Do you think some people know that they will fall in love with someone the first time they meet?

[WowwGirl]

#wowgirlRocks

Ex: A online relationship or overseas relationship.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yeah, you can tell by the way both couples look into the eyes of each other it's really something now my very first girlfriend, forget it she would walk into partial and she was a complete Debbie Downer when I would tell her that she looked pretty well she told me she didn't feel pretty, now to think about things that did hurt me... See I'm not a guy who is big on looks when it comes to a girl, I just want a girl who likes to smile, laugh, be funny, be silly, loves to cuddle, loves hugs, loves kisses

[FlutteringFeelings]

I wouldn’t call it love more like lust or the idea of love. Love isn’t a feeling it’s a commitment. To say “I love you” means I want to make sure your feelings are safe with me, sacrifice my time to make sure you’re okay through the good and bad, and love you regardless whether it’s on your good or bad days. The honeymoon phase of dating or a relationship will be dead soon but to continue the promise to remain consistent and loyal is key. The two will find ways to keep the relationship interesting by going on dates and speak each other’s love languages.

[PeacefulRainDrop]

I dont think you can know you will love someone before you meet them I think that you can truly care about someone and the spills over when you meet them and you love the way you feel around them but loving a person I think takes time and in person is much different than online!

[Crazybeeguy]

So, online can be like catfishing, you have to meet first.
Also, I have international female friends. One is younger 24 I think, I give her friendship support. She kind of gives me that, I want be your girlfriend then wife vibe. Then I have a older female international friend, I vibe well with we talked about marriage, then I was like we known each other for years why not? Still wants me to visit first and spend time with her, before she decides to do so.

So, sounds like you need to meet first.

[jennifer_bloom]

The last guy that I liked, I noticed him the first time I saw him but it took around 1-1.5 months to decide that I was interested in him and it took him around 1-3 months to decide he liked me and than CoVid lockdowns separated is.

[Siren777]

It is possible to fall in love with an ideal type. Like they meet your physical criteria... does it last? If based on only physical attraction/sexual attraction maybe but there is always a possibility of wavering. It is up to the person and how they view love.

[loveslongnails]

You know wowgirl, when I was in my late teens and twenties, I thought each new girl I met was someone I'd fall in love with !! At least at first I did. I always got so freaking excited when I met someone new. I thought all that initial giddiness would just last forever. But nooooo, that's not how it turns out, is it?

Eventually, I just got to the point where I recognized the excitement, was glad I felt it, but didn't much stake in it and just waited to see what would happen. It sure made relationships easier at the time !!

[Interstate]

That is impossible. You can't love a person without knowing them. When a person falls for another, they are basically falling in love with the overall profile that makes the person what they are. You can't know somebody's profile without knowing the person. Otherwise, you are just simply falling in love with their immediate physical appearance.

[MasseurDeMojo]

This is complicated. There are those who have fallen in love as soon as they met a person, but in most cases, they already had a preconceived idea of what they were looking for in a relationship, and the person they fell head over heels for, actually fit their perception in every detail; so they knew that was their one!!

For the majority, it is about testing the waters, till they have found their one!!!

[exitseven]

I do believe that. I met my wife one day and even though she wanted nothing to do with me I knew that I was in love with her.

[WowwGirl]

Aww thats sweet

[exitseven]

it was crazy but thats the way it happened.

[sheikalana]

I knew I was going to marry my now husband the moment I saw him.

[WowwGirl]

Awesome

[CaribbeanGuy91]

Nop, that's attraction, lust. I knew that I was going to marry my wife when I first met her but I married her because I got to know her and love the person behind the beauty. We just happen to love each other after some time together.
You can't love a person you don't know. It's not how love works. Why you think it's foolish to marry a person immediately after you first meet them, even that you are in "love"?

[Jjpayne]

I am not sure although, attaction to them, similar interests after talking and similar life goals... You could fall in love with a person depending on how much you did in one day 🤔

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, I have fallen for that a couple of times. But I was wrong.

[ChiTown33]

Most my guy friends told me when they met their wives that they were certain when they met her. They were certain that they were either going marry or murder her.

[blondfrog]

Possibly but very unlikely and def not me you bastard :).

[Mehzmeh]

Nah, not at all. It's infatuation. Nothing more. Lol

[Miah02]

Your examples probably not know, but more like hope

[CallmeTheKnight]

You can't love someone you never met. You can lust over them, but love, no. A lot of lonely people are susceptible to that.

[Floppy2112]

I don’t think so. Real connection has to happen in person, otherwise you’re just in love with your imagination.

[DiegoO]

I had no fricking clue I was gonna be in a 3 years LDR. It ended 4 years ago, but it was interesting.

[scott04sa22]

I heard people from oversea have bigger 🍆 then us 🤷🏻‍♂️

[hellacray]

We call those people idiots.

I don't believe in love at first sight.

[deeks1121]

From my personal experience, I get really attached to people when we have a good connection going and it doesn't always include sexual