I was involved in in the North Atlantic, PM me.

[mimi051998]

Maybe maybe not. I've been told I'm stubborn and mean so 🤷🏾‍♀️. I used to be very nice but some people took advantage of this. Some people need to know to treat people how you want to be treated. When I find the right guy than I'll try my best to be the best partner I can be. I'm not talkative unless I'm very comfortable around a person, I'm funny, ambitious, loyal, caring, and reliable.

[DizzyDesii]

Point taken 👏

[Sentimental_Stoic]

Nope.
I know what I am. And I am confident and optimistic and blah blah... lol
But from what has happened so far, I find myself asking this question a lot of times.
What if I am something that is not seen in a positive way by the girls I am intrested in. And when I am intrested, its INTENSE.
This has happened twice so far. So, now, I am afriad if I even have that personality or not.
And it's kind of a relief if I don't have that personality and she chooses to grow distant. Good for her. Can't ask for anything more.
I can't see this relationship fail, if it starts.
OK, I'll stop.
I guess this answer makes my slef doubts pretty obvious.. lmao..

[razelove]

Huh, first time I heard that song, sounds like something that should have made the cut for one of the fallout games though :) I love how upbeat it is, thanks for that.

[DizzyDesii]

Its a truly great song :)

[The_Maphio]

Well, 16 years and an incoming child would say that I'm good husband material. Then opinions may vary.

[DizzyDesii]

Sounds good

[DJB72]

I'm a stubborn, strong-willed, impulsive, loyal, faithful, hard-nosed Man of God.

As a father I hope my son will inherit most of that. Although he's already demonstrating some of it in spades - and not in a good way!

As a husband it has its benefits and drawbacks to be the way I am.

[DizzyDesii]

Is he into gambling? 😍

[DJB72]

He's 2. I hope not 🤣🤣🤣

[DizzyDesii]

Oh what did u mean by spades lmao

[DJB72]

It's something my grandpa used to say when he meant a behaviour was massively predominant. He's incredibly strong-willed and stubborn. I love that, but it needs to be tempered.

[Jjpayne]

I think you do... You should be a person of interest. Someone that you desire to be with. The difference between this

and this

It's not that guys or girls have be a certain way all the time but they should have an attractive personality for the other partner to enjoy

[Jjpayne]

I love that song too by the way!

[DizzyDesii]

Yes it was a great song :) and yea i dont think people always have to be upbeat but they should be themselves which may already be a natural energy around others

[Jjpayne]

I agree with that

[PaynefulPleasures]

I love that song 😍
I have a good personality
Confident not cocky
Fun
Outgoing
Love to laugh
Great sense of humor
Give you my last dime
Help anyone no matter what time of the day
Opinionated
Stubborn
Thinker & a doer
Giver
Try to give good advice
Listener
Go above & beyond
Strong
Determined
I think that's it ✌️

[DizzyDesii]

Yea i love the song as well. Thats great that you're a thinker and doer. More people should think before acting

[PaynefulPleasures]

Yes most definitely ✌️

[Hans222]

I would do my very best. As I've never had a partner, I'd cherish her ❤

[DizzyDesii]

Awww :)

[serious]

In my own ways YES. However the truth is I don't need a woman in my life.

[DizzyDesii]

Alright

[msbrightness]

Most certainly - a career, reliability, loyalty, playfulness, confidence and a liking for being humble

[DizzyDesii]

Sounds great

[Wiredone]

I think i have a good personality. I am stubborn, it's the German in me. I'm caring, and loving. I have a good sense of humor. I'm better at giving then receiving. I don't judge anyone. I'm a good listener and can hold a conversation well. I will give the shirt off my back if someone needs it. I will put my life on the line for friends and family and always willing to give advice when asked.

[DizzyDesii]

Im judgmental af 😂 but i accept that i have flaws as well. Im a sucky listener but love to talk and will hear the person out enough to understand the best way to respond. I wouldn't give the shirt off my back but i’d buy for others in need. It felt good helping the homeless yesterday. I wouldn't out my life on the line for anyone other than a child or my future children. You have good traits though :)

[Wiredone]

I'm not going to lie, I have flaws too. Nobody is perfect. I think it might be awkward if you took your shirt off and gave it to someone although, it would just look like a bikini top depending on the type of bra you were wearing. Lol. You have a great personality. That's why I like talking with you.

[DizzyDesii]

Haha thank you :) and yea i better not give them the shirt off my back because most of the time im not wearing a bra 🤣

[Wiredone]

You're welcome. Hmmm. I'm hard on my luck, can I have the shirt off your back? Lmbo. I'm just kidding.😂🤣

[MaelE]

I don't think I do. I'm only good in relationships with people who need space, because I'm always so busy with my own things that I tend to forget others. I don't really get involved, which is obviously my bad, but i usually don't realize it until it's too late.

[Mehzmeh]

I am a chef all day. Which means I am a ass hole. But I am told I nicest person you could meet. (Oximorn right?). I am the first to laugh at my mistakes. And take responsibility for them. I am also the first to apologize. I am the first to make everyone smile as well. Lol

[DizzyDesii]

I know so many chefs who are nice til they land that Masterchef position. Then theyre mean 😂 I understand yiu have to get the staff together but stay fun-loving when cooking.

[Mehzmeh]

Master chef position? You mean executive chef postion. Lol. Master chef is a title. Only like 10 people in the world holds that title. Lol

[TallAnon]

I feel like I've heard my parents talk about him, but I haven't heard his music myself.
Regarding the actual question, maybe. I think I'm a better person when I'm with someone, because then I actually give a shit about looks, cleaning and going out at that point. I want her to be happy and think well of me.
On my own I'm messy, don't go out much and live pretty unhealthy.

[DizzyDesii]

What do you think of the song above by him? I always loved the chorus. I definitely care about looks but i also try to see if they have the personality to match. I’m also a homebody but when at home, whats stopping you from working out? Eat whatever you want, just in small balanced increments a few days a week and then eat healthy the majority of the week. Its working for me so far

[TallAnon]

Oh currently we're not allowed to work out here, gyms are closed, etc.
Song isn't really my thing, to be honest